I used a fake number on whatsapp to prank my boyfriend telling him I was a girl who wanted to date him, but now he's hitting on her! What shoul I do?

[Anonymous]

HELPPP! I've been into these prank videos on youtube and I decided to catfish my boyfriend on whatsapp using another girls picture and another mobile phone of mine. But now he's flirting on her, and even though he declined a date with her he's still flirting with her, asking her about herself and being a DICK. What am I supposed to do now? I'm getting angrier and angrier!!!

[jroe91]

I don't know you, nor do I know your boyfriend, and thus cannot no all of the details of the situation. Keeping that in mind, here are my two cents:

Should you have done a prank like this? No, it is dishonest, shady, and just generally not a good idea.

Should he be flirting back? The only thing that you said concretely that he's doing is asking her about herself. If that's all he's doing, that's not flirting. I ask people about themselves every day, it's just a normal topic of conversation.

That being said, let's assume he is sending flirty messages. There is a chance, I don't know how much since I don't know the man, but there is a chance that he has a flirty personality. If that's the case, that doesn't mean that he's trying to get in the girl's pants, it's just the way he interacts with people. Heck, I know people that sometimes flirt just to flirt and have no meaning behind it. The best thing that he has going for him is that he declined a date. If the man declined a date, it means the flirting was most likely not serious.

So, what to do? You have to come clean. Each minute that goes by, you are convincing yourself that he's a terrible person and a jerk, which he well may be, and each minute that thought becomes more imprinted in your mind and harder to remove. As I've pointed out, he could just have a flirty personality or not be flirting seriously, in which case there's no reason that you two can't work this out, but it will be harder to do so the longer you let this fester on.

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

It sounds like these are true signs that he can cheat on you
now you got decide if you want pursue the relationship with him
i done the same thing with my last ex girlfriend, i called her on phone
pretended to be another guy ( i changed my voice) she told this
other guy she was planning on breaking up with me..

[Anonymous]

Using the fake no continue talking to him... get to know other side of your boyfriend... ask him if he has a girlfriend... see his reply... if he is good he should let this fake number know about you... see if he talks sexually to this fake number... try flirting like a slut with him.. see his reaction... a good guy will stop talking to such female... if he comes out clean tell him That she was you and ask forgiveness... if he is a cheating bastard then tell him about she was you and break up... simple... tc... I hope he is a good guy

[Checkers82]

He declined the date so I think that's good. I think you should just end the prank in a joking kind of natter and see his reaction. If he laughs along then you're all good but if he freaks out and panics your relationship is probably in trouble

[XRabbitHeartX]

Neither of you are mature enough to be in a relationship. I'd say break up. Pranking a boyfriend like that is childish and his behavior isn't right either.

[allahu_snackbar]

Well you're both in the wrong really. There is only one answer, break up because he's a cheater and you're a devious beyatch.

[Asker]

But I just wanted to make a joke! I didn't plan on testing him or that sort of shit!

[allahu_snackbar]

You have an insane sense of humor, it's funny from the outside but I'd be pissed if my girl did that. I wouldn't flirt with a random chick though. I think you know the reaction you should have got with this fake thing "sorry I'm taken" not "sssuuup baby?" lmao. If you want a faithful boyfriend you should leave this guy to find one.

[Anonymous]

I try to tell women not to do things like this because the truth hurts sometime. But no one listens until they learn the hard way. As women we like to think we know who love well but when women get curious and start doing things it can hurt the woman. I think you should stop messaging him and evaluate why you want to be with him

[Goldie757]

https://www.reactiongifs.com/r/2013/07/stupid.gif

Just confront him.

[Anonymous]

What exactly is the joke/prank you were doing?
Best case scenario... you flirt, he turns you down/stops talking to you and then what?

"Oh I got you, I knew you wouldn't flirt... it was me all along"
How's that funny?

[Asker]

Okay I do not have a good sense of humor, whatever, I thought it could be funny, I didn't think things would come out this way

[Opinion Owner]

He already declined the date, he's most likely just being nice and you think it's flirting.
Just quit while you're ahead.

[Onlyinit4fun]

Send a selfie with BUSTED! and turn your back on him. You're young anyway might as well be single for a while and meet others.

[Anonymous]

I'd be like "My friend told me you was hitting on her on whatsapp." Then I'd simply break up with him

[Jamie271197]

If I was you I would stop it before it goes too far and gets way out of hand..
You could tell him the truth or just stop using that account? Maybe delete it?

[Asker]

But how should I treat him now that I know that if any kind of girl who writes to him he will talk to her like this?

[Jamie271197]

Well, I think the best option would be just to confront him, if you let it slide it's just going to keep naggin at you and making you unsure of your relationship. is he one of those people who flirts with practically everyone? if you really want to keep going in this relationship, you're definitely going to need to trust him, and he needs to know that, maybe suggest that you both work on building up that trust again and go from there?

[OrangeBoy]

Are you sure he's seriously hitting her? Maybe is beeing polite or nice? Do you have certains?

[Asker]

I know him quite well and I know he's not the kind of person who uses tons of emojis and stuff like that (but he's doing it right now!) He declined a date because he has a girlfriend but then he agreed to go out and meet the girl for a coffee.. I don't know what to think.

[OrangeBoy]

Before go any longer, do not say nothing to him yet.
You should wait to see if he talks to you about some girl (you) that started talking to him.
Eventually you may use your second character to make him understand that's not very cool to betray a girl etc...

[Anonymous]

tell him about it dont be mad with him because u are the one whom mislead him

[SkaterDude]

next time hid behind a tree which has a hole and see if you boyfriends hits on it too

[Stacyzee]

Ask him to Skype,
And then he will see your face.

[Diamondtj]

Lol I tried doing this before. Joke was on me though. He knew it was me the whole time haha

[Anonymous]

well, I am sorry but your boyfriend is a dick, and you deserve better than that. If I were you, I'd dump the fucker.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, it's not really cool to do those types of things. It only creates unnecessary drama

[KidanisCortes]

Lol shadiness came. back to bire you in the ass

[zombiebabe]

confront him about it then dump him

[Words_and_Wisdom]

Karma: What goes around comes around.

[MilitaryNation]

That'ds what you get for being a bitch.

[Asker]

Do you think I was a bitch for pranking him like that? I just didn't think much about it, it just seemed fun, but I guess it was not afterall

[MilitaryNation]

That is pretty low

[Anonymous]

Silly girl. Emphasis on the 'girl'

[Anonymous]

You guys definitely deserve each other...