Boyfriend going on a holiday with his mates?

[Anonymous]

my BF is going away for 10 days in Thailand with his best mates in Italy and London and they're all just gonna meet up there. Anyway, I'm really scared. I mean they're all boys and 2 lesbians.

I trust my boyfriend but still, anything could happen right? 😞 he said he's worried that while he's away, I'm gonna cheat on him and I said what if you will! And he said AH come on babe don't think that...
I don't know :( he's going to be so busy and GONNA have so much fun which I understand.

But AHH I don't know I can't stop worrying :/ especially if they all go to a club whatsoever there and yeahh :( but I'm sure his mates also has girlfriends. What would you do if you were in my place? I do trust him but I don't know why I'm worrying so much. I'm ok with it atm cause of course, I want him to also have fun and spend time with his best friends.

But at the same time I'll be stuck here worrying and wondering when the day comes when he goes on his holiday. He's probably gonna be too busy it's not like they're gonna get wasted every night right? Plus he has his friends and I'm sure they also have girlfriends

Also he is very very jealous and overprotective he said he's mostly worried about me cheating while he's gone. But I don't know :(

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+1 y

But I doubt my bf will cheat, he's loyal and doesn't seem like he would. But like I said, anything could happen...

[LateKnighter]

well why is he going on such a trip, honestly sounds like a lets go fuck around and party trip, then feel shit about it later. still a loyal guy might keep his shit together, but not if he gets drunk and his friend try to get him laid...

Make him Skype you every night or internet call at least once, at least then it will be hard for him to forget you, so he will be less likely to cheat, and it should make him feel safer too.

[Regnatrix]

I'd say as long as you two trust each other to be loyal to one another even with the distance, everything should be alright! Has he ever been gone this long on a vacation before while you were dating him? :3

[Asker]

Nope. Plus he hasn't given any reasons for me not to trust him but the idea that he's going away worries me

[Regnatrix]

It's perfectly normal to worry about your lover while he's gone. I would believe that if he really cared about you, he wouldn't try a thing as to flirt or any other activities you wouldn't approve. Although with worrying about the same thing, I think you two will be fine ^_^

[jackyct]

you're not with him? that's a no go. i wouldn't allow him. its the nr1 prostitution place and literally every slut is looking for some white dick. pussy isn't any more then 10 bucks over there. lots of std's as well. i'm pretty certain he ain't gonna resist when all of his buddys go to love motels with some hoes.

[Ashari]

Usually the person that keep worrying the partner will cheat actually the cheater... My friend's bf went to Thailand and find prostitutes becoz all his mates doing so. He admit it after that but it still sucks for her to hear it. U should be worrying

[Neverwrong05]

Men go to Thailand for prostitutes, it's a tradition in there, i pity you.

[cth96190]

If he goes to Thailand without you, refuse to have sex with him until he has been back for three months and can give you a copy of a blood test for STDs.
Nobody in their right mind would want to go to Thailand, Bali, or any other Asian shithole. As we said during my time with the army, what does not have VD has TB.
Then there are the Thai ladyboys, who look convincing as females and offer to suck tourist's socks for a few baat. He would get herpes for sure, plus possibly syphilis and/or HIV.

[nickstaa]

If he's into ladyboys then I would be careful. But seriously if he's loyal then I doubt he will cheat.

The temptation to have one night stands is always there while traveling, everyone is all happy, alcohol is flowing, people have their own hotel rooms, it's almost a recipe to cheat, but if your relationship is going good and he's loyal then nothing will happen.

[HarryStyles]

If your insecurities look to restrict your bf, then you will surely loose him quicker than if he were to be unfaithful. There is nothing worse than staying at home not having any fun while everyone else is out... so... why not go on holiday yourself?

[meatballs21]

Anything *could* happen, you have to trust each other that it won't.

[Klaatu51]

don't worry they won't eat him