See J. Geils Band song "First I Look At The Purse".
Also their avocado- green Hyundai selves look BETTER next to a Honda Civic than next to the Bugatti Veyron. Plus, the ulterior motives exist (in many cases) to get in the less attractive woman's pocket-book and commit infidelities of their own and let themselves GO without reprehension so they can more easily loaf about unshaven and walk around the house with ease as slobs. Fact is, many of these men who go for women who are out of their aesthetic-league DO SO because they are intimidated, INSECURE and paranoid that an attractive woman will stray or get lured away from him or make HIM look and feel 'less- than' ... so he goes for the less aesthetically-pleasing woman because , to HER , he will always be seen as superior looking. SOME of these men enter into such an aesthetically-unmatched marriage full intention to use and abuse & cheat on the less attractive women because they know the good looking woman would be less inclined to tolerate that; she'd either file for divorce OR go get some (sex-on-the-side) of her own; being the equally-attractive person and this type of man KNOWS this. His fragile ego could not handle that cold, hard FACT that he is REPLACEABLE.
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I dated an attractive guy for years. When I made the effort I could look attractive but a lot of the time I looked not so good. And I know there were times when people thought to themselves what dose he see in her.
I was so taken by his good looks that I put up with more then I should have. I feel these men feel more in control when they date an unattractive women. For a start having a beautiful girlfriend means lots of men hitting on her. And often attractive men have there girlfriend they rely on but also have attractive women on the side for casual affairs, as they are hard work. So keep looks out of it and seek someone's heart. Yes! yes ! everyone this isn't always the case. But it dose happen this way with some individuals.
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men these days are insecure and messed up in the head. Think, on the outside he looks good, on the inside he's messed. He chooses an ugly b/c he has more control over her, and she'll kiss his a** and worship him and do anything for him. He feels secure with her, and not lesser and he looks better than her. He's better than her. he wants to be the hot woman. she's going to be the man. he has issues
There are too many variables to give a defined answer to this question but I think a lot of it has to be with how she treats him. Attitude and the way she carries herself is also major factors in winning someone's affection. Guys tend to resent self centered, self serving high maintenance women. Women who tend to realize that she has a lot of suitors, she sometimes get lose herself and tends to increase her value of self worth, in negative ways from all the attention and as her character fades, so will her stock.
Even as such, more often I see beautiful women with ugly men more than the other way around.
Perhaps she has an amazing personality to offer beyond her beauty. Certainly for a lot of football players (or soccer) its kinda funny how they all have stardom quality wifes yet are always getting divorced every few years. I guess aftr the looks fade, the relationship gets to a point where all they have left is the personality and a lot of them just expect their looks to be enough without being able to hold a conversation or express. But maybe the guys preference is actually the women you seee them with, everyones different, a lot of guys don't find the type of girls I'm attracted to as attractive as I do
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she turns him on. I knew a lady that was not exactly a runway model...she never wore makeup, nothing fancy about her clothing or wore jewelry or perfume. Nothing I would consider classic femminine dress up. But I found her mildy attractive, we got along fairly well and little by little she became very beautyful to me and she really knew how to push my buttons sexually. She was no runway model, she was heavy, tough as nails( she was a police officer) but can..on a dime...be the most divine femminine creature on earth...ohhh baby...she knew how to play me...that was some experience...i miss her, lol. ***need five minutes alone** ;-)
the thing is that YOU find these women ugly. beauty is in the eye of the beholder :-).
beauty is not only on the exterior. like I said in another post, the WHOLE package counts...Attitude is everything to me. Any "attractive female" with a rude attitude or small mind is out for me.
I know plenty of hot girls that are total snobs and there is no way in hell I would dream of asking them out, regardless of whether or not they would say yes. I see them, and I run away faster than a raped ape.
And with all due respect, I do not find you physically attractive. Lose the nose ring and hair dye. Get a better attitude, and you will probably have better luck.Has there ever been a moment where you walked out of the house looking raggedy or your hair wasn't done because you maybe weren't feeling good or were PMSing or had a bad day? I don't think it's right to judge or ask why good looking guys date ugly women because we've all had our moments. It's what's on the inside that counts the most. Not our appearance. We're all beautiful in our own way.
1) she is nice
2) she is funny
3) she has money
4) she lets him f*** her in the ass...Maybe we think you're unapproachable? How do you act around guys? Hot girls usually get hit on less because most guys think that either it's a waste of an effort, or are afraid of being shot down. If you're interested in a guy make it obvious.
Lose the facial metal and you're look will improve. Also, try making the first move next time and introduce yourself to a guy you like. If you think you're attractive, you could be giving off a vibe that you're too good to get, and men like the attainable.
I don't know, but I don't find men attractive anyway, so maybe they just got low standards.
Also there are maaaany couples where's a really pretty girl but a guy who looks just terrible! Really makes me wonder...
- but you have to consider that today there's an enormous pressure from society not to be single, so if you're single it means that you suck.. so people just drop their standards.. to find someone, anyone..They may happen to think that the girl is very pretty. Beauty is subjective. Just because you find the girl to look ugly doesn't mean he feels the same. She may also have a wonderful personality, have good qualities they are looking for but on the other hand the guy also could be with her only because she's good in bed or they're desperate or something negative like that. There could be many reasons actually.
There are many possibilities.Either the girls' personality is awesome or they are intimidate with attractive girls.Some of them 'think' that beautiful girls are bitchy,have high standard and get hit a lot by other guys.So they don't want to deal with all that.
maybe she has something called "cool personality." looks are just 50% when comes to serious relationship.
and yeah, piercing doesn't help you.The women who have treated me the best usually aren't the most beautiful. Sometimes we get tired of dealing with all the baggage that comes with dating the beauties. Those lacking in the looks department usually work hard to make up for it in other ways.
I love seeing " ugly " gals with good looking men , it tells me that they have something going for them that we can't quite pin point. { unless he is sadistically controlling } ... but mostly I dont beleive that is the case, ... the truth is that they have something beautiful togather
The guys obviously find something attractive in these "ugly" women, and the women like something about those men. One thing men really like is a woman who is into them and is straight-forward about it instead of having to chase her until she gets tired of playing hard-to-get.
Maybe in their eyes that chick is drop dead gorgeous.
Maybe your problem is your attitude?
I disagree with every single thing you said here.
Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Personality is also very important.
keep looking pretty, maybe change your attitude little bit ;)
Just here to tell you that you are nowhere near attractive, you are fugly.
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