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This boy is figuring out some shit, and you do not have to take the damage for it. Wish him the best and drop him, he made his decision now you hold him to it or no decision he ever makes with you will matter
not saying its correct but realistically men are goin to cheat u dont have to stay or deal with it but 10 out of 10 u leaving this cheater to get another.. especially if he is young he dont no what he wants both live y'all life but do it with each other set boundaries n respect
Leave him. He is lying to you. You need to get over him it will be hard time but you will find someone better who will respect you and believe you are his world and never will cheat you. You can do it girl just let him go
The second you say cheated you can assume his expertise is bullshit.
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I stopped reading at drunken mistake. If he was only smoking then it was no "drunk mistake." Hell i don't even believe in drunk mistakes, but if he was only smoking bud, then he knew what he was doing. Weed doesn't turn you into a braindead zombie going with the flow. Just do him and yourself the favor and cut him out now. You should never waste someone's time with how limited our time here on Earth is. Once the opportunity for him to cheat will make itself available he's going to take it up again. Dont waste either of your guy's time and just leave now before its too late you have his kid or something...
It's done. Don't take him back. I say this for a couple of reasons. 1st, you don't trust him (which you shouldn't). A relationship will never work without trust. 2nd, a cheater won't stop cheating so easily. This was so soon, he needs time to really learn that this on acceptable behavior or good at all for a relationship.
Now I'm not saying this relationship is doomed forever. If time goes by without any contact between you two and you eventually start dating again, who knows what can happen when you both have time to mature. I would say though that if that happens to take it slow and look to see if there are signs if maturity in him compared to now.Trust is a strong feeling. However, where is the guarantee that the next partner won't cheat? I'd day if you can find it in yourself to forgive him you should also try to trust him. However, test him. If he refuses to tell the entire truth you should not trust him.
I was about to say you should at least consider giving him a second chance because it only happened once but then you said he's done it on several occasions to other women. That's an enormous red flag. I would say thanks but no thanks to an offer like that in this context
Absolutely do not take him back. If you were his world he wouldn't have cheated. You're not his world, you're his sex machine to boost his ego and self worth.
I dont understand the terminology, ie: sesh, shag,? Cheating on you IS treating you badly. You're young and do you really want to start off life like that? Get yourself a real man around your age who acts like a man. Men dont cheat on a woman, they'll sit down with the lady and explain he's not happy because... and just walk away. Yes feelings are hurt, but its the right way to end things.
I wouldn't unless he has been seeming panicky at the thought of you leaving.
DUMP 👏 HIS 👏 ASS 👏 look he's playing you for a fool, and keeping you as a spare. You don't deserve that. It's better to be alone than to be with someone who is treating you badly
Lol. "He's cheated on many girls in the past". Girl, LEAVE.
Is he going to show her he loves her too? Don't walk away, run!
A drunken mistake that he tried to get with immediately after so he wouldn't have to be alone. Leave him be
No, you should not.
Imagine the second time he betrays you, will you be his galaxy?I'm a man and I think he is only with you for his enjoyment. Something like kissing or having sex etc..
Leave.. what if he gets drunk again.. once a cheat always a cheat
Don't go back. He doesn't have feelings for you or he wouldn't had cheated
Honestly, I wouldn't. Coming from a guy... you need to know. Once a cheater.. always a cheater...
He tried something different and now he realized you were the right one for him. I would give him another chance. He made a mistake and he lied because he was ashamed of it.
Just find a good guy. Ya know, one that doesn't lie, cheat play games.
so you weren't his world before he cheated?
Just dump him, move on.
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