OK, I'm from Europe where clubbing is a major - must. So I go to raves and techno parties whenever I go out and I see tons of guys that dance or don't dance. I consider myself a pretty good dancer, but e.g I don't care if you can dance or not. To me, it's important to be yourself - if you like dancing (whether it's good or not), just do it! There is nothing more sexy to me than a guy that can goof around and feel good about it, even if he can't dance.
I used to date this guy that had a very unique (read: WEIRD) kind of dancing and whenever we went clubbing, he would totally let loose and people were staring at us but he didn't give a damn and I felt more relaxed to be myself around somebody like that.
So... it's not so much your dancing ability, but your approach to it.
Work with what you got, just please, PLEASE don't stand like a tree. No-No.
My own personal opinion here, but I don't think I'm too far off the usual
Dancing = major turn-on, IF you're good at it. Otherwise, I don't really care too much if you can't. It does have that relation to sex, that you move in a particular way, usually back and forth type things, you can show off stamina and muscle or whatever... but if you're going to focus on it in a sexual way, then it depends on the girl. If you've got a girl who likes it a little more um, aggressive, then hip hop all the way! If not, she'll be less likely to like that and slow dancing with a girl is much more intimate and stuff.
Though if you ask me, slow dancing isn't dancing, it's just a really nice cuddle with music in the background XD
Tip: watch her dance. There's always a male equivalent of a girl's dancing, and vice versa. Even if it is just not dancing =]
Hahha I can't dance for toffee and neither can most of my mates (male and female here) but it doesn't stop me getting up there after I've had a few! I think if you show willing and muck about with your friends on the dance floor (like spinning them round or doing funny arm waving about while holding hands which makes me scream with laughter because I'm having so much fun) is much nicer than posy tosser who's throwing shapes. Its better to show a fun side to it, and it doesn't matter if you can't dance as long as you're enjoying yourself and if you are, you can bet your bottom dollar your girl will be too.
dude try learning tecktonik! me and my girl just start learning tecktontik a year ago.
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hell yes I personally think break dancing is hot. but any sort of dancing is a turn on because of the movement, its related to sex. if they can move that way on the floor just think what their like in bed..
Yes, but I'm not into anything flashy. Just have some rhythm while you're dancing with the girl. Don't stand there like a tree! That's a big turn off.
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