All Questions

He called me a chicken head

I was sort of dating this older guy. He said, hey we are going to go to my friends house. We get to his friends house and he wasn't home. So he is all in the backway of his home looking around for a so called 'key' that...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Why does a woman change her hairstyle?

Ok, so I have this cursh on a girl and I suspect she knows but I'm not sure. Anyway, she changed her hairstyle recently from one without bangs to one with bangs. She looks amazing now. Although she looked very good before...

qstoffe

Xper 5 Age: 44

Why is it considered weird to study flatology but normal to study MBA?

Why is it considered weird to study flatology (the science of farts) but normal to study MBA? Farts have been al around us since the beginning of mankind. It's the most natural thing. Yet it's considered to be weird. MBA...

qwer1234

Xper 7 Age: 35

Family & Friends

Are you obligated to invite your good friend everywhere you go?

one of my good friends works in another place ten minutes away from me. we often have a similar lunch break time. but, sometimes my coworker wants to go out to lunch with just me (don't think she likes my friend that...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My neighbour stares at me for hours but doesn't talk to me

my neighbour spends hours in his window staring into my kitchen where I usually am. Yet if I ever try to speak to him runs from me. I feel like he needs to look at me for some unknown reason so I always let him just stare...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

How do I get over my crush and stop stalking him? HELP :)

So I recently found out my crush has a girlfriend he never told me about and because of the summer break I know I won´t see him for sure for the next couple of months. These two things combined have worsen my heartache. I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is the 'hourglass" body shape considered fat now?

It seems like hourglass is no longer the desired body shape. By men or women. Is "stickman" the new "hourglass"? No curves whatsoever, completely flat (or concave) stomach, stick legs and arms..? Is "hourglass" the new...

Lizzie1005

Xper 5 Age: 30

Society & Politics

Are successful career women more attractive to men?

I don't care if a woman is successful in her career or not. It is neither a turn on or a turn off. A lot of women I have talked to seem shocked that I don't find them more desirable because of them having a successful...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Girl's Behavior

Athletic guys and chubby girls? How does that work?

So, I am chubby. Healthy but yeah a size 12/14 (173cm). It's just the way it is ;) However I realized that most men who had/have an interest in me are total gym rats with quite some muscles. Most of them really toned....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Why didn't he reciprocate the touch?

I went on the best first date ever recently. We hung out for a little over 6 hours. Had dinner went to the for drinks and then to the movies. He was a complete gentleman walked me to my car and even paid for me ( which...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do I keep from "Looking Butch"

Im a female, and I like my hair short (almost boy short)… I have been called Butch before… Yes I'm not a "girly girl" I don't mind lifting weights, playing in rain, mud and what not. Nor do I mind shooting a snot rocket,...

Oshcoshbgosh

Xper 5 Age: 31

Why do random men approach me and ask me random questions

Okay so guys will do this with me. They will smile at me or look at me, hold doors for the most part and all that. Then there are guys who approach me and want to know everything about me. Like they are wanting to play 21...

Anonymous

(30-35)

She stopped talking to me all the sudden, I need advise. she's a scorpio for those into astrology. thanks

I met this girl in a college course, before you read this know this girl was VERY shy, isn't good with communicating her feeling or just with communication in general and it took me a while to get her out of her shell and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Boyfriend didn't invite me to his graduation

My boyfriend is in the military and he just finished a month long course. He graduates today and come to find out there's a ceremony and the other guys invited their families. My boyfriends family is in New York so I'm...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Is Boredom a good reason to commit Suicide?

Some questions. 1. Do you find that keeping people who are perpetually bored alive is tormenting them? 2. Do you find that the "bored" can be cured? 3. Historically people will kill themselves for this cause alone;...

blackkid2

Xper 3 Age: 38

Society & Politics

What celebrities do you think are JERKS or rude in real life?

Simple fun question...what celebrities are rude in reality?Do you have any stories yourself of rude/jerk celebs?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls, if you're in the library, do you like it when a guy approaches and talks to you?

The guy is a total stranger to you, and he just approached you. Would you like it when he goes on his way to talk to you?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does my boyfriend babytalk so much?

By babytalk I mean the cutesy talk and petnames and whatnot but also a more soft/cute/baby voice (which is mostly what I don't like about it). We are both in our early 20s. I love him and I enjoy it sometimes but I can...

Anonymous

(30-35)

When he continuously buys you lunch does he like you more than a friend?

So pretty much any one I have ever asked has said to me that wen a guy buys you lunch he is just being nice, and/or being a good friend. I try to take this current crushes actions as such, but the fact that it has been...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do/would you feel about your child's babysitter smacking them?

How do/would you feel about your child's babysitter smacking them? Like when they do something that would get them hurt; climbing on something, running in the street, or hitting other children? I think that it is wrong...

the-man-who-knows

Xper 6 Age: 48

If a guy asks you how old you are, it's a sign of interest?

Whenever a guy asks me my age I always find out through someone else that he is attracted to me. I'm nearly 20 but look like I'm closer to 16 on most days. Is this accurate?

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to get him to be more touchy?

This guy I know really wants to touch me he says but when we're in person he chickens out/ freezes up and doesn't do anything. And if he does it's little and subtle. How do I get this guy to just go big and touch me...

LittleLaceyLove

Xper 6 Age: 32

Break Up & Divorce

Why does my ex brag about his new girlfriend to me?

My ex boyfriend who I was together with for two years (we're both 17) texted me last night, we broke up just about two months ago. He has a new girlfriend who he has been dating for almost a month now, so they started...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why would a guy keep waiting outside my house?

My crush has been waiting outside my house lately, he even drives by my house too a lot. He knows I like him too. I see him around the back of my house too, as we live in area surrounded by roads and side streets.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Are tall boots sexy?

I wear tall boots like this: link usually with jeans or tights like this: link link I ask this question because it seems that now everyone is wearing ankle boots. I have those too, but I like tall boots...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do I know if I'm not good looking enough for the girl I like?

There was this really good looking girl, and I kinda was convinced that I wasn't good looking enough for her. Weeks later, I saw her with her boyfriend. And he, to be honest, wasn't that great looking...at least...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys would you want to be 6'4?

A friend of mine is 6'4 and he's pretty insecure about it. He thinks it's too tall. I think it's great.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why are women so stingy with compliments?

Why are women so stingy with complimenting men? Like, a lady may like a man for several months, and receive many compliments from him during that time, but she rarely, if ever, reciprocates. Is it intentional?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl keeps ending text conversations?

So I've been texting this girl recently and it seems like almost every time I do she is hanging out with friends or something like that. She usually holds the conversation well but she responds about every 5-10 minutes,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Why are Virgo men so hard to seduce?

I'm a Scorpio, and have been out with a Virgo for a couple of dates. When we go out, he's usually pretty quiet, there are some awkward silences, and when I try to joke around he's usually pretty shy. He takes a lifetime...

robertafilders

Xper 5 Age: 31

Signs a girl is embarrassed about a rumour she likes you ?

Signs a girl is embarrassed about a rumour she likes you ?. Would a girl ignore you, be abrupt with you, tease you, being sarcastic with you. All of this came out of the blue, and I think someone mentioned a rumour that...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is this right? I asked my boyfriend to rate me out of 10, and received a low score. Should I be angry/upset?

So I suffer from bdd ( body dysmorphic syndrome) which basically means I obsess about my body, I never see my self in a postive way and I obsess about being fat, dieting and aim to be perfect :( as stupid as that sounds...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Do you like this bodycon dress or am I told old for it?

Hi, I need some advice. I love this bodycon dress, but I don't normally wear bodycons or dress up that much. I love the color, but am afraid this is kindof slutty & that I'm too old to wear this :(. I'm 30 in June, so I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shopping & Gifts

Why do guys backpedal on what they say?

why would a guy tell you that he likes you, feels a connection towards you, etc then immediately backpedal on that? why bother to tell someone how you feel about them if you don't intend to see where it goes. I could see,...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Guy's Behavior

Why does my boyfriend always stroke my face?

Whenever we are lying around he is always staring at me and stroking my face and pushes my hair out of my face. Why does he do this?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, belly button rings are trashy?

Guys, I'm thinking about getting my belly button pierced. I wouldn't o it for attention from strangers. Instead it would be to feel sexy and wear something pretty and sparkly underneath my clothes, like lingerie, and be...

Anonymous

(30-35)