why are some guys so lucky to have a girlfriend who loves him and other guys are not loved at all even though they are decent guys, what magic do these guys got ?
Why are some guys so lucky and other are not?
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Why were they even born as males and humans? ;)
Why are some born tall and some short?
Why are some born white while some colored?
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Honestly buddy it's about answering all those questions too :)
I'm a guy who came up from being an ugly duckling till my teens and then became a swan. I used to wonder at an younger age if someone will ever love me, look upto me or be attracted to me.
I changed very fast, learnt confidence, improvised on many things to be the way I am today - attractive enough to be described as strikingly handsome by a few ofcourse there are others who don't think so lol, colleagues looking upto me, competitors hating me if I'm not on their rolls ;) etc
BUT again I think nature / god or whatever you call it / him / her allowed it to happen so it did, I've seen a crazy downfall from that status too inspite of doing things exactly the same way I used to when everyone admired and looked upto me and bounced back again too.
I'm neither an overtly religious person nor am I a fatalist but there are things I don't just compare or debate or question and this is one of those :)
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Because women want money and looks. They claim it doesn't matter, but it does. Even the undesirable women standards are astronomically high when compared to the undesirable men . And most guys That are lucky enough to get women hate to admit that they got lucky. They want to believe that they got women through working for them confidence, etc. I never "worked" to get a woman and I still got women. I used no game, no formulas from dating experts or advice. Every woman I ever dated I always thought in my head that I wasn't going to get her, so I know that confidence isn't required to get a woman like so many claim. I don't even have a award winning personality and still get women. Money and looks matter more than personality .
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Why are some guys so lucky and other are not?
Likely because they have reasonable criteria and have the attractiveness, appeal, wealth, and/or status to get a girlfriend.
why are some guys so lucky to have a girlfriend who loves him and other guys are not loved at all even though they are decent guys, what magic do these guys got ?
Probably because those guys who are not loved at all have unreasonable criteria and don't have the attractiveness, appeal, wealth, and/or status to get a girlfriend. Being a decent guy doesn't necessarily deter from being unattractive as being decent tends to be a default expectation so it's consider a given not a plus. I'm unsure why it seems so many guys think this is some super special snowflake trait.
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umm you don't just ''get'' someone to date,considering factors like location,sexuality,mentality,stages in life,attraction,just plain out not noticing people is pretty important.
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Born with a silver spoon in their mouth.
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You don't get a girlfriend by luck. You get one by working at it.
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They probably have a big Magic Stick.
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they're just born under a lucky star
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They have the magic that is self-esteem
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Right time and right place
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