If a girl says no to a date?

I guess it depends on why she said no, and how she said no. If you want to ask her out again, then you should. I've asked a girl out several times and she has only said yes three times, but in my case its kinda hard to have a relationship because we're both so busy. Maybe the girl you like is comparable to my situation. If you asked her out and she said heck no, don't bother asking her again. If she said no and gave a reason, she might just be really busy, so you should get to know her a little and ask her again later. If you asked her out by texting her, you should have expected a no from her. If you asked her and she said no, but suggested maybe you two could go out or hang out later, then she wants to go out, just not right now.That means she's busy, but she does want to spend time with you. I'm assuming she didn't say yes or heck yes, like what I've got a couple times, but don't sweat it.

I think it depends on how she said no. If she says "I would love to but I already have plans" or "Maybe some other time" then you should definitely ask her again because you probably just caught her at a bad time. Now if she just says no and doesn't give a reason then I would assume she's not interested unless she makes it obvious that she is. Basically if she has already said no to you then you shouldn't ask again unless you are sure that she is interested. Doing so will just annoy her if she isn't interested and could even be considered harassment, which could mean dealing with litigation and even jail time if she decides to press charges (although unlikely asking a second time). You can still talk to her and see if she gives off signs that she would be interested in going out, but unless she does I would move on and not ask her out again.

If YOU'RE interested then make sure to ask her again! I don't know what you asked her to do -go together, go to a movie or what? Maybe wait a week and then ask her to do something different. It's ok to keep asking as long as you don't get a definite rebuke or a nasty NO or she tells you to pleas don't ask her anymore! Then you have to take it that she has no interest in your, but remember other girls might so don't let that be a big put down as if no girls will ever wanna go with you. It could have been poor timing on your part, or maybe she'll have second thoughts someday and give you a chance but you won't know unless you ask her. Too many guys don't get the girls they really like because they're afraid to ask, or they're afraid to ask more than once, or they don't think they have a chance.

ask her out for a catch up date

you gain both ways:

if yes - you go on date (pretend as friend though you want more - be aware play cool and ask politely for a follow on date at end, always be couteous/polite - be the gentleman

if she says no - you rock for asking her out - but you have to put it away then and move on

once I asked a girl out I really liked, as usual response NO!

9 months later she wanted desperately to go out with me. I was not interested.

that's life.

women are strange creatures ;-) we hope!

i'm in a situation where I met a girl she was constantly sitting behind me afew rows and in the end I introduced myself to her. she was friendly and gave me her name and told me what she did etc. two weeks later I asked her out for a coffee as she was still sitting behind me. she said no as she was going away for a week. I said well maybe when you come back then. she smiled but did not say anything. I sort of felt she was not interested. when she came back she sat well away from me infont. twice I've seen her look at me and then turn her head suddenly. I don't know if I should ask her out again. please someone give me some advice...