I regularly see a urologist for this now and it took a few tries to find one who even seemed interested in really helping. I have also been to a neurologist and psychologist. I've had plenty of awful tests done and tried a lot of medications for nothing so far. It seems the problems gotten slightly worse actually.
Anyway I have had my girlfriend for 4 years now and she is amazing to me, but this problem is starting to cause fighting. She has asked me to try wearing adult diapers several times, but I can't stand the thought of it. I feel like I'd lose any dignity I have left. And I'm scared the problem might become worse quicker this way.
Last night I had an accident on her couch and although I cleaned it best as I could this led to a huge fight. She went out and bought a bag of depends diapers and told me she'd give me a few days to think about wearing them. If not she said she would have to think about "us". I don't want to lose her. I am humiliated just thinking of wearing diapers though. My urologist didn't seem too keen on it either. Any ideas or advice or opinions would help a lot. This was hard for me to post so please dont make fun.
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