All Questions

My crush is so selfish?

I am pretty sure he likes me back, but he is so selfish, such a turnoff for me, but apart from that I know he is very kind. Should I move on, or give him a chance?

ChocolateStuff

Xper 4 Age: 29

What does it mean when he puts his arm around my shoulder?

So a guy in school I know has put his arm around my shoulder twice. We havnt really known each other very long and I want to know of he likes me or if it is just friendly.

gabbygirl0626

Xper 4 Age: 26

Break Up & Divorce

Does my baby daddy think I'm just his booty call?

My ex and I recently broke up. He needed therapy for some unresolved issues in tha past and wanted to be friends. He said there is a possibility he might want to work on things after counseling. Anyway, I am also pregnant...

Anonymous

(36-45)

We made out in his car?

We started by hugging and then we started kissing, with full tongue and then he put his hand on my face while we kissed. He also moaned a little, too. Before I left, he told me to text him so he knows I made it home...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do blonde girls like guys with dark features (hair, eyes, skin complexion etc) or do they like blonde guys?

Do blonde girls like guys with dark features (hair, eyes, skin complexion etc) or do they like blonde guys.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Why does she always stare at me? Girls please answer?

I can always feel her staring at me. I can't sleep at night. When we both stare at each other we last like 5 seconds. I caught her staring at me but then she quickly moves her head down. Why does she stare at me? Please...

Kolipoki

Xper 3 Age: 30

Why did he force me to hug him?

So at church everyone usually hugs to meet and greet but I dont want to hug guys anymore because I feel uncomfortable with hugs especially front hugs and sometimes I feel guys take it too far and they touch my hips and I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Long - distance... a relationship deal breaker?

How much does 'distance' matter to most guys? Like, if you really liked a girl... would you hold back if you lived a significant distance from each other?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

What does it mean when a guy calls you a priss?

a guy friend called me a priss. We were talking about my boyfriend and he said that I'm a priss because I don't have a type. I like bad boys and guys that are the polar opposite - more flamboyant-like. What's he saying?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why are all men cold heartless bastards? And players?

This guy who I thought liked me, because he said he did, and said such nice things to me, and kissed me, didn't want a relationship. Why did he mess with me like that?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do guys fantasize about their crush?

If yes, then what do they think about?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

Who do girls like abs?

Most girls at my school like abs which I have spent almost half a year perfecting. I like having abs but I am not sure why girls have a reason to like a 6 pack.

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

What does she mean by this? Can someone enlighten me please?

My girlfriend broke up with me saying that in her situation she cannot give me what I want. We have been together for 6 months, but we had to keep it a secret from my family because of some issues. She said that she...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do men outnumber women in the online dating world?

I have read that men seriously outnumber women on online dating sites, sometimes by as much as five to one. I have some ideas as to why this is, but I'd like to hear your opinions. Why do men outnumber women in the online...

Bluemax

Master Age: 58

Knuckle hair on a Girl?

I am a girl I have knuckle hair. And I have a lot of hair roots on the top of my hand. I feel so bad about them :/ I can't even write when someone looks at my hand. What should I do?

Anonymous

(25-29)

How to hint to a guy that you like him?

I really like this guy and I'm pretty sure that he likes me but he's super shy and we don't really know each other very well. I want to hint that I like him because I've liked him for a really long time and it's driving...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My gf spanks me.. Not sure if its for real or if its role playing?

she spanks me when I don't do what I'm told. it hurts sometimes but i enjoy it once in a while. if this continues could she end up feeling like she's the boss in the relationship?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Family & Friends

Today, my crush slapped my butt! He's done it like 5 times already. And there's a rumor around school that he likes me. And that we are dating?

I want to know, does he love me, or not. if i ask him, it can ruin our relationship. we have been friends for 2 yrs. How should I tell him that I like him.

Flirtygirly400

Xper 5 Age: 23

Why do black girls have such big butts?

Obviously not *all* black girls, but a very large portion of them, I think most of them, have very round, full bottoms. On white girls it's fairly rare to find that, and on Asians/Indians it's almost non-existent, I've...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, if you're hugging a female friend why would you nuzzle your cheek on hers? Is that friendly or romantic?

My crush and I had a long tight hug about a week ago and he started rubbing his cheek on mine. He hadn't done that before. This happened between classes, so we had to go. It felt like we were about to kiss for the first...

Anonymous

(30-35)

19 years old, never been kissed or dated anyone?

I'm a 19 year old girl, I've never kissed anyone or been in a relationship and this really gets me down. I may be not a Victoria Secret model, but I know I am not ugly (not being pretentious here) even though I am a bit...

Anonymous

(30-35)

HUGE height difference.. I'm 5ft, he's 6"4?

I like this guy a LOT, and he likes me too... But there's one problem. He's more than a foot taller than me! So I want to know.. What do you think? Is that too big of a height difference for you? Or would it not matter in...

Catlet

Xper 5 Age: 27

Girl's Behavior

Why do girls look down when I pass by?

Why do girls look down when I pass by? Like 9 out of 10 girls I pass by while walking down the street, tend to look down. I don't know why this happens, can it be that I'm intimidating? It's kind of annoying because...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Did you find Charles Schmid attractive?

Charles Howard 'Smitty' Schmid, Jr. (July 8, 1942 – March 30, 1975), also known as "The Pied Piper of Tucson," was an American serial killer. At 5'3"/5'4", Schmid was a short man who wore cowboy boots stuffed with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it mean of me to make my boyfriend wear a diaper an a road trips?

My boyfriend has a really small bladder it's like he's the girl instead of me and we have to stop like every hour so he can pee it takes a lot longer to get anywhere. So last road trip I made him wear a diaper he was mad...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should I invite him to my house after the date?

I am going out with a guy who lives about 35 minutes from my house. We are planning to go to a bar right next to my house because I live in Manayunk (If you haven't heard of it; Manayunk is a part of Philly with lots of...

manee

Xper 5 Age: 37

Hey is it creepy to have a picture of your crush in your wallet?

Yes or No? or Creepy or you Don't know?

Anonymous

(25-29)

GUYS: Do you stay friends after rejection?

Like after you get rejected by a girl who is a good friend or get the "I only like you as a friend" answer, do you still work through the rejection and remain friends? Personally, I can do it but we are probably not going...

DaCrownlessKing

Xper 7 Age: 34

How much of a deal breaker are A or AA cups? Please be honest?

How much of a deal breaker are A or AA cups? If the girl is 5'2 and weighs 120? Would it bother the guy? Would you still find her sexy? Please be honest?

Anonymous

(30-35)

My crush is always surrounded by pretty girls and I feel sad?

Help! :( I feel so sad whenever I see my crush surrounded by pretty girls, I know I'm not good enough for him and he won't like me but everytime I see him around pretty girls my heart just drops and sinks :( I've never...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How can someone be cute and sexy at the same time?

When I think of someone being cute I don't think of them being sexy I think of innocence, someone sweet. And when someone is sexy they're mature not cute. My question is how can you be sexy AND cute?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does my crush always stand/sit so his crotch is right in my sight? Is he doing on purpose to flirt, or is this how guys act?

My crush either sits side by side with me, or he will sit or stand right in front of the desk I'm at with his crotch right where I can get a good view. Always! Like he totally blocks my view by standing right in front of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Can a person look weak but actually be very strong?

... Or vice versa? Just really wondering because like they said in general... to use common sense... and logic... but sometimes you know that phrase: Looks can be deceiving? or do you always find that in life: what you...

want2helpout84

Xper 6 Age: 42

Would you rather be rich and never find true love or be poor and find true love?

Which one would you choose?

Coolstud93

Xper 5 Age: 33

Which are better? Good morning or good night texts?

If you had to choose one, which is better?

RockGuitarist1

Xper 6 Age: 31