If a guy is attracted to petite girls, does that mean he's into pedophilia?

[Anonymous]

Okay I know it sounds strange, but it just crossed my mind yesterday. So if you're like let's an 18 year old girl and older boys are attracted to you but you actually look like a 13 year old, does that make them pedophiles? Well not really paedos let's say they're into little girls since they're not actually going to date an underage girl. Because I mean why would a guy date you if he thinks you look 13 or something? (I am a very small person btw) Any thoughts?

[Anonymous]

I think pedophilia is like rape- its not about the personality, its not about the body (so much) its about having control over someone. Since you are 18, even if you're petite, you are more advanced brain-wise than girls of 13, and not so easily controlled- therefore not prey to pedophiles. Plus pedophiles like the risk of it being wrong, whereas you're legal so there isn't any.

[Just--a--Girl]

well no because you're not actually under 18... it's more the emotional and mental state of someone under 18 or 16 which means having sex with them is wrong. a lot of them are too easy to take advantage of. maybe they're just like most guys and attracted to younger looking girls :)

[Pebyron]

What!? No that doesn't mean you're a pedophile. I like petite girls cause it makes me feel more manly. Plus I got some friends who are dating girls who are way smaller.

[Ezmotts]

No, of course not. That's just the body type he prefers.

[SweetFace28]

Cheese & rice, I hope not.

[Kain6th]

No lol. I like petite girls a lot. I'm no pedo

[cyrus7]

LOL I love petite girls, don't think I'm a pedo

[Anonymous]

maybe

[Anonymous]

not always