Can I redeem myself from coming on too strong?

Anonymous
Went back to girls apartment after a birthday party at a nightclub. We've known each other for 15 years but were never too close but friends hang with each others friends. We ended up sleeping together hooking up but not having sex. Were both fresh out if long term relationships. When we were drunk she was saying all good things about me and even the next morning we were talking about me coming back to her place soon etc. So we texted next couple days but it seems like she wasn't as interested anymore or even remembered too much that she see even though we were sober that morning. So stupid me was texting about that night together and meeting up again after she got back from her vacation but then it got awkward as I texted too much. She said it was getting weird and stuff like that. Like when I asked her about hanging out she mentioned she didn't want another boyfriend and needed time which I agreed and said the same for me. But it really wasn't necessary for her to say that if I was only asking to go get drinks/eat.

So she gets back on Tuesday, she left yesterday and it ended on a bad note. I know I should ignore her but I'd also like to text her next Thursday or so and ask how her vacation was and apologize for coming on too strong and tell her the real me is the one she saw the morning after her place?
Can I redeem myself from coming on too strong?
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