There is no single answer to your question. If you are talking about physical beauty alone, then we know that 5 would be average and therefore any girl rated 6+ would look better than average which would be enough for many guys. The problem is that one guy may see a girl as an 7 or 8 and another sees that same girl as 4 or 5.
Related to this is the fact that many guys will not go after a girl who is a 9 or 10. They may be just too intimidated by her good looks or see her as a girl who comes with too much baggage or is maybe high maintenance.
Another issue is that when you talk about a girlfriend, physical beauty will only count for so much. I finally got up the courage to ask out a girl in school who was generally acknowledged to be a 10+. Her personality, as it turned out, deserved about a 2. We all want a good looking Girlfriend but how do you rate a girl who is unquestionably drop-dead-gorgeous but everything else about that person rates a ZERO.
Well obviously the middle numbers are a toss up in terms of defining them. But a one would be like you look like a mutant from outerspace, and a 10 is like a victoria secret model.
That being said, most girl typically fall between a 6-8 for me, since anything 9 or above is nearly unattainable unless you just have amazing genes.
I will admit that for guys, we are less picky if all we are looking to do is scratch the itch. I for one would probably set my bottom end for just sex around a 5-6. Dating would be around a 6-7. Obviously other factors come into play besides looks. Most of the girls I've dated weren't exactly drop dead gorgeous even though I found them beautiful in their own way, they just had great personalities to go with their looks that made them the awesome person they were.
As a girl I was really interested in what guys would say.. a lot of nice guys on this site ^-^
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There's way too much about this.
But generally, if you're above a 7 in looks, then personality is what will make or break overall attraction.
But these numbers are also relative. A 8 or 9 on my campus is probably a 7 on many campuses, and probably a 5 in Europe. That is, over here, thin is considered an unrealistic standard, and in Europe, thin is normal and people don't have a problem with the standard.
But basically, it's simply a threshold you have to meet in terms of looks. And once you meet that threshold, personality matters more than anything. The question is how many women meet that threshold?
I look at every aspect of a female.
A number is far too simple to put on a anyone.
If I had a rating system? I would have to rate every category, somehow come up with an impossible equation, average out everything and come up with a 1-10.
How I rate my girls:
Be my girlfriend
-decent looking
-certain hairstyle
-certain race
-same or lower age than me
-acceptable personality
-not too social or a loner
Be my friend (overly nice)
-too beautiful
-too ugly
-great personality
-too young or too old
-party people
Ignore
-different personality
-different interests
-always butting in, interrupting
-religion troll
-druggies
-lemme sleep with you
In short:
I will date an average person
Befriend (outstanding) Megan Fox or Selena Gomez...
And ignore the uncategorized.
It's just very subjective, someone's 10 is other guy's 6.
But to put it simple - 5 is average, 4 is below average, anything below 4 is terrible.
6 is slightly above average.
7 is attractive.
8 is very attractive.
9 is almost perfect.
10 obviously is perfect.
i use a different scale, its a three part scale, the first number is a number one through 9 a rating for the facial features, and second number will either be a one or a 2, one meaning "I'd do her" 2 meaning no way! the third number being a rating of the body one through 9, its a more practical scale being a girl can have a banging body without the matching facial features for instance a 318 we got a three eighteen everybody!
I don't use that scale. I use a 1-2-3 scale
1- not my type, so no go
2- mediocre, might hang out, probably no sex
3- I like and I want
But as far as the 1-10 go, I wouldn't sleep with anyone I don't consider 8 and up. Key idea there is "anyone I consider". They might not be 8s for some other guy, but I don't give a sh*t about that...Personality is included in this also for me...
For me it's not a simple scale of 1-10. I use 2 independent scales of 1-10 for her face and for her body. also, certain immediate turn offs come into play: Weight and skin are the usual factors that cause turn offs. If a girl is slightly heavier but has good skin, it's probably okay.at the same time, of a really fit girl has bad skin, I wouldn't like her.
and I can't say which number elicits which response from me. I would have to see the girl in question.
If I don't find someone attractive, I don't pursue a friendship either.
The whole 1-10 scale regarding ranking women is bullsh*t. There is only one scale for me: A one means she's good enough for me in every way and a 0 means she's not good enough for me.
For me, the 1-10 scale is purely physical.
"you to want to sleep with her" -> I'll sleep with anything from 4-10, but *want* to sleep with... hmm, let's say 6-10.
"find attractive" - Not always number dependent, but as a general rule, 6-10.
"to want her to be your girlfriend" almost never number dependent. Call it 2-10.
"to hookup with" - already answered this - 4-10, if it's going.
This is a combination of looks & personality
1-4: no comment
5:okay
6:eh... not bad but nothing is going to happen
7:I would hook up with you, but I probably won't date you
8: the threshold for dating and liking anything more doesn't really mean anything except the fact that I find you intensely attractive and I want to be with you.
5 or below:
Below my standards.
6:
Datable if they have a rockin' personality. Probably wouldn't have any kind of purely sex relationship with them.
7 or above:
Datable and sexable.
This is mostly in terms of looks, though. Whether or not I date someone will rely heavily on their personality as well.
I'm kinda binary. Either I think a woman is attractive enough I'd want to date, or I don't.
Personally, I don't ever rate a girl when I see her, it's just something stupid really if taken seriously.
I will sleep with any girl from 1-10 as long as they are clean (no std's) but for a girlfriend, nothing less than a 6-7
1 is the worst 5 is average 10 is perfect
6+ For Girlfriend, Kissing, Hooking up, anything
I don't scale girls or guys If I like it I like it really good. :)
Scale of 1-10, one being the lowest.
sleep with her 5-10
Girlfriend 7-10
If its based on appearance, there's 1-10 and there are 15's. 15's are like in blackjack, not sure if youd hit it
10- daaaaaaaaaaammmmnnn!
1- ugh!
This should be intresting :) +5
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