Whew. Sorry. I could give you some advice m, on the guy but you’re already promiscuous which is a problem in itself. No. This isn’t slit shaming. Calm down.
Look. You’ve already hooked up with this guy in the past. It was a purely sexual relationship. I’m not judging I’ve had friends with benefits too... but obviously the relationship wasn’t going to go anywhere because it was purely sexual. Nothing but a hookup. For both of you.
What’s that old line? “Men look for sex and find love, women look for love and find sex.”
The reason why he hit you up out of the blue, and why he was all over you when you met up, was because he was HORNY. He ONLY wanted to call you up and hang out to fuck. Period.
This is something that no man will ever tell you, but it’s EASIER to sleep with a woman you’ve already slept with, even if you haven’t hung out in a long time, than it is to go out trying to find some other girl who is interested, available, and willing.
”Ah I’ve got it! I’ll just hit up @brittanyroseee She’s DTF.”
And you wonder why he was so forceful in wanting to have sex, and why he has basically ghosted you after screwing you.
Again, this isn’t slut-shaming or some big criticism of friends with benefits. Just, what did you expect sis?
Most Helpful Opinions
damn thats cold, and he didn't even buy you dinner.
You have to stand by what you say, if you say no and then give in then they won't respect you. Don't text him anymore... sorry :(
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
1Opinion
Sounds like he was tryna bust a nut lol
Learn more
We're glad to see you liked this post.
You can also add your opinion below!
Most Helpful Opinions