All Questions

Why does my ex go offline on Facebook when I am online?

He broke up with me last week. He told me loved me but that love gradually decreased. We have been together for a year. He is still a friend on Facebook. He knows that I am not going to start a conversation with him but...

touchypink

Xper 5 Age: 29

Marriage & Weddings

How much should a man spend on an engagement ring?

I know it is usually the 2 month rule, but if not taking that into consideration, what is a decent amount to spend? How much do most average workers pay? How much did you pay and how much do you make?

Anonymous

(36-45)

What do you prefer your guy to wear (casual)?

i wear t-shirts and long-sleeve button downs. short sleeve button downs are too island-y for me. i gotta buy more polo shirts.

shadowscapes

Xper 3 Age: 34

Sigma Male: Good or Bad? Strength or Weakness?

So I basically found the term sigma male today, and lo and behold, it fits me perfectly. Oh, and does being sigma help explain why girls glance at me from time to time (after I approach or show interest in them), even if...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

When a drunk guy says I love you, is it the truth?

So I have this on and off again relationship with my ex. He broke up with me, and we keep going back to being FWB. He hasn't been with anyone else since we were together, and he broke up with me because he says he needs...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why does he stare at me from far away but up close he can't make eye contact?

This guy and me first made eye contact for about 5 secs twice in a row when we first saw each. I use to see him trying to look from the corner of his eye and one day I got the courage to smile at him but he only stayed...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Ladies, have you ever had a crush on a shy guy to where you had to get him to open up to you?

Is there a certain guy you ever like, but he was on the shy side, to where he kind of played a little hard to get, but you didn't let that stop you. So you tried more than once until he finally came out of his shell and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

If crime is learned, who taught the first criminal?

Assuming that a person learns to be a criminal from someone else, who taught the first criminal?

eHeart95

Xper 6 Age: 31

Guy's Behavior

What does brassy hair look like?

I see on YouTube girls talking about certain shampoo so your hair does not look brassy. What is brassy hair?

questioner1991

Yoda Age: 34

Girls, how much muscle do you honestly want on a guy?

I know studies have even shown that men always thought that women liked more muscles than they really do. So how much muscle do you want on a man? Can you post a link to a picture? And if you do, please indicate whether...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why would a guy ask if you want kids?

my guy friend asked me the other day if I wanted kids

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirty Chiropractor?

I've been going to a Chiropractor for a few months now, he's somewhat Bohemian or earthy so I try to take that into consideration. However he's made comments about my hair , even telling me I looked pretty on one visit,...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Dating

Why do guys put 69 in their dating profile usernames?

I've been trying online dating for a while with little success. One thing I've noticed is guys who try to come off decent in their profile descriptions but have a 69 in their username. I'm sorry this just sends a pervy...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Why do people measure the wrists to tell if you big boned or not, because that is not true?

Okay first off my measurements are 32c-29/30 in the waist- 44.5/45 in the hips. My thighs measures a little passed 25 inches and I am short 5'0, I am supposed to be a little overweight for my height, I practically can...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when a guy says he is enamored with you?

So this guy I've been kind of seeing and sleep with, text me" it is the dinner conversations and laughing that has enamored me with you". What the heck does that mean?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Does anyone else get the feeling they are fundamentally unlikable/unlovable?

I think the question is pretty self explanatory. I just don't believe unconditional love exists, in a romantic or non-romantic sense, anyone who desires to spend time with me has ulterior motives. Or maybe I just feel...

Kelly34

Xper 5 Age: 34

What makes someone likeable, but not lovable?

What makes someone likeable, but not lovable? Have you ever felt this way about someone? Why?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Ex has viewed my dating profile. What does it mean?

My ex has dated my profile on the dating website we met on. I think it's probably curiosity but I don't know for certain and I miss him. He ended our relationship. Should I text him and say I noticed he had viewed it and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Why many married men live in delusional and act like they are single?

Some of them even claim that they are single when obviously they have a family.I mean its not even difficult to find out about it.I remember long time ago when I was working in a company where almost all of my male...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why did she restrict me on Facebook?

this friend stopped posting for the last month which is absurd since she is queen of posts. Months ago I thought she really liked me, she said no, I was OK and stuff, though I stopped trying to initiate anything with her....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do only girls compliment me on my appearance, but not guys?

The only male to compliment me on my appearance was some guy at a mental hospital, but he said it to someone else first, and they told me. (Oh shit my bad if I'm not making sense; I'm drowsy as fuck right now lol.) Do...

feelsbadmang

Xper 3 Age: 29

He has two profiles on Facebook?

I have been dating a guy for a month and a half now. We have adder each other on Facebook so he is an open book to me. However a week ago I recieved a friend request from someone and it was him with a different name...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

I just learned that my boyfriend has scoliosis.

So I've been with my boyfriend for two years and tonight he told me he has scoliosis. Apparently he's had it ever since I've known him. I knew his back was odd, but I guess I never put two and two together. I always just...

Prettygurl12

Master Age: 32

Why do girls lie or make an excuse instead of rejecting a guy?

Really, I know why, its just dumb though, its to protect the guys feelings obviously...but it doesn't work, in fact it does the opposite effect. The past 2 girls I really liked and asked out made up some excuse about not...

sirspauldo

Explorer Age: 33

Shy girls anxiety inversely proprotional to how much they like a guy?

I know that shy girls can be anxious in general but it seems like the better I do with them the more anxious they become like they get happy but then all of a sudden they become self conscious and second guess things and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shopping & Gifts

How to dress up like a song?

So for our work Christmas party we have to dress up like a Christmas song. What?

whattothink

Guru Age: 44

Why are the prettiest women often shy?

I tend to like really pretty women. And a lot of other guys like them, so it's not like a have weird taste. But I've found the prettiest ones are often shy.a In my experience, really amazing looking, outgoing women are a...

Anonymous

(36-45)