Not from experience, but one of my best friends from high school is Indian and married her white boyfriend. They started dating in like middle school lol and they've been together ever since. They're super successful and perfect for each other. It really really depends on the individual people and the families. We come from a very diverse area in the states so both their families were very accepting of her and him together. He's always been very open minded, as well as his parents and she gets along with his family, and him with hers. Her parents are the type that truly can say that they will love whoever loves their daughter and treats them right, with NO BOUNDARIES. They actually got married this past November and had a traditional Indian wedding in the states, and his parents even participated in the ceremonies. He's also flying back to India with her to do the full ceremony there with her extended family. He's happy, she's happy, and both their families adore them.
Wow! What a great relationship, especially the love shared by the families. Your friend is really lucky. Thanks for sharing, it gives me some hope. My parents know about our relationship, but they're not too happy with it because he's white. :/
They are a little hesitant to meet him, but given how adamant we are about making this work, they have said they will meet him. So I hope to make them meet in the next couple of months. Hopefully it should all work out when they see what a great guy he is and how committed we both are towards each other. Fingers crossed. :)
I'm Indian, born and raised in the US however, and my last long-term relationship was with a white guy. Honestly, I treated the relationship the same way I would with any other guy. I guess I'm also a lot more culturally American than Indian, but he's open to other cultures anyway. He had Indian food for the first time at my house and really liked it.
My parents loved him lol. He's a very outgoing type of guy, easy to talk to, and polite. He'd bring my mom flowers, which was sweet, and once gave her an Om painting (he's a talented artist) for Diwali. Which he really didn't need to do, but it was very thoughtful.
My parents are pretty open and accepting, so they don't have a problem with whoever I want to date, as long as I'm happy.
My boyfriend is quote sweet, respectful and extremely well mannered (he's British) so I know he will impress my parents, I am only scared about making them meet. Your parents sound so great though, really happy for you! :)
Happy for you too! He sounds like a great guy. I'm sure it'll be fine. Hope it works out for the best :)
I'm Indian and have only ever dated white guys and don't regret it one bit. I find them a lot more exciting and better looking than Indian guys. They are really sweet, fun, romantic and great in bed. My current boyfriend is white, we've been together for 1.5 years and it's getting stronger day by day. I hope to one day marry him. My parents don't really care what I get up to.. my dad's like "betti.. in the future, everyone will become mixed so just follow your heart.. if you're happy, I'm happy". My boyfriend's just settling into his new new... so I'm hoping he'll propose to me this year.
"I find them a lot more exciting and better looking than Indian guys.""
As if you know every single Indian guy out there. Try to actually compliment white guys without taking a subtle shot at Indian guys.
"They are really sweet, fun, romantic and great in bed."
So are Indian guys and guys of all the other races! And you're saying that as if every white guy is like that. Nothing wrong with an Indian girl or any other girl dating white guys but it's really amusing how a lot of non white girls take a subtle shot at non white guys by secretly implying that white guys are superior to non white guys or something. I love how easily girls are more influenced by media's promotion of European beauty standards than guys are.
And what makes you think I'm obliged to get to know every single Indian guy out there? I relate to white guys much better and I am more attracted to whites. They're attracted to me too, so I don't see what the issue is?
I've just had a read of your posts and had a good laugh. You're always whining about how no one likes Indian guys (gee, I wonder why), unless they're tall or light skinned. If there's "Nothing wrong with an Indian girl or any other girl dating white guys", I'm not sure why you're so concerned about me dating white guys. It's my thing, so deal with it.
Did I say you were obliged to know every Indian guy? Go back to school cause your reading comprehension is completely shit.
"I relate to white guys much better and I am more attracted to whites. They're attracted to me too, so I don't see what the issue is?" That's fine, except you said that by taking a subtle shot at Indian guys by implying Indian guys can't have the same qualities as them. And even a massive sloot who goes around a lot wouldn't know every single guy out there. You just sound like one of those girls who likes to take a subtle shot at members of the opposite sex of your own race to justify your possible fetishism or possible belief of racial superiority of guys of one race over the other. "You're always whining about how no one likes Indian guys (gee, I wonder why), unless they're tall or light skinned." That is true considering girls are more racial and more influenced by the media though. They wanna be with the type of guys who they'll look better around usually.
"If there's "Nothing wrong with an Indian girl or any other girl dating white guys", I'm not sure why you're so concerned about me dating white guys. It's my thing, so deal with it."
It's a GAG website. A message board where people discuss things. If you said you were attracted to white guys without taking a subtle shot at Indian guys, I wouldn't have said anything. Look at the Indian girl named heavenonearth's post. She mentioned she's into white guys and she did it without trying to imply that she believes white guys are better. Respect for her and all the Indian girls who date white guys without showing a subtle prejudice against Indian guys. Your post however is obviously prejudiced against Indian guys. My "whining" is against your prejudice and not against your choice to date white guys. But I'm sure you knew that so you tried to justify your post by twisting this whole thing in a way to demonize me instead.
@MyUsernameRules You're clearly unaware of our constitutional right to Freedom of Speech. I am free to express my opinions and experiences, without having to worry about offending some sorry brunt like you. While I sympathize with your poor success on the dating field, and how you blame your ethnic heritage for your woes, you cannot expect others to tailor their responses to soothe your emotional needs. This is one huge problem with Indian men like yourself - trying to control other women to meet their needs, especially Indian women. Guess what bhaisahab? I'll say what I want, when I want. I'll like who I want, and who I can't help liking. Koi baat nahi.. teek hai? Ab jaa aur koi Bollywood film dekho.
Lol @ you defending your prejudice now with "constitutional right to freedom of speech". You're funny. Bringing freedom of speech into this. People have a right to be racist or prejudiced, and I have a right to call them out on this. And your "opinions and experiences" doesn't involve meeting every male in the world. That's the point I tried to make in my original comment you silly "brunt". Personally I'm not worried about dating anymore so I care less about my "lack of success". I had an arranged marriage offer recently by a girl who was 8 or 9 out of 10 looks wise but I clearly told my parents I'm not down for any of that. However, even if I'm not interested in dating women or anything, I won't back down from stating the facts and that is that many women like Indian women such as yourself like to generalize and put us down to justify your prejudice. It's cute that you used "constitutional right to Freedom of Speech" to justify your prejudice.
"I'll say what I want, when I want."
Then don't get so butthurt for being called out on your prejudice. I have a right to call you out cause Freedom of Speech!
"I'll like who I want, and who I can't help liking."
Never said there was anything wrong with that. Unlike the other Indian girl, you chose to be prejudiced against Indian guys. So I called you out on that. Now don't be so butthurt.
Bollywood film? Geez you're so cheesy and lame.
@MyUsernameRules I'm glad you lost faith in dating, meaning you lost faith in yourself. Guys like you don't deserve a woman. No wonder you're single. Don't blame it on the fact that you look gujju or that you're short or dark or whatever.
Lol at you twisting the whole thing around to me. Whether I deserve a girl or not, that doesn't justify your obvious prejudice in your post. That is what I called you out on. And you're so butthurt about me doing that now that you had to resort to extreme personal shots lol. Shows a lot about your character. As for me, I never had a shot anyways since I'm neither tall (just 5'8), not rich, not buff, nor really light skinned. I may have a chance but that chance is as good as winning the lottery. If you don't know what I'm talking about, you should read this guy's blog. wilkes888. wordpress. com/2013/02/08/my-final-blog-entry-love-you-all/ He explained it perfectly about how race and skin color plays a huge role in women's preferences in men.
@MyUsernameRules you really aren't doing Indian guys a favour by being so creepily obsessive and playing the victim card. You're a broken record, always crying about being short and dark, and pasting the same link through all your posts. If you want women to view Indian men differently, maybe you should change your habits so you can make yourself more attractive. Haha kya tu paagal ho, bewacuf
No such thing as "victim card" or "broken record" here. It's clearly the truth. All I'm doing is mentioning these things where it's actually necessary. You and many other girls might call it "creepily obsessive" because you girls don't want us guys to be aware of how shallow girls actually are. You girls also don't want us guys to be aware of how much more influenced girls in general are by the media's promotion of European beauty standards than guys are. Awareness is also possibly being somewhat raised among other Indian guys, East Asian guys, and etc brown or dark skinned guys of other races not including blacks. It's pretty obvious even among girls in this website that many girls don't like guys of certain races like Indian guys. For example, girls of all races in this site get dozens of answers from guys in their how do I look question but guys have to be either white, really light skinned guys of other races, and in some cases black to get answers from girls in their HDIL question
"If you want women to view Indian men differently, maybe you should change your habits so you can make yourself more attractive."
So you're saying women judge Indian men based on one or few Indian men? Good to know. My habits were different till the age of 25. Till then, I had a "positive attitude" like girls may call it because I believed into their lies and lived in to the delusion that they aren't this shallow but after observing them for the longest time and their seeing their lack of responses to guys belonging to certain racial groups, my "positive attitude" turned into a "realistic attitude". With a realistic attitude that I have now, I'm not setting up myself for a disappointment. I might make a lot of money if all goes well and that may attract women later, but I would never go for girls who would only be interested in me cause I'm a doctor or whatever. I'm not like most of the other oblivious Indian guys that are completely unaware.
@MyUsernameRules Your parents paid for you to study medicine abroad, you didn't earn the position through academic merit. Also, you have a long way to go if you think money is your pass to women. You have to clear the USMLEs, secure a residency, then slave it away for up to another 6 years before you become a fully fledged specialist. You'd be in your late 30's by then. Either improve yourself now, or continue to live without hope. I'm sure you will find someone who likes you for who you are.
In the mean time, accept that you cannot change mine or any other woman's sexual preferences. Accept that we are free to express our views without having to be politically correct for the "victims of reality" such as yourself. Continuing to feel offended will only be harmful to you.
"Your parents paid for you to study medicine abroad, you didn't earn the position through academic merit." What does that have to do with anything? My point is that if all goes well, whether due to my academic merit or parents paying for me, I will be able to earn a lot either way. I'm very confident though but I will be in my mid 30s by then. You're trying to deteriorate the topic here though by taking cheap shots at me. By first saying "you deserve no girl" and then "your academic merit has nothing to do with it". Why make it personal? Are you this butthurt at me for calling you out in your obvious racial prejudice in your original post? By the age of 25 or 26, my attitude and all was "improved" till I truly became of women's shallowness regarding a man's race and skin color. "In the mean time, accept that you cannot change mine or any other woman's sexual preferences." Did you even read any of my posts? Or just pretending to be ignorant? I never said anything to heavenonearth.
"Accept that we are free to express our views without having to be politically correct for the "victims of reality" such as yourself. Continuing to feel offended will only be harmful to you."
I accept that, but you should also accept that we are free here to call out on any racially prejudiced comment made by girls or anyone for that matter. But yeah, realistically, a brown skinned Indian guy who is neither tall, rich, or buff literally has no chance in dating no matter what attitude he has. His chances are as good as winning the lottery. Even though I have never had a girl like me in my life, I find it amusing how I had an option to see a girl who was 9 out of 10 looks wise and also a pharmacist. I swear if you don't believe me. She knew I studied overseas and got in cause of my parents. I was never open for an arranged so I said no. So yeah, my point is that money is a huge factor for girls. A guy belonging to certain racial groups have to compensate for their racial disadvantage.
@MyUsernameRules there's no such thing as a racial disadvantage. If there was, then that race wouldn't exist today, by law of survival of the fittest. The bottom line is, I don't find Indians like you attractive neither in terms of looks not personality, so suck it up and move on. Make yourself more attractive to other females.
There is racial disadvantage and way more common among men since women are way more picky in a man's race and skin color. The only reason why races won't die is because of location and conservatism. A lot of girls like Indian girls prefer white guys but are too scared cause of parents. If you look at Asian girls, there's a lot now who aren't conservative and they easily prefer white guys than Asian guys. I care less if you don't find me or other guys attractive. You said white guys are sweet, fun, romantic, and great in bed as in you know every guy in the world. Guess what? Guys of other races can be "sweet, fun, romantic, and great in bed" also. Being politically incorrect is one thing but taking a subtle prejudiced shot at guys of your own race is another. And that's what I called you out on.
@MyUsernameRules I wouldn't agree that you called me out on anything but my right to express myself on an open forum. I view you as a guy who blames his genetics and lack of attractive traits for his poor success on the dating field, and saw my post as an avenue to project your insecurities and express your disgust women who choose to date white men over Indians.
"I wouldn't agree that you called me out on anything but my right to express myself on an open forum."
People have a right to express whatever they want on an open forum, including racial prejudices. And people like me have a right to express my disgust at racially prejudiced generalizations.
"I view you as a guy who blames his genetics and lack of attractive traits for his poor success on the dating field"
I've met enough guys belonging in my category (non tall, non rich, non buff brown or dark Indian) to know that our chances really is as good as winning the lottery. Very very small chance.
"saw my post as an avenue to project your insecurities and express your disgust women who choose to date white men over Indians."
Oh yeah? Then how come I didn't say anything to the other Indian female user choosing a white man over Indian men genius? You make me laugh. The only Indian women choosing white men over Indian men I'll express my "disgust" to are the ones who are being prejudiced by implying that only white men possess such positive characteristics as their reason. If I see anyone making blunt generalization or subtle generalization, I'll call them out on it.
@MyUsernameRules You really are obsessive, boring and pathetic. This is the reason you're still single. We're done.
Cause I don't agree with you? Lol get outta here. Resorting to low blows and cheap shots again since you can't come up with anything to argue with. You're so predictable. Haha
@MyUsernameRules I guess you're too thick to realize what I'm saying to you. No wonder you needed your parents to pay for your education abroad.
And there you go again with another cheap shot. One cheap shot after another. Speaks volumes about your character. Or evidently lack of since you can't argue without being personal. And you call me thick. Lol you're a riot. And fyi, I lost interest in my previous major at age 24. Next time you argue with someone, try to actually stick to the topic and present some substance to your argument. Rather than be butthurt with personal attacks.
@MyUsernameRules lol it's funny you would call anyone butt hurt. I'm not the one who is whining about being short, dark, non-buff and not rich. I'm not the one who is whining about having a racial disadvantage. Lol you're so butt hurt and born to take a cheap shot at yourself.
What I stated was pretty much facts though. I've seen enough of South Asian communities to observe that almost every South Asian guy that gets a girl is either tall, rich, buff, or really light skinned. If you care to even read this guy's link, you'll know what I'm talking about wilkes888. wordpress. com/2013/02/08/my-final-blog-entry-love-you-all/ He made a lot of great points. There is a racial disadvantage among guys. I personally don't consider myself to be racially disadvantaged but I know for a fact that girls consider brown or dark Indian guys who are neither tall, rich, or buff automatically unappealing. They happen to be more influenced by the media's promotion of European beauty standards than guys and it's clearly evident by observing them.
I'm 5'8 and don't consider myself too short and brown here rather than dark but I know all this automatically eliminates my chances. Can you provide me a link or a source that shows women don't expect men of certain races to not compensate? Substance please? Or should I just expect more predictable cheap shots?
That other poster is a bit jaded and maybe out of line. Dating may be tougher for Indian guys in some ways but that's no justification for some of those replies.
That being said, I would agree that it is unfair to generalize an entire race of men. I'm sure there are some good Indian lovers out there. I'd count myself (ha)... Wouldn't you feel hurt if someone said that Indian women were too hairy or didn't have figures as nice as those of another race?
Personally, I find it repulsive when my Indian friends talk about dating white women. It comes off as a kind of self-hatred to me.
Not a white guy, but I've seen it and the girls family was hapoy with it i think. I never heard otherwise, but then again i haven't seen that many couples. Well if your family is open to the idea, it should go pretty smooth.
It can work but it also can be a strange (in a neutral way) as the cultures of both parties mix. Really it comes down to the Indian half's parents accepting the white counterpart.
The two cultures mixing is okay, it's the clash of cultures that I am scared of, we are very very different culturally, though me and my boyfriend love each other's cultures and take part in everything, accepting a culture so different to ours may be hard for my parents. You are completely right about it coming down to the Indian parents acceptance
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my best friend is indian and she likes white guys even if her parents wouldn't let her date any guy. she always jokes about running away from home like in bollywood movies so she doesn't get an arranged marriage haha but i think she'll end up with a white guy. her parent's can't control who she loves.
I completely agree with your friend, I wouldn't run away though :P
Lol. Majority of the Indian girls prefer white guys over Indian guys but many stick with Indian guys cause of their parents.
Why do you find Indian guys attractive? Girls generally find Indian guys to be hideous. And your friend would definitely not like guys in India. Especially due to the cultural difference.
Interesting. Then again, those Indian guys might be either tall, buff, rich, or really light skinned. An Indian guy has to be at least one of the four in order to be liked by girls. If he's not then he has no shot at dating. I'm a brown skinned Indian guy myself who isn't tall (5'8 here), not rich, and not buff. I used to approach girls a lot but it never worked out so I gave up. Not only non Indian girls wouldn't date a non tall, non rich, non buff brown or dark skinned Indian guys but also Indian girls wouldn't date Indian guys like us. Many would rather stay single till they or their parents would get them arranged to the richest guy they can find for marriage. Deep down inside, almost every Indian girl prefers a white guy over an Indian guy lol.
Girls in general are far more influenced by the media's promotion of European beauty standards than guys. Guys of all races are usually open to dating girls of all races. Can't say the same about girls of all races when it comes to guys of all races. Girls of all races are only attracted to white guys mainly and really light skinned guys. Also black guys too in some cases but I think a lot of that might have to do with the BBC (big black cock) stereotype. Take that stereotype away and I highly doubt same amount of girls would still date them. Guys like Indian guys, East Asian guys, and dark skinned guys of other races not including blacks have to compensate for their racial disadvantage in order to be liked by girls. It's interesting cause us guys are way more open minded when it comes to a girl's race and skin color. I mean there are guys who consider race and skin color important but far less than girls. Girls of all races are just too fixated on white guys usually.
Exactly. He was buff. A white guy, really light skinned guys of other races, and black guys don't have to be buff to be liked by girls. But an Indian guy has to be at least either tall, rich, buff, or really light skinned to be liked by girls. Doesn't matter if you only like buff guys because that doesn't change the fact. Unlike white guys, light skinned guys of other races, and black guys, a brown skinned Indian guy has to compensate for his racial disadvantage by being either tall, rich, or buff to be liked by a girl. This is no self hate but just facts.
@MyUsernameRules I completely disagree with your opinion that Indian girls will not date any guy who is not tall or buff or rich or light skinned. I am an Indian and most of my friends have already selected guys who they will be marrying and they did the choosing, not their parents. And the boys they have selected do not necessarily fall into the categories you specified. They are with these men because of love between them. Please stop painting girls as materialistic bitches who will sell themselves for money or physical attributes because we don't.
The same goes for you saying that our parents would get us married off to the richest man they can find. They are our parents who have brought us up with a lot of love and care and not as some goats fattened for slaughter. So please stop painting everyone with the same brush.
At this point I know you will tell me that I don't have a right to say anything because I am dating a white man myself, but that is not because I hate Indian men
yeah! tell him asker haha but seriously, i'm not attracted to non buff guys at all. i like east Asian guys too! and African guys are my favorite and not because of the BBC stereotype but because they're attractive. the whole "racial disadvantage" thing is BS and you only need 1 person to love.
@MyUsernameRules (cont'd.) nor is it because I can't find an Indian man who is rich/tall/buff/light skinned as per your theory. I have dated Indian men in the past and I had no problems with them. I am with my current boyfriend and I want to marry him because he is the man who I love the most and who is most suited to me out of all the men I have dated. And no, it's not because he is white.
I don't know why you are so prejudiced against Indian women and their parents and I don't know where you have interacted with such god forsaken people who made you have such a cynical opinion, but trust me, not everyone thinks like you.
"I completely disagree with your opinion that Indian girls will not date any guy who is not tall or buff or rich or light skinned."
I meant Indian girls would not date any Indian guy who isn't either tall, rich, buff, or really light skinned. Same applies for East Asian guys and brown or dark guys of other races not including blacks.
"I am an Indian and most of my friends have already selected guys who they will be marrying and they did the choosing, not their parents. And the boys they have selected do not necessarily fall into the categories you specified. They are with these men because of love between them."
I'm sure those guys your friends selected are either future doctors, engineers, or anything that guarantees he'll have a lot of money due to a really well paying job. That's why Indian parents force us more than their daughters to excel in studies. Because they know our chances are shit in getting a girl without it. A non tall, non buff, non rich, brown Indian guy has no shot
"tell him asker haha but seriously, i'm not attracted to non buff guys at all."
Which girl is? Unless the guys are either white, really light skinned guys of other races like Latino, or black in some cases. If he's white or rich then that can attract girls but girls preferences in guys is very limited and predictable. Not like guys preferences in girls. Our preferences in girls is way more vast, diverse, and unpredictable.
"the whole "racial disadvantage" thing is BS and you only need 1 person to love."
It's not politically correct but it very well exists. Girls believe in racial hierarchy and it's very evident if you take the time to observe. Girls words are very sweet but their actions speak otherwise.
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Take the time to read this link and you'll know what I'm talking about.
"The same goes for you saying that our parents would get us married off to the richest man they can find. They are our parents who have brought us up with a lot of love and care and not as some goats fattened for slaughter. So please stop painting everyone with the same brush."
You really think Indian parents would be okay if their daughter brought home a guy with a blue collar job? Like a lumberjack or a plumber for example? No matter how great he might be as a person? Give me a break! Haha
@MyUsernameRules okay, for the record, I am a chartered accountant and I earn enough for myself without needing a man to support me. My parents have two daughters and we have always been encouraged to be financially dependent because my parents cannot bear the thought of us being dependent on some man for his money..
You have turned this entire discussion into some stupid race war or an Indian girl punching bag for some weird twisted reason of yours. It is Indian men like you who go abroad and wallow in send pity and want attention by crying about your lot that spoils the reputation of all the Indian men out there. I don't need your opinion on this because my question wasn't about why Indian girls date Indian men or foreigners, it was about the experiences of other interracial couples. Since you have nothing to say about that and are making things unpleasant for everyone, please take your unsolicited, prejudiced, cynical answers and mack on someone else.
"no girl in their right mind wants to date a midget, skinny who's impoverished! ur little rule works on any girl so stop being racist!"
So wait, if a guy isn't tall like 6 foot then he's a midget? WTF! If a guy isn't buff then he's skinny? Even if he might be very athletically fit? Awesome! And who am I being racist against here? Lol. Enlighten me please :P
I'm just stating facts here. You and I both know that a brown or a dark skinned Indian guy who isn't tall, rich, or buff has no shot at girls. Doesn't matter what race a girl is. If I really am taking shots here, it's at girls in general and not just Indian girls. But I'm not taking shots here and rather just stating facts. Girls like you hate the fact that there are guys like me who aren't politically correct and are very vocal about how crazy girls' expectations are in guys. To make us not be heard or have guys like us be taken seriously, you girls call us bitter and try to demonize us as if we're sexist, horrible and "unsolicited, prejudiced, cynical answers and mack on someone else" like you say. Even though I'm just being truthful about how girls in the society are. There's no race war here because I was talking to the opinion owner here. You're just bitter because you don't like me stating the facts about girls.
@MyUsernameRules not going to bother to even dignify your comment with a relevant answer. Keep talking, but you're painting yourself as a loser here. No one cares anymore.
"no girl in their right mind wants to date a midget, skinny who's impoverished!"
First you say this ^ and now you say this -----> "anyone can find love, you don't have to white, rich, buff or tall to find a woman and be happy."
Make up your mind. And asker, the only reason why there are quite a bit of Indian guys like me is because we know how racial girls are in their preferences. White guys don't have a racial disadvantage when it comes to dating so you will barely see them complain. Even really light skinned guys of other races. These guys don't know what it's like to have a racial disadvantage when it comes to dating. And for a brown or a dark skinned Indian guy who isn't either tall, rich, or buff, the chances of him getting a girl is as good as winning the lottery! A guy like that has to approach girls non stop in order to finally be liked by at least 1 girl. Just like how a person has to buy lottery tix non stop in order to increase his chance to winning the lottery.
@MyUsernameRules lol ok i see how that could be taken but i didn't really mean the first sentence. i said it because i was annoyed! it's pretty frustrating talking to you.. i really do believe anyone can find love. also your mindset is increasingly depressing, maybe that's why you can't find a woman and not because you don't win the checklist.
Nope. I don't walk around being inferior. I have a great future but I don't wanna get a girl no matter how much money I'll make so I planned to give up on dating before I got close to becoming a doctor. I always dreamed as a kid to have a girl like me for me. My parents always told me growing up that I should become this successful and that successful and be this great at studying and get high grades. Even though I tried doing all that, I still always wanted to prove to myself that money would never be an issue. I've always been athletically fit and never wanted to be really buff. Especially since I'm fast and have a really good stamina not to mention due to med school I don't have the time to even focus on being buff like a lot of other guys. My height is 5'8 and that will never be changed. My race and skin color will never be changed. I personally don't see myself as inferior and never will be but I'm very well aware that girls do. Or else our chances in dating wouldn't be so shit.
"not going to bother to even dignify your comment with a relevant answer. Keep talking, but you're painting yourself as a loser here. No one cares anymore."
But instead take low blows and cheap shots by name calling. Right? Can't blame you here. That's what happens when a person ends up having no substance to their argument. They tend to resort to low blows and cheap shots with name calling and such.
"i really do believe anyone can find love. also your mindset is increasingly depressing, maybe that's why you can't find a woman and not because you don't win the checklist."
I'm not looking for love anymore. I was depressed when I was looking but once I started meditating a bit and chose to give up, my state of mind came at peace. But I'll still continue to state the facts about girls. More than ever before because guys like me need to be aware of how girls truly are. It's very toxic for guys like me to keep on approaching girls and continue to be rejected simply because of how they were born. Because a lot of these guys are truly unaware of their racial disadvantage and all. All this may be politically incorrect but it's definitely the truth.
I know a white guy who has dated an Indian girl for a long time. He even went to India with her and traveled, met her family and all. No issues at all with them!
One of my college buddies married an Indian girl. But, she was like completely Americanized.
Nothing unusual here. Indian girls or Indian guys have an overly crazy obsession over their western counterparts. You'd fair just fine I presume
Only difference is Western guys like Indian girls but Western girls don't like Indian guys. Unless he's either buff, tall, or rich.
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