Why does a guy make promises and cares a lot but only until he is hoping for a yes for his purposal but when you deny he stops giving a fuck about u?

[Anonymous]

I had a frnd for two years. He was so kind to me. We talked a lot. He was elder than me like 7 years. I would talk to him about my days and a lot more. We had a great bond. He tend to listen me in my lowest and Try to comfort me. He was so caring to me. He found me very unique from others that's what he used to say. He always said the guy I'll have with me will be luckiest and many more like this. He made me feel very confident in my life. One day suddenly he started staying away from me I was so sad I pushed him to tell me what's wrong after lots of force he said he fell for me and it's wrong cuz I m so young plus I deserve a lot better. I don't know I just felt good that someone loves me cuz I barely got love in my life , always denied purpoasals I just wanted love from family but never got so I felt good he is loving me. I asked him everything how does he feel. It made me feel so good when he told me how deeply he is in love with me for 2 years. He told me how freaking much he cares for me and can wait for me to grow up more Even if it's 10 years he will. He told some very romantic stuffs. But I denied and told him I am not interested in that way. Everything changed he didn't even want my frndship anymore. I kepyt forcing him to be my frnd again , I missed our bond. But he stopped giving even a fuck about me. I even told him how bad I was suffering in my life nearly trying to kill myself bcz of my family issues and instead of helping me he blocked me and stopped meeting me at all he even said I am so toxic as I kept forcing him for frndship and he said he needed time but I didn't give any he even said he can never be my frnd anymore. he Left me all alone. He doesn't care at all now. It has been 4 months he didn't even ask once if I am alive. Why so? Is love all about getting that person? You only care til the person is ready to be yours? Otherwise you don't give a fuck?

[Adam1978]

You choose to not be in his inner circle he cares about and you wonder why he does not have care about you? You made the choice, not him. You have to deal with your mistakes because you chose other people to support you. And if you have issues you choose poorly.

[bamesjond0069]

Probably the same reason a dudes fucking a girl and she asked to be his girlfriend and monogamous and he says no and she gets upset and stops seeing him and dates someone else. Duh? Like why would she not just keep having sex? Why would it change things? Oh brother.

[boggboss]

Because he can't deal with friendship and dont want to suffer from knowing u don't want him so he is doing what's best for himself and cut u off

[Asker]

Breaking 2 years frndship just because I didn't say yes. It was so cruel I had no fault. at least he should have cared when I was suffering. why did he talk a lot that he cares for me like hell but when I denied he doesn't even care if I die. Why so sudden change?

[boggboss]

Do u not understand all that time he only saw u as a friend so to him it was fine once he grew feelings the dynamic changed for u things where the same but for him he no longer just wanted friendship he wanted more and if thats somthing u don't want that means u wanted him to constantly be in a place of pain whenever he spoke to you no its not your fault u don't like him like that but equally it's not his fault he got feelings for you so the only fix is to cut it off

[Anonymous]

😂😂

[Asker]

What?

[Opinion Owner]

You're cute... he just don't value your decision. Such a dick he is.

[Asker]

Why laughing then. That was rude.

[Opinion Owner]

Sorry love 😘

[Asker]

One more Bastard I guess.

[Opinion Owner]

😂😂