Why is he acting so perverted now?

Question

Well this guy I like, who probably likes me back, according to most of you, he has started acting really perverted around me lately. I don't know if it's because hr wants to be funny or whatever. For example, in P.E he brought a bag of chips under his shirt, he kind off got close to me and said oh I didn't feel that? haha that kinda made me and my friend laugh, but that's not the point.

He grabbed with both hands...and then started swinging it back and forth towards his "area" and while he did it he was looking at me, which freaked me out. But me and my friend thought it was funny. haha I still think it is. haha. ok another example, my guy friend, he brought a pencil holder to P.E because he wanted to annoy my friend because she thought it looked like a penis. yea my school is perverted I know. so anyway my friend took it away from the guy and threw it towards the guy I like [not on purpose], so he grabbed it and put it in his pants and it looked like he had a boner. and so he smiled and looked at me.

weird huh? Anyone wanna tell me what this means?

Hoshi-Reed · Accepted Answer

He isn't really perverted as much as suggestive/horny. High schoolers have raging hormones and poor expression skills (especially males) - it is the hallmark of immaturity. It all depends on how you feel. Does his actions make you uncomfortable or embarrassed? Have you tried COMMUNICATION how you feel? He is probably waiting for a response. Popsicle sucking with a raised eyebrow as you look at him could get him to drop HIS jaw if you are in the mood to give tit for tat. (same with any other gesture sexually suggestive in nature). Or you can go the sit down at talk method and just ASK him if he wants to go out.

Beware however that he may like you but at that age, an emotional attachment probably isn't the main/only thing he is after. His hormones are making it hard for him to distinguish the difference. Most teens can't separate love from lust; hence the age old, "If you love me you'll go all the way. " to some they HONESTLY believe it. I mean think about it; Love has NO limits, and that means physical as well as emotional - to them a female putting limits may be interpreted to mean that you may not love them fully; that you are taking advantage of them.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I definitely wouldn't class this as being perverted, they're just being guys. If it makes you feel uncomfortable tell them to stop, but really I think they are just joking around.

The-Nash · Accepted Answer

Dude, you give this kid a lemon and he's going to make lemonade with it. He's probably just a really funny kid and now he thinks he knows how to make you laugh by doing these types of jokes (which are pretty funny, I'm laughing a little). DO NOT GIVE THIS KID A HOT- DOG! You don't want to know what he's going to do, lol. But if he is doing these things like directly in front of you then he really wants to try and make you laugh. My older brother does this kind of stuff, like at parties, just to get people laughing. But he's just doing guy things. Watch the movie Animal House, you'll understand a little bit better ... hopefully.

vortexofdoom97 · Accepted Answer

I definitely don't think that he has no interest in you at all, and I think he knows you like him.  He very likely likes you back, and I think that he was kind of putting on a show of machismo to see how you reacted.  This is how guys act around other guys, or even when they're testing the waters to see how girls react, to see if they like them.  Hope I helped.