Well, you have to look at things from his point of view: his wife makes the income, she does all the work; she's basically running the whole thing. For a lot of men, that would be seen as a sort of failure, so he is actually depressed and a little apathetic. I think that if you were to ask him out to the zoo, the movies or to go jogging, you would make his day. When you engage with him more socially, I think he'd be willing for a change, but the man here is sedentary and tired, you're just making him more defensive. He is behaving the way he does without understanding why he does it, it's time for someone to help him improve.
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Sound like you should move the fuck out!
One can only tolerate so much, if your mom wants to hold out for whatever reason thats on her.
However you may be his daughter, you should be free now and hopefully find one better than what your mom found, or not even chance it.
He might be a jerk but you still have to respect him. When we respect our parents - even if they don't deserve it - we reward ourselves and not them. You have no right to tell him that he doesn't deserve respect - he gave birth to you - it's not your place to judge him. Honour him - forgive his mistakes and move on. He will get what is coming to him when he dies and probably before that as well.
Most 18 year old girls fart in their dad’s faces. My sisters and I farted in each other’s faces and farted on our dad. Farting on people is how teenage girls and young women behave. It’s completely inappropriate for a grown man to do that.
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If your mom really loves him then you and her need to make more of an effort to improve him by either using @Plato's Solution or if you want him out of your life ask your mom how she feels about him and if she wants a divorce.
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