Why do I attract insecure people in my life?

[Anonymous]

It seems like i attract a lot insecure people in my life. Why is that it seems like all around me i have friends who express their insecurities or project their insecurities onto me & its so annoying & draining to be around all the time, so my question is why do i attract so many insecure people in my life all around me in different angles?

[Riggers]

Judging by some of the comments youve left to people here who were only trying to be helpful, It seems like you are a pretty negative, agressive person. And maybe your negativity attracts negativity?

[Asker]

Lol k..

[Asker]

Good point , great observation 👌

[Riggers]

I'm not trying to be mean or a douche or anything, I'm just saying from the negative way you've responded to people on this question

[Asker]

U think that unconciously attracts insecure people around me

[NonCreativeUsername]

What's your problem with insecure people? Some are, some aren't, some should be and they aren't, and others shouldn't be, but they are.

[Asker]

Its annoying cuz they start to lash out & project it onto me 😒

[NonCreativeUsername]

Then they are probably trying to be insecure on purpose.

[Asker]

that makes no sense

[NonCreativeUsername]

It makes sense, just think deeper.

[Asker]

K... dis dickk

[NonCreativeUsername]

No idea what that means

[Somebodyyes01]

Okay what ur saying is "you should let people bully you cuz they're insecure" no fuck off. Who do you think you are? Like excuse me, EXCUSE ME. And just so you know many abusers grow up in a toxic enviorment. Does it justify that they kill/abuse people? No! Stop trying to justify for being a dickhead. Thank you

[harakiri]

Maybe they are drawn to your strength and hope some of it will rub off on them.

[Asker]

Thanks possiby. But pls elaborate just a tad 👌

[harakiri]

Maybe these insecure people come to you because they can tell that you aren't insecure. You might seem strong and capable to them. And maybe they want to be more like you. So that's why they want to get close to you.

[Asker]

Awww thanks i think your right & got a point 👌

[harakiri]

no prob :)

[abundantlyrich]

It's because you're insecure yourself or you chose to be friends with them.

[Asker]

Im not insecure so suck a dick..

[abundantlyrich]

Your friends are a reflection of you. So suck your own dick.

[the_only1]

Bigger question is.. why are you attracted to insecure ppl?:)

[Asker]

Im not attracted to them bitch they attracted to me tf 😒

[the_only1]

Hahaha.. anon balls. you should try saying that to these insecure ppls faces. possibly they are attracted to somebody who has a stronger grip on life. either way I'm sure someday they will be somebody else's parasite.:)

[tenofthepeaks]

everybody has insecurities... are you perfect?

perhaps ask youself what you're doing to contribute to this?

[Asker]

k...

[tenofthepeaks]

well you asked, what more do you want?

[Asker]

K... bitch

[tenofthepeaks]

K... retard who cannot get life..

[Asker]

k... ya mother

[tenofthepeaks]

lololol... do you only receive answers that support your own biases?

I wasn't even mocking you, but just presenting the chance for you to solv your own problem. It's a fact that it's something you do or say that causes this. But then you can try and be objective in how you deal with things, or try and only support points that confirm your own thoughts. enjoy your bubble..

[Asker]

oh...

[DheElon]

They say you are what you attract.