You deserve someone who can give you the attention you deserve. What does this mean in guy terms?

[Tiarra]

What does this mean in guy translation?

You deserve someone who can give you the attention you deserve.

My boyfriend said that when he thought I could not handle he's busy schedule.

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Same day he gave me the speil from above.

[Ujio47]

I said something similar to girl that liked me but I didn't like back, it was true however, she's a nice girl and I didn't want to play her and I wasn't really looking for the commitment as well.

So from my point of view it meant, your a great girl but I'm not really interested in you like that and I'm not really sure who or what I want and rather than have to deal with a commitment and lead you on by trying to make something work or just sleeping with you I'd rather not take things any further and save you from being hurt by my lack interest.

[Tiarra]

This guy has invited me to QLD. On a weekend away with him in another state. Paying for everything accept the flight. Even told me that same day to let him know when I was free. That same day. Don't understand it. Why still lead me on?

[Tiarra]

Same day he gave me the speil from above.

[WeaponZero]

It means you deserve someone who can give you the attention you deserve.

It's in plain english and it means exactly what it says.

The fact that guys can communicate in plain english and girls are still confused by what we mean is why 95% of relationships are doomed to end in an explosion of drama =( It's frustrating as hell

[Tiarra]

It doesn't necessarily mean he will dump me because of that?

[WeaponZero]

He might be. And don't go doing what other women do and automatically assume he's found another women. It's the nature of a man to put business before pleasure in most cases and busy guys tend to put their personal lives on hold for their professional lives or when they feel there's something they need to get done. We're conditioned from youth to see that type of prioritization as a masculine trait and thus aspire to it.

[candy_girl_dana]

He is right, you deserve someone who WILL care enough to give you his attention. if your not needy if he's always busy then he's right. no one is busy for a text message or a 1 min phone call. this problem is mainly because of you.. I suggest you read "Why men marry bitches" ;P it will help you ALOT.

[Tiarra]

What do you mean by the problem is mainly with me?

[WeaponZero]

It means you don't have enough of a backbone to try to "keep him in line." Deep down most, if not all men, need a woman who will, in some ways, keep us in line so to speak. Letting him run off and do his own thing 100% of the time and just hoping he comes back to you at his leisure is almost always a bad idea. Even the most controlling alpha male type at times needs a woman who will "put him in his place."

[candy_girl_dana]

Most guys don't understand that seeking attention is a sign of love, they see it as a weakness. and they call it being needy. as long as your seeking attention and you need him to be around and show him all of that he just won't do it not because he doesn't love u, its because he knows that you love and need him so u'll always be around even if he didn't give you his attention.

Having your own life and keeping your self busy is a threat to him, ignore him a little and u'll see and read "why men marry bitches"

[Tiarra]

Thanks, That actually does make sense. LoL.

[Tiarra]

Have been doing that and he has seen that I have been keeping busy. I even got. I thought you would understand my busy scheduale looking at how busy your social life is. The last text I sent him was yesterday. Kind of was a bit forward with things but have backed off again.

WeaponZero. Thanks for the tip. When I see him on the weekend. Might have to agree with him. Will that keep him in line. Cause I did the total opposite the other day.

[Tiarra]

Is there anyway I can redeem myself and keep him in line? I told him I understood where he was at but I should have agreed with him that I do deserve better.

[WeaponZero]

You need to let your man know that no matter how much you love him, you can get along fine without him. If you start giving him the impression that you can't live without him, you'll basically be giving him free reign over your life. Plus its just not healthy to be that emotionally dependent on someone.

[andyyoung123]

well, I think he's sayin he is so busy that the kind of attention you seem to be wantin he can't give to you.