if you love him support him. I doubt that he'll be bartender for the rest of his life. but you'll only bring about anger and feelings of lack of support if you dump simply because at 18 he decides to be a bartender.
your biggest issue seems to be what you call the "lifestyle". that is a presumption of what bartenders are when the majority are bartenders because it is a job, short and simple.
I can understand if you want to see more ambition out of him but if you simply object to being a bartender because of what you perceive is a negative life I think that's unfair
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well he can't get a bartneding job till he's 21 anyway, and im sure you two will have split by then. also you can't really tell us what sort of jobs we're allowed and not allowed to have you dont own us. if u have a problem with it, leave. you shouldn't be having sex with an 18 year old anyway, most likely, where you are, its illegal
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Just keep your ideas to yourself. AS you can forsee, it will only cause a fight. You're way too young to be worried about things that may or may not happen 10 years from now.
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