Like how many ice cues you want in your water, or how many texts/calls you guys have exchanged.
Do you find it sweet or creepy when someone remembers the little things about you?
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I find it super sweet! That's one thing that my boyfriend did a few times before we were dating and definitely worked in his favour. We'd go for coffee together after class regularly. One time, we both had our drinks and were about to sit down outside when he said he forget to grab something, he'd be right back. I waited while he went inside for a bit, then returned with a cup of ice water. As he handed it to me, he said he remembered I'd mentioned that I'm a total coffee fiend, and that when at home I have this thing that I always have a cup of water at hand with my coffee because I hate the taste of coffee remaining in my mouth, plus am always scared of having coffee breath. :P
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Sometimes my brothers and friends remembers some little things I have said or done or like, etc and it warms my heart when they recall those things.
Specially when I dont even expect them to remember it.
It's suprising, so yeah, I find it sweet.
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It depends. I am a very observant person who has a high recall for small or otherwise insignificant details... sometimes I find myself on the verge of mentioning the information to the person in question, and I stop myself because it might seem "creepy."
Here's a theory: Creepiness of behavior is inversely proportional to the level of subjective attractiveness of the behaver to the observer.
Ex: Two people on the fringes of your social group remember every single detail about you. One dresses like your ideal mate, and is attractive to boot. The other dresses like themselves and is of below-average attractiveness. If you are told to assign the labels creepy and sweet to either, the more attractive one will probably get sweet, and the less attractive one will probably get stuck with creepy, am I wrong?
in my opinion, creepy/not creepy is a gut reaction to how trustworthy someone seems. So yeah, it depends.
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The more genuinely attracted you are to someone the more they can get away with these little things without you really holding it against them. There is a point though where it becomes creepy regardless of how you feel about them. There's definitely a bias though. People you aren't genuinely attracted to are going to come off a lot creepier a lot sooner than those that you are.
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If you make a conscious effort to memorize stuff like that, I think it's a bit creepy (unless it's your bf/gf). It's also awkward if you remember things that someone has no recollection of ever telling you (most likely because they were drunk at the time).
What people don't always realize, is that some people just remember stuff like that without trying (even if they suck at remembering names/dates/etc) - it's just the way their brain is wired. I sometimes feel like I have to censor my memories a little bit, and pretend not to remember the little throwaway remarks that people have made, because otherwise they find it creepy. -
It's different when someone cares about something because you like it, and when someone just wants to know everything even when it really doesn't benefit either of you. Someone who knows how I like my food? Cute. Someone who knows how long I sleep on average? Weird.
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i find it so sweet
means they were attentive and really truly caring and listening to me
thats how i fell in love with my first love... i still miss him :(
i dont think i will l get over him ever -
it depends who , when and why , did I tell her or did she do a background check or been stalking me unseen?
but if its a girlfriend or SO , its totally sweet -
Depends on who it is. If it is my boyfriend or a good friend I think it is sweet, but if it is someone I am not close to, I find it odd.
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The two examples you mentioned are kinda creepy. Especially the second. The first is okay.
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Sorta but more often than not it's DOOOODESSS who remember every little thing about me to the point it's more creepy than sweet cos GOOD GOD MATE why?
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It depends if it's a sweet memory (a happy one) then it's nice but it can be creepy it's it's really personal or embarrassing.
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Knowing how many ice-cubes I want is sweet
Knowing how many calls and texts we have exchanged is a little creepy maybe, clingy would be more accurate -
Or where you go on your morning walks or how your closet smells like *smiiiiiffff* musk
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I kind of find small little things they remember, sweet and cute. It depends who aswell.
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It's sweet if he's handsome and creepy if he's not... There I said it
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It depends on who they are but generally I think it's nice that they do
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Depends on what it is.
Remembers the hospital room I was born in? Creepy af.
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the first is okay if you've been dating a while
the second is creepy -
@soccerchick4eva... I don't remember the little things, I remember EVERYTHING >:D hahaha :") <3
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It depends on the person & what they are remembering, but going off your two examples, NO that's creepy for anyone to be that detail oriented. Borderline stalker!
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Sweet...
It shows they listen and care enough to remember. -
I like that in a person , it tells me that they took the time to actually get to know me.
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if we are good friends or we have mutual interest in each other, it´s sweet. if it´s just a random person, i don´t even know so well, it´s creepy.
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