Why is he being weird?

[Anonymous]

I can overthink a little bit. Back in high school I had a just a little crush on this guy. We never tried anything hang out we’d just text. Now years later we chatted up for a month or two before hanging out. Slept together a couple times. He was pretty cool. He’d ask pretty personal questions that kinda made me raise my brows lol I never expected anything from him because I was still “healing” from my past. & didn’t want to force anything kinda goin with the flow. He mentioned being unhappy about his weight gain. Which I never had a problem with but I guess it’s not up to me. He wanted to work on himself so I completely understood that cuz I’m on the same chapter of my life. & never said anything to him after that or tried to see him again. That was months ago! Last week he liked a picture then after dayssss unliked it. I asked how he was doing. He said he was getting better & said he missed me. But he didn’t ask how I was doin so I cut that short lol My birthday was a couple days ago & before that he just will creep & creep! Is that what they call orbit? Or boredom! Lol

[joe2511]

I am actually in a similar situation myself just reversed. The person I am interested in is "working on themselves" so I kinda get where there is some confusion. I think what's helpful is to try not to overthink certain things, especially social media activity (liking or viewing stories), and look at other signs of interest like trying to hang out with you. I personally think he has feelings for you but may be unsure of how you feel especially since you are both working on yourselves. It may be helpful to have a conversation with him.

[Asker]

Thanks for the feed back! & being kind. Yes it’s very confusing I don't know if it means “I’ll be back around” or completely finished lol I hope your situation gets better!

[Asker]

@joe2511 hey I have an update he messaged me yesterday morning saying he wanted to see me soon & he just has these moods where he doesn’t talk to anyone. I understand because I’m that way as well. But he started off really flirty now just dead lol should I just leave these where they are

[joe2511]

He could be testing the waters out a bit. See if he asks you on a date or you could always invite him to hang out and see if he will. Depends on how you feel about him.