All Questions

What do guys think of the 50's pin up look on women?

Thoughts? Is it something you think is attractive, strange or are you indifferent to it? Is it sexy or cute or just a bit odd. I mean young brigitte bardot, early Joan Holloway if you need a pop culture reference. Think...

NewGirl28

Xper 5 Age: 38

Valentine's Day

Boyfriend's 17th Birthday Gift Ideas?

My boyfriend is turning 17 next week (it's two days before Valentine's day...). We've been together for about 5 months. My birthday was last week and he got me a really pretty bracelet that was probably pretty expensive....

Mogie

Xper 5 Age: 28

Family & Friends

Girl calls you her best friend.

What dies it mean when a girl called you her best friend? Almost everytime I call or text this girl she's like hey best friend...

mustang1998

Xper 7 Age: 34

Why is jessica alba so hot?

im not complaining, I certainly agree, but why? why is she so hot, can someone explain this to me

dave4u

Xper 2 Age: 37

Family & Friends

If 3 guys that are friends like the same girl?

What happens? How do they decide who gets her? Would the quieter one be more likely to bow out even if he really likes the girl? And the guys that do back out, does it mean they don't have as strong of feelings for her?...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Boys help! How can I make PUA fall in love with me?

This is a silly question. but I know the guy I used to date is pua. How can I make him fall for me?

Anonymous

(36-45)

How long before asking her out on OkCupid?

I found an online dating profile of a girl I knew in Law School and who I was friends with on FB. I talked to her maybe a couple times in school, we were more acquaintances than anything. Anyway, I sent her a message on...

detroit87

Xper 6 Age: 38

Girl's Behavior

Why do people yell at cashiers?

I'll never understand what goes through someone's mind when they yell at a cashier because they won't get to them fast enough or because they won't let them skip to ring them up. What makes it worse is the people...

bombdotcom

Xper 4 Age: 32

Taking prescription pain meds before getting a body piercing?

I'm going to get my dimples pierced and I have some old 50mgs Ultram/tramadol that I never used. If I take this before the piercing will it completely remove all the pain for me? I really want it done but I'm kinda a wimp...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shopping & Gifts

What's the origin of the phrase "Once you go black, you don't go back" and does it have any truth to it?

Who came up with this phrase, why, and why is it a popular phrase? And if its true why does this phrase continue to live on?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Girlfriend always wants me to apologize for stuff I didn't do.

So I told my girlfriend I would be on campus at a certain time just in casual conversation to let her know what my week would be like. She ended up going to campus to do homework and to drive me home to be nice. I...

Frunkiss

Xper 6 Age: 38

Should I be embarrassed about living in a trailer home?

I'm extremely embarrassed about living in a trailer home, and I'm afraid to tell my boyfriend where I live.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, do you REALLY not get complimented that often?

I've often heard guys talk about how they barely get compliments. I've heard guys say they haven't been complimented in YEARS, and that when they do they think about to compliment for days. I get complimented at least a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, do you think a mons pubis that sticks out is attractive?

I'm 5'5 and weigh 125lbs, I'm not fat but my mons pubis sticks out. Especially when I wear leggings or a tight dress/skirt. Is this attractive? I need honest answers.

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do some men try to impress girls with their money?

Is it because they're nervous, have self esteem or think that woman is a whore? I go to college near silicon valley and well aside from students there are a lot of very wealthy people here. I recently went out with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Would you date someone poorer than you?

I'm middle class and this girl I'm talking to is from a rich family. We are both in college in the same class. I reckon that we are compatible at almost every level we've discussed so far. As a guy I've been taught to be...

TedStar

Guru Age: 34

Why do some women give fake compliments?

I've never understood why some women give out fake compliments? They know its a fake compliment and they know the guy is shaking is head in disbelief. I've only received ''Compliments'' online and never in person. I...

Whitechocolate1001

Xper 3 Age: 40

Other

He says my butt is "cute" instead of sexy/hot, does that mean anything?

I've never really heard a guy describe a girl's ass as being 'cute' so it seemed kinda odd when he said it. I was laying on top him after making out and he grabbed it and said it was cute.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Why do girls stand so close to me?

Like for example at the bus station some girls really get so close to me as if they want me to bump on them. When there is so much space. Is it some kind of signal? Or do they feel protected because I am musculine gym guy?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Virgo women only?

there is a virgo female who stare at me and when I look at her eyes she would stare back at my eyes and she get nervouse , sometimes she smile and when I look at something she would look to see wht I'm looking at , we...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Describe your worst day of your life and your best day of your life.

What was the best day and worst day of your life? What happened? Was it a death of a loved one? Was it getting a DUI or failing out of school? Was your best day finding your mate? A birthday memory? A day that you landed...

222fallguy2

Yoda Age: 36

Thoughts on purple lipstick?

What do you think of bright purple lips? Yay or nay? link

Anonymous

(25-29)

How to tell if a girl is actually flirting with me?

So I'm a really tall guy; around 6'11, and I get a lot of girls just gawking because I'm so tall. A lot of them also say things like "Omg, you're so tall", "how tall are you?", etc But I don't know how much of this is...

serp777

Yoda Age: 34

I'm about to date a d1 female swimmer (not trying to be arrogant). Tips to not mess anything up?

I don't want to come across as arrogant. That being said this is a huge opportunity for me. I was a VERY awkward shy, quiet guy before college. The whole time I've been finding out my place in the universe and how to be...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do you ask a guy to go to vice versa in a cute way?

He plays basketball and baseball. we are good friends and we have math together

Anonymous

(25-29)

If your girlfriend is always hiding or turning the laptop when your next to her what would you think?

ok my girlfriend for 5 years now is always doing this when of twitter or social sites,I want to ask her for her twitter password cause of the insecurity with that but I wasn't sure if it was the right thing to do, But I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Why does he initiate conversation and then disappear?

I don't understand him. He initiates conversation and then disappears. He was not always like this and he is a texter and is glued to his phone It upsets me. He initiates! Why? I gave him space and didn't message him...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Thoughts on thigh high socks/stockings?

I really like wearing thigh high socks and stockings a lot with my dresses and combat boots. I know it can go "slutty" looking really easily, especially with stockings, but I'm super careful with how I wear them. What do...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How long does it take for a smiley piercing to close close up?

I have to get an MRI and so I have to take out my smiley piercing, I'm just worried that it will close up or start to close up before I could put my ring back in. So does anyone know about how long it would take? -...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Would you let your long distance boyfriend go to prom with another girl?

I don't know... I'm very skeptical because he let me down once before. I really want to trust him, but jealousy is clouding my judgement.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys : Are you annoyed by handsome men who date plain janes ? ( I am)

Examples link link link 1.I think not dating in your looks class, upsets the balance of what other guys can obtain in the meat market. Every average girl taken by a better-looking guy is one less girl...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, what goes through your mind when you kiss a girl?

(or guy, etc..) And also, do you actually like kissing? Is it just a precursor to more sexual acts? As a girl, I don't find kissing enjoyable in just the physical act, but in the emotional sense. My mind goes blank, I...

sdorito

Xper 6 Age: 28

Health & Fitness

Self harm scars ? ways of healing

Does anyone know of any good procedures or creams that can clear up self inflicted scars? Silicone has had some results. Anything else that has worked for you?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do girls say they like ‘ambitious’ guys?

Why don’t they say they like guys who are wealthy or likely to be wealthy in the future? That’s closer to the truth. I have a friend who inherited a fortune but who has absolutely no ambition in life. He just parties and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What should I do about my boyfriend putting me down in front of his friends?

Last night, I was at a party with my boyfriend and a few of his friends. We were watching the TV when people started talking and were engaging in conversation. I turned to say something to my boyfriend and in the middle...

Teflon

Xper 5 Age: 37

Family & Friends

Why does every girl I meet "friend zone" me?

Ever since my only serious relationship that ended 2 years ago, every single girl that I've met and grow to have feelings for always seems to sooner or later reject me by saying something like "oh you're such a sweet guy...

Skidmark69

Xper 5 Age: 32

Other

My crush smirked at me? What does that mean?

My friend told my crush I like him were in college, and when I ran into him in the elevator he wasn't looking at me he was looking at the wall and he was just smirking?Bad sign? Guys what does this mean?

Anonymous

(36-45)