Should I be considered as a loser if i'm not into clubbing?

[Anonymous]

so at at my workplace most of my colleagues are into clubbing... and i'm not!! for those two reasons i'm not into it :my family don't really like it and i myself really suck at dancing!.. i just don't like to dance and its just not my thing.. i would rather go skydiving /deep sea diving or having sex with my man all day long rather than going to a club! so why do they (my colleagues) make me feel like a loser everytime they talk about the last club they have been to and they make mean comments afterwards saying "oh you're still young and you hate clubbing? how can it be? i'm like WTF? as if clubbing was the only existing entertainment?

[CupKate6]

It's because society says that as a young person you have to like going out to clubs and getting drunk yada yada. If you don't like it, then you don't like it and that's perfectly fine. You're still a fun person. Are these work colleagues friends? Do you see them on the weekends etc? If not, I wouldn't worry about it too much. Do your actual friends/ boyfriend like clubbing?

[Asker]

yes we are close enough but not THAT close!.. no he isn't into clubbing and my friends aren't into it too

[CupKate6]

Then that's fine. Your friends - the ones who are more important to you - have the same interests

[-Zoe-]

No you're not a loser.. Clubbing doesn't define a person to be loser or not.. You just have different taste of fun in life than them..
I don't go to clubs either and I don't consider myself loser.. They said I miss the fun and all but actually I didn't since clubbing is not fun for me.. :p

[Asker]

make me feel better

[-Zoe-]

glad to know that :)

[lumos]

Plenty of people aren't into clubbing, it's nothing to be ashamed of. Your colleagues are the losers here since they obviously think clubbing is somehow mandatory. Don't worry about it and simply tell them to stop when they're being mean.

[Asker]

tbh i don't really care but it sometimes pisses me off

[kambo_trick3y]

I'm the same way, some of my college buddies used to say the same thing about my distaste for clubbing and drinking.

Which is funny, cause the moment we hit the rock climbing wall and sky diving rounds, they chickened out.

[Asker]

hahahah we're in the same boat!

[Nuns_in_Heat]

No. I'd consider someone a loser if they thought others were losers for not being into clubbing.

[Asker]

lol well said

[Nuns_in_Heat]

Thanks.

[Nuns_in_Heat]

Thanks for MH

[Asker]

welcomed

[GiveMeABreakPlz]

Girls, you are a diamond in a haystack. I strongly dislike the clubbing addicted girls. A little clubbin here and there is fine but I know plenty of girls who that's all they do.

[Asker]

good to know that

[misscoffeehead]

Sounds like your exactly like me.. I have never stepped foot into a club, I don't see what the hype is all about.. The thought of randoms grinding on me trying to get "frisky" is beyond undescribable to me.. It's just a manifest of people letting loose..
Like you, I rather do something with my partner..

[Asker]

high five

[cdnSpartan]

I've never been into clubbing. People who go to clubs are usually looking for the 3 F's: Fights, Fixes or Fucking.

[Asker]

i hear you!

[Anonymous]

Most people don't go clubbing (it's kind of a trashy passtime, lol). Nothing against casual sex, don't get me wrong. Just that clubbers aren't exactly catches.

Feel good that you're better than them, lol

[Asker]

oh you make me feel better tbh

[HollyK21]

"I just don't really like to dance and it's just not my thing"

^that should be enough logic for you. Just because you don't like doing something doesn't make you a loser.

[Asker]

oh fine

[HollyK21]

lol :)

[anastasis]

I've never been into clubbing. In fact, I think clubbers are losers with no life. So, no, I would think you were a loser if you were a cluber.

[Asker]

okay i got it

[SensualScribe]

I would not consider you a loser. Not everyone has the same hobbies and interests.

[Asker]

true dat

[docmeister]

you just need to find a guy who has similar interests.

Can a guy have sex all day long? lol

[Asker]

having sex all day long is no biggie you know?

[docmeister]

foreplay yes but pure intercourse no

[Asker]

okay whatever floats your boat

[Corona123]

You are not a looser, just a bit different from your colleagues, :P

[Asker]

different? in a wrong way?

[Corona123]

nope not in a wrong way :D

[kangy]

naw u r not it is just not ur lifestyle. i am not into it too , am not loser :)

[Asker]

that is nice from you

[kangy]

I dont see the hype about clubbing. Waste of time and money

[Asker]

true dat

[eddzeeman]

no you're not a loser. Most people go clubbing to get hook ups anyways

[Asker]

true

[tslife]

no i dont think its a fun place to have fun but to meet girls i like go carting u no shit like that real fun

[tslife]

they are poking fun

[Anonymous]

They probably feel insecure about how often they go. It's more about that than you

[Asker]

they go each week

[Opinion Owner]

That's a lot!

[Asker]

yeah i know

[Opinion Owner]

You are far from a loser so don't even worry about it. You're just fine.

[Anonymous]

No of course not. I love drinking, partying and having fun, but I fucking hate everything about clubbing.

[Asker]

lol,

[FalconTakanashi]

If anything, choosing not to club makes you LESS of a fucking loser

[rUinSAYAN]

yeah clubbing is only good if you know/like to dance.
I love dancing to good music so I love clubbing

[Asker]

whatever floats your boat

[rUinSAYAN]

are you talking to yourself?