All Questions

Should I ask this girl to come over and cuddle?

I met this girl on a Thursday night and she gave me her number. We went out Saturday night to a club and we made out. Now it's Sunday, should I tell her to come over to cuddle for an hour? We're both in college

GoldCobra

Guru Age: 34

Wondering why girls stare sometimes with no facial expression...?

Situation: This is short and sweet but for about 5 or 6 weeks I've seen this girl staring at me with no facial expression (I see her once a week). As soon as I walk in I catch her looking at me and it will happen three...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Is it necessary to have a DTR conversation?

My friend and I were arguing about this. He said you should always DTR when you're sure you both like each other, but I'm like why ruin something that's working? Do you have a DTR conversation with someone you want to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do girls look at guys butts much?

If they do what type of butt do they like on a guy. I realise this will depend on the girl but just want to get an idea of what most girls think. Please be honest I will not judge you I am just trying to make my body more...

David-NewZealand

Xper 5 Age: 43

Fashion & Beauty

Is having a long face unattractive to guys?

I have a big forehead and kind of a big chin. (and yes, I have a fake smile on for my profile picture haha)

MotiveToMoveTheWorld

Xper 5 Age: 29

Guy's Behavior

Why does he avoid touching me?

He has NO PROBLEM looking at, facing, or casually touching/being touched by other girls! Me? He stiffens, I only talk to the side of his head and he jumps when I ACCIDENTALLY touch him. He'll joke with me, say sexual...

Shimmyshammy

Xper 7 Age: 34

Is it safe to clear data on Motocare app?

I have no idea what this app does. I can't even open it. All it does is accumulate more and more data that takes up space on my phone. I keep getting notifications saying that my storage space is running out. I want to...

Mogie

Xper 5 Age: 28

Fashion & Beauty

Back acne marks: gross, distracting, an immediate rejection?

So... let's say a girl is wearing a tank top, and then she turns around to where her upper back and shoulders are seen. Then let's add that the back is covered with light brown/tan colored marks over pale skin, that are...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

My boyfriend does not let me have a social life.?

My boyfriend does not let me have a instagram, Facebook , Twitter. When I downloaded apps like Meow chat for example he got upset. He does not want me talking to guys or hanging out with them. I do not hang out with my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What host of all girls garage do you find hottest/most attractive.?

All Girls Garage is a show on Discovery Channels Velocity. I haft to go with Cristy Lee. www.velocity.com/.../about-all-girls-garage.htm

llorando

Master Age: 37

Do you believe that without money, there's no love?

Hey, I'm currently single and it have been 2 years now. Sometimes, I feel lonely when I see my friends in relationship. The problem is that girls flirt a lot with me and I do so too, but I never go forward because I'm...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

Why does planet fitness get so much hate?

I honestly had no problems at this gym and went there for a year before going to another gym. The grunting problem wasn't as much of a problem as people made it out to be. People act like you can't even breathe during...

Theguyoverthere

Guru Age: 41

When guys send you lots of emojis when talking online does that mean he likes you?

I have always been confused by this. I recently met this guy and we fb chat a lot and at the end of his setences he usually puts smiley, laughing, winking and sometimes the side smile face.

cutieepieX

Xper 5 Age: 35

Flirting

Should I follow him on instagram?

I found out this guy likes me well i think he does and now I find him more attractive after knowing this o.O hah and I don't know if it would be weird if I follow him on instagram and that he finds out that I know that he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do girls reject everyone then complain they have no one?

There are so many girls I know who act very standoffish to most guys (except those who have celebrity looks), and have their walls up really high. These girls also complain about being chronically single.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

How many hot dogs can you eat in one sitting?

I mean the hot dog with a bun. How many can you eat?

chocolateismylover

Master Age: 32

Shopping & Gifts

I forgot to give my girlfriend's birthday gift on her birthday. Can I give her today and what should I say to her?

I was really overloaded with my work and althought I bought her present a week ago I forgot to give it to her yesterday. I am really in deep trouble I know. How can I make it up to her and what should I say?

ZafTanR7

Xper 5 Age: 35

What does "if she ain't 280 she ain't my lady"?What does that mean what's 280?

Just curious because I heard this and I don't know what it means

Clovee

Xper 5 Age: 33

Difference between and stalker and someone who is pursuing?

What do you say is the difference between someone who's a stalker or someone who is pursuing? In my mind a stalker is unknown (anonymous), knows things he/she shouldn't or continues to pursue when he/she has been asked...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Why couldn't he be honest with me? Why be a jerk instead?

I'm going to try to make a long story short. He broke up with me for really no reason, every time I asked him, it was a different reason or excuse. A couple months later he says he isn't over me and wanted me back. Then...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Why do only players approach me?

And even then it's rare. I'll notice different guys in each and every one of my classes at school staring at me. But the only ones that actually talk to me are the guys that seem like complete douchebags and players and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Women.. Do you ever purposely ignore a guy you like?

Im not talking about after you get to know them, but if you find a guy that you like in a bar, class, public or whatever, do you ever completely avoid making eye contact for a reason? Or do you just do it because of some...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

Do guys think girls with "thigh gaps" are attractive? I have a really small one but at the top my legs touch?

Is it attractive to guys for a girl to have a small thigh gap

iLeah28

Xper 5 Age: 27

What does it mean if I smile at a girl and she makes a goofy face at me?

I was passing a girl and gave a polite smile, and she made some weird face. Not a disgusted face, just a goofy looking face. What does that mean? Not a big deal, I'm just wondering.

Anonymous

(36-45)

What should I say when a girl says "I'm not the right girl for you"?

So there's this girl that I like and I told her that. She then said "I'm not the right girl for you". She also said that she isn't pretty and that she's mean. Although she is beautiful and she isn't mean. I think that...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

Blue eyes vs Brown eyes which is prettier?

Which do you prefer blue eyes (the ocean) or brown eyes (chocolate) and what hair color do you like the best with the eye color you like out of the 2? I prefer blue eyes with Brown hair but I have dark brown eyes with...

xxxShadesOfGrayxxx

Xper 5 Age: 28

Guy's Behavior

Why is he always looking at my direction?

So I've been realizing this over 2 months now. Monday, Tuesday, and Friday I leave my college at specific time. I realize that in those specific different time those days, this hot security guard have his head already...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does a fear of rejection dictate your behavior?

For some, rejection is nothing more than a challenge. It inspires them to do more, do better, be more, be better, fight for something or someone. Rejection is the push they often feel they needed, a little extra incentive...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Is it clingy to expect to hear from your boyfriend every day even if it's just a short text?

So I pretty much want to speak with my boyfriend every single day. He's not just my boyfriend, but one of my best friends. I like to know what's going on and I honestly get irritated when he goes all day without saying...

Anonymous

(30-35)

He always cancels last minute?

I've been dating this guy for the past year and lately he's been really flakey. He'll make plans then cancel them last minute. I know he's not cheating or anything because he'll call me and we'll end up talking for hours...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Why are women bullying Japan’s ‘herbivore’ men?

Apparently, 60% to 70% of young Japanese men are ‘herbivores’: men who have little or no interest in sex and relationships. Why is there so much outrage about this? Why are women bullying and shaming them? I saw a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Do you play fight and have pillow fights with your guy friends?

My guy friend recently started play fighting with me. He thinks its funny to douse me with water, throw me in pools, hit me with pillows, body slam me on the bed and punch me in the arm. I have no clue what he gets out...

Anonymous

(30-35)