Boys help! How can I make PUA fall in love with me?

[Anonymous]

This is a silly question.

but I know the guy I used to date is pua.

How can I make him fall for me?

[ProTraceurDGDJ]

Give up we PUA's are PUA's for a reason we've been burned hard & whether it was because we were played by a better player, or we were just naive boys who believed in true love Disney fairytale sh!t & were then heart broken or the one we thought was THE ONE betrayed us in a unbelievable & f-ed up way, or when we were young & naive the girl we had a crush on left us for an older & more experienced bad boy because we were too nice & did everything we were told to do by our mother in how to attract ladies not realizing this was gonna get us friendzoned & now we just feel disappointed with the opposite sex & disappointed in ourselves & we're losing confidence & starting to question our own Masculinity so in order for us to Reaffirm our Masculinity & Gain Confidence in ourselves we learn game & go chase as much tail as we possibly can in order to prove to ourselves that we are MANLY MEN! Seriously this is the actual reason why we start doing this. I'd never say it if I'd have put up my picture or any other personal detail or if I'd ever plan to in the future. Also if he's been doing this for a bunch of years like from Jr.High/High School all the way to mid to late 20's then it's gone from a way to ''Reaffirm his Masculinity & Build back up his Self Confidence'' to a ''WAY OF LIFE'' & if it's the latter rather than the former then yea give up he's too set in his ways to change for anybody the only person that can change him at this point is himself & he has to want it as well...

[thetundrawolf]

I'm sorry to say, but you probably can't. People who are willing to grab girls easily are the least likely to devote their hearts to them, unfortunately. He might seem like he has charisma, and it is attractive, but sometimes the Bad Boy isn't the one who's going to devote his life to you. What do you want? To be used and left as soon as someone prettier/ easier to pick up comes along?

I'm sorry. Hold off, there is another guy for you. He might not seem as outgoing, or cool. But if you get to know him, perhaps you will find a genuinely caring, sweet guy who will fall in love with you.

[vmw2008]

I wouldn't even try. PUA was designed for guys who want to pick up and have sex with girls as easily and with as little attachment as possible. Then leave and pick up another girl. It's mainly about numbers to impress other men with their "skills." If he's devoted to that sort of lifestyle, he's being fed info constantly about how to get sex only.

Imagine a club designed to teach women on how to get rich men quickly and easily to spend money on us, and then drop him for another rich guy and so on. Would you advise ANY guy to try and get that girl to fall in love with him? Or would you tell him to move on and find a girl less bent on using him and other men? That's exactly what PUAs are. Gold diggers of the male race, and a part of a club that teaches them how.

[Prettygurl12]

You need to sell your voice to Ursula in exchange for 3 days with him and then, without talking, somehow you have to get him to kiss you but not just any kiss. The kiss of TRUE LOVE. If he does kiss you, you'll stay human forever. But if he doesn't, you turn into an urchin and belong to her for the rest of forever! :D

Yeah no serious, no idea. I don't even know what PUA is.

[kheserthorpe]

The general goal of pua is to not get attached to girls, therefor viewing them as replaceable, which lets you casually, coolly and entertainingly pick them up while giving you the guts to ignore any BS.

So if he's 'good' at it, its pretty much not possible.

Specifically, you already dated him. He'd either be in love with you by now or its not happening.

Finally, if he's really good at pua, he may eventually settle down and marry, but it will be a pretty calculated decision, he would pick a girl who is very sexually loyal, good mother, good wife attributes, and make a decision to build a life with her, gradually trusting her more, but ultimately, he'll probably never try to be head over heels. Rather he will care for and appreciate her, loving her without relying on her.

[Anonymous]

That's easy...Use the same PUA techniques on him. I assume you had sex already with him. I would suggest you cut it off, don't be available, and transition him in the "Friend Zone". He'll try much harder and be more committed. Here's the kicker...To keep him...Don't ever make yourself too available...All dudes (PUAs, nice guys, players, ALL!) will lose attraction to someone that's too available or easy. Be mysterious!

[Anonymous]

Ignore him and don't show any interest. If you do make sure it is very very very subtle. That'll make him run after ya.

[3someDoctor]

First off, what is a PUA.