Boyfriend cried because I sexted another guy?

[Anonymous]

So he's an online boyfriend of mine and we just recently became a couple. Yesterday I sexted this other guy (I felt like my boyfriend didn't really care about me so I got stupid and sexted this guy friend I've known for long).

I felt guilty soon afterwards and told my boyfriend about it. He got really upset and started to get mad and insult the guy I sexted. Then my boyfriend says stuff like he loves me so much and I shouldn't be sexting others but just him. He also says he wants to kill himself because he loves me so much but I don'tlove him. He's crying and even sent a pic of him with red eyes. I felt terrible.

I know I'm a b1tch for this. But I feel like it's okay to sext other guys if I'm not romantically involved with him. Also we're in a long distance relationship. Do you think he's a bit too possessive?

[btbc92]

No! It is not possessive in that manner when it comes to what you just did. You basically cheated on this guy. If you were not serious about him then tell us this: WHY are you with him, and WHY did you get into this relationship with him? Seriously? He is definitely in an emotional wreck. He is now very much insecure and doesn't know what to do and that is why he said what he said. If this is how you think, then you better end this relationship and not get a boyfriend or date until you get your head straight. Becuase a dating relationship is still a dating relationship regardless if it's long distance or close to home. Online boyfriend or not. You made that agreement and now you broke it. You don't deserve this guy. But he's probably like this because he had a lot of relationship failures or rejection. So he's more desperate than controlling or possessive. However, he does sound like he needs to get help. Seriously just end this.

[mooky06]

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A long distance relationship is still a relationship. You and him have agreed to get yourselves involved in a romantic relationship with each other.

I do give you a little bit of credit (like the size of bread crumbs) for feeling bad about what you did. But I don't understand why you don't see it being a relationship, when it is, in fact, just that.

If you're not romantically involved with him. You shouldn't of gotten into a relationship with him.

[popcorn35]

if you don't love him, why are you a couple?
your attitude was not the best one, but maybe you needed it.
as soon as you have a relationship, you need to respect him and that's one of the things!
he used tough words but he's kinda right!

[Asker]

I wanted to give it a try. It's my first time.

[popcorn35]

a try for which one of them?

[Asker]

A try for a relationship. In the past I've never actually gotten a boyfriend but would always end up being led on by guys.

[Asker]

But thanks for your advice.

[Imhotep99]

"A try for which one of them?"
Lmao.

[nuttynutternut]

I am sorry to say, you are behaving very immature to the situation, going outside your relationship to solve your problems is not the answer. If your not happy with the relationship is not making you happy, then take responsibility and speak up, you have tongue, so used it.

your boyfriend can't help you, if you don't take the steps to talk to him about you feel he is treating you, and he does not improve, then end the relationship. If you decide to cheat, because you are not getting your way in the relationship, thats just being childish, and acting like a spoilt brat.

If you feel its not working, then do the right thing and end the relationship, what's the point hurting each other.

[Asker]

Thank you :)

[nuttynutternut]

Be the better person and end it, and not the idiot and cheat. You just digging two graves, if seek revenge.

[nuttynutternut]

THanks for MHO

[DooMguy]

"we just recently became a couple. Yesterday I sexted this other guy"

Wow anon, that was fast. So. . . the relationship lasted for about a day or what?

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"I know I'm a b1tch for this"

^^ GG /thread

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[musicbrain5]

OMG, that Sonic gif 😂

[Asker]

We're still together. I apologised and promised I wouldn't do it again.

[DooMguy]

@musicbrain5 *sanic gif

remember sanic and sonic are enemies

@ Asker

https://pbs.twimg.com/media/B7cwJsMIIAA19Hr.jpg

I'm sure you will do it again

[slatyb]

I think you should dump your boyfriend, he's emotionally unstable. This will make you crazy. "He says he wants to kill himself" -- HUGE RED FLAG. Get away from this guy before it gets worse.

[Phantomium]

You are a "couple" but not "romantically involved"?
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[Asker]

I meant "them" as in other guys. Typo error.

[Phantomium]

You are either with someone or not. There is no middle ground. You make a choice and you stick to it. If you are a couple you don't deal with other people. Everything else is cheating.

[xxxromant]

Ikr lmao

[ThisDudeHere]

"so I got stupid"

That is both a lame and an honest excuse.

Either way, if you two had agreed to certain boundaries, even if online, then those boundaries should be respected. It's a whole other thing if he didn't think of you as a boyfriend.

[Imhotep99]

"Do you think he is possessive?"
Are you kidding me? How would you feel if he sexted another girl? Awesome?
"But I feel like it's okay to sext other guys if I'm not romantically involved with him."
Guess what, if you didn't break up, you ARE romantically involved with him.
"Also we're in a long distance relationship."
So you are in a relationship. A relationship is a relationship even if it's long distance.

[toopunny]

the guy is not stable. but ignoring that fact. if you have a boyfriend and sext another guy. you are way in the red. what the fuck is wrong with you? you aren't mental stable either if you think that's appropriate behavior in a relationship

[Asker]

Well I thought every guy sext other girls too lmao. So I didn't see wtf was wrong with doing so.

[Leandri]

He is just trying to manipulate you. You're relationship is nothing serious though yeah

[wittymilf]

Any guy who uses suicide as a tool to make you feel guilty has at least an issue with emotional control and intelligence.

[Toad-1]

" I feel like it's okay to sext other guys if I'm not romantically involved with him. "

Well you are wrong.

"Also we're in a long distance relationship."

Doesn't matter, a long distance relationship is still a relationship

[Jan1ssary_]

No its not okey to sext other guys, yeah u are a bitch. Your boyfriend is stupid too, like who the fuck cry because he was cheated on? İt would just make me mad and start problems lol.

[baller16]

Fr 💀

[Jan1ssary_]

@baller16 Whats that baby bro?

[Asker]

It means "for real".

[Unit1]

And this - ladies and gentlemen - is how a stereotype of a relationship between 2 immature teenagers looks like.
No offense to actual teenagers.

[Asker]

He's 24 years. But alright lol.

[Unit1]

Age doesn't matter in these regards. I was referring to the mental state, not the bodies age.

[Asker]

Thanks, got it.

[Mynameisnottolong]

How do you feel about your long distance bf? Honestly.

[disgustingweebtrash]

>Boyfriend cried because I sexted another guy

Hmph.
https://i.imgur.com/3ejukxN.png
Hoes.

[Littlett25]

Actually laughed out loud haha

[sp33d]

Correction: you aren't in a relationship. Yeah, everything is fine.

[Anonymous]

Oops.. by mistakely I uploaded my penis

[Anonymous]

Yeah I see why your reaching out for some real cock.

[Asker]

He's a a nice cock himself.

[Asker]

He's got*

[Opinion Owner]

Obviously not if your sexting other guys and disrespecting his manhood.

[Asker]

Hahaha sure.

[Anonymous]

You have a problem. He has a problem. This relationship is fu*ked up.

[zombiebabe]

its normal for him to react this way

[Matt21]

it's just a form of manipulation

[Anonymous]

Just go meet guys in real life. I don't think online relationships are for you.

[Anonymous]

Yes.. you cyber cheated.. he should dump you.