That's a tough one... I've been in the same boat with my current boyfriend. I caught him smoking once while he was drunk (he had quit for almost 2 years because I'm not a fan). He lied to my face that he didn't and didn't even remember doing it the next day. So, when he goes off drinking with friends, I now wonder what he'll do and not recall. It's a tough situation, but it says a lot about both of our relationships. We aren't sure we can trust them when they've been drinking. I'm not sure about you, but I think I'm going to be breaking mind off after this summer if things don't get better. I suggest you start thinking about the trust in your relationship... can't have a healthy relationship without it.
If you trust him then let him go, the truth is you may never know what exactly play by play will happen but give him some slack, sure there will be other girls there, are they supposed to just cover up because your boyfriend will be there.. no. But do tell him to behave and be in contact with you!
Trust him. Worrying about what he's going to do isn't going to do anything but make you stressed and upset about things. Is there a reason you think he'll get drunk and give into temptation? Has he done so in the past? If not then you really have nothing to base your worries on.
If you think he'll cheat, then why are you even with him in the first place?
My mom said something similar to this. She said that if I have a girlfriend I could go to parties raves concerts and clubs together
Couples don't do that stuff couples stay at home and make out. Nightclubs are where people go to dance, socialize, get laid, and have one night stands after bringing a person you met there home. If your boyfriends going to a rave, he's either going to party, get laid or both
"and my parents would never let"
Are you 15 or are you an adult? What is it with girls taking orders from their parents well into their adulthood?
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"let him go"? You're no one to tell him where he can and can't go. The fact that you think he may cheat, tells me that this relationship is very weak and with many problems. In a strong relationship you wouldn't be scared of him cheating.
I think you both need to talk about the relationship, cause that needs work.
If he loves you, he won't cheat on you no matter how drunk nor how tempted he may be.
Well you should trust him and check his social media once a day to see if he post pics with girls you don't know at the rave
Let him go. You need to be able to trust him
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