I found poop stains on my boyfriends underwear? Grossed out! What do I do?

[sfloyd16]

So sometimes I do my boyfriends laundry. Mainly socks and underwear. Or I'll mix some of his clothes in with mine and two times now I have found poop stains on his underwear! Mostly just on his tighter pairs.

I've never said anything to him about it bc I don't want to embarass him. But he's gotta know it's there right? And he's never acted weird about me washing his underwear.

It's so gross though. Is this a normal thing? Should I just act like I don't see it? Should we have a talk about his hygiene?

[PuppyKay]

Well obviously its normal because everyone shts. However he doesn't wipe his arse off properly. You should have a word with him lol. he's old enough. My little brother only does this... he's 11. Lol. A grown man should know how to wipe it. No offense. Just have a word don't embarrass him. Just be easy.

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Sometimes you can wipe your ass as clean as it can be and you can still manage to get shit stains on your underwear but i have the best hygiene

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

You may want tell your Bf do is own laundry or bring it to his attention

[NerdInDenial]

He should use flush-able wipes. Buy him some and put it in his bathroom. Using just toilet paper is not that clean.

[Kroakies_krickees]

I totally agree with you. Buying him some wipes is discreet and won't embarrass him. But it also helps to get your point across without having to sit down and talk about it too.

[swampdonkeys]

He's telling you that he loves you in his own special way...

Oh... and I've seen a'plenty of panties with sqid marks...

[I_M_LEGEND]

No I wipe until there's nothing g. Then I wipe some more. That's disgusting... And embarrassing af.

[tinyclit]

Oops, ran out of TP and you've got D. Accidents happen.

[Anonymous]

On tighter underwear it can happen a lot. I don't know about this being "normal" but it's understandable I suppose.

[Anonymous]

Just exactly what do you think underwear is for anyway? Shit happens. Literally.

[Jersey1]

Normal. Ask any married woman.

[Songbird686]

Um, not normal! My ex husband did not have this issue!

[Jersey1]

Common=normal, not everyone

[forever4us]

Called skid marks