I met this guy about a year ago, and we started texting. The first time we hung out, we did some stuff; but that wasn't to his pleasure, so he "cut me off". About a month later, he texted me wanting to try again, and once again it "didn't work out". So after being cut off about 4 times, this past time we have been going steady for a little over a month. I've done more with him than I have with any other guy. We hung out 2 days ago, and I did as much as he said it would take to satisfy him, but keep in mind I enjoy it too, and I only do what I'm comfortable with. But last night he texted me saying he didn't want to hook up anymore, and it broke my heart. We text 24/7, but when we see each other around people, we don't talk. He said he still wants to be friends, but I know that he "cut me off" once again and that goes from talking constantly to not at all, and I can't even wrap my mind around not talking to him anymore. He told me numerous times he didn't want a girlfriend, and I didn't want a boyfriend. Im completely lost and heartbroken. Should I text him and tell him how I feel or should I give it time? im really mad at myself for trusting him and doing stuff with him, but it made me happy and He made me feel special. Ugh, help!
Maybe you just need IT, not him? If you have a general tension between your legs or get wet from other guys, you should probably just move on. This is based on personal experience. Write me personally if you want to know more... Good luck!
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You did want a boyfriend otherwise you wouldn't be "heartbroken". The first thing you do is stop lying to yourself. He told you exactly what he does and doesn't want. You want something different, so you have to move on.
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