Search Results: are some guys just emotional

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How to help someone become more emotionally intelligent?

i'll try to keep this short since no one wants a whole essay. but i've been talking to this guy for almost four months, and i really do like him. we call multiple times a day for hours at a time. he's funny, witty,...

naowhat

Xper 1 Age: 19

1 mo

How do I shut down my best friend’s sexist boyfriend politely?

So my best friend is dating a guy who’s a misogynist. I absolutely hate his views about women, but my best friend usually ignores his opinions because she’s a very chill person. She told me she’ll handle it in her own...

Anonymous

(18-24)

1 mo

Why would a casual partner suddenly bring up past relationships and being single?

I met this guy nearly a year ago and shortly after we met we decided to be casual but I can tell something deeper is starting to develop/form. We hung out Sunday night and I pointed out that it's been almost a year since...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

1 mo

Do you make use of your free will?

I was at a pizzeria and I'm looking at the menu, they have calzones but the spinach and cheese one has no meat... So I'm like hey are these calzones made to order? Yes What do you think about putting sausage in there? The...

Telekinetic-Potato

Master Age: 29

2 mo

How can I reconnect with a former close friend I still miss?

I've liked the same guy since I was 11. We’ve always had a close, emotionally tied friendship up until I turned 15. I definitely liked him more than he liked me, but we were each others emotional support and we relied on...

Anonymous

(Under 18)

3 mo

I accidentally called my old situationship after a year—does he miss me too?

It’s been about a year since I called things off with my situationship. He use to come into my work and long story short he was married and I had a partner. Anyway for a month we started secretly meeting up in the...

Winstah26

Xper 3 Age: 29

I feel awful about what happened with the guy I was dating. Did he lie all along or was he just avoidant?

I was dating a guy for a few weeks and had been on a couple of dates. Things were slow paced but I figured from what he explained as wanting to build an emotional connection first, that this would obviously build up...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

How do I handle this situation and why has this friend flipped on me?

Louis, my best guy friend of five years, recently confronted me because Ryan (another friend) apparently told him that I’d been slagging him off and that I’m “fake.” That’s not true at all. I’ve always been kind and loyal...

MissPiggy2025

Xper 4 Age: 28

Girl's Behavior

Are ditzy right brained girls "hotter" than the rest?

I've noticed this pattern with guys seeing "something" in these women. They can't find their keys, walk straight, don't get jokes, etc.. I knew one that didn't know where she was, couldn't navigate. But she had other...

lightbulb27

Influencer Age: 59

Fashion & Beauty

Is being shy, having an innocent face a deterrent to a girl's attractiveness?

I have been told countless times that I look very demure, shy and innocent and most of the times it seemed negative. I am a shy person I admit and sometimes I don't understand some slangs of the dating circle because I've...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guys, Did he ever really like me, what changed?

This guy at my job and me started talking. He asked some of our mutual friends before we started to talk what i like etc, he seemed very genuine eventually we started talking on the phone and went on a date, this kept...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why do some girls want a guy in a relationship, but use all his emotions? And never give him anything in return?

Isn't this just using him for his time and emotional energy. It should be a two way street, right? It's something I was discussing with my flatmate about her relationship with someone. ( She was too drunk) She was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What kind of path I should follow?

Hi everyone, I’ve been flirting with a guy for about a month. We are from the same country, but we both live abroad. We actually had some contact before, maybe during the summer, but somehow our communication got lost....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why guys always fall for the "dumb/lost/clueless act?

It's usually so fake and painfully obvious now some of these girls are pretty dumb…. But it’s learned helplessness. They know they don’t have to work or do any heavy lifting in a relationship. If they can just make you...

Summeroflove

Influencer Age: 30

Usually I know why a guy stops responding but this time it doesn't make sense?

I matched with a guy on a dating app and we texted for several days. His replies were inconsistent but followed a loose pattern — sometimes a full day passed — but we both have kids so I understood he was busy. We got...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, Why would a 30-something guy be serious about a 50-something gal?

30-something guys are very into me -- and not just me, specifically, but in general women who could be their mothers. At first I thought it was "puppy love" (like crushing on your teacher or babysitter) or perhaps...

DishLady

Master Age: 52

Is "Avoidant Mentality" fake justification for poor behavior?

I was researching a little in response to a different question about folks who "flake" or "ghost" or whatever you want to call the hot-and-cold game some folks like to play. I've always dismissed it as "this guy's a jerk"...

DishLady

Influencer Age: 52

Guys, Is he serious or playing with my feelings?

So, around 10 months ago I met a guy online. We spoke a lot, slept on call together despite a 9 hour time difference. (He would stay up through the night to talk with me - his job allowed this). Not long after I booked a...

Quichebarbie

Xper 1 Age: 38