What does it mean when he says he loves me like a sister?

My boyfriend of four years just told me that he realized he loves me more like a sister than a girlfriend. Now he wants time and space to see how he feels about our future. What does it mean when he says, "I love you like a sister"?


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  • I think it more means that he isn't attracted to you like that anymore. Which is strange if you guys have been dating for like 4 years! I would say give him a little time and space to sort of his feelings. That doesn't mean that you have to wait for him though. Use the space that you are giving each other to discover more about yourself. You may find out after that time, that you don't really like him that way anymore too .. who knows =)

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