Sometimes I wish I was a Guy?

[Anonymous]

to me it seems like guy have it easier in the world,

-they dont feel preasure to look good

- have the fear of another prettier girl might steel there boyfirend.

-get dumped for another hot chick.

-of have to deal with restrictions.

-do whatever they want when they want.

-they have more fun.

-dont have to deal with emotions.

-cant be forced.

-they get to eat what they want without worrying the size of there ass.

-and plus wear whatever they feel comfy in lolx.

thos are just my thots even if they are silly lol.

should i wish i were a dude or just be happy as a girl :p

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Response to your dilemmas.

-But we have to face other beauty standards too other than just looking good like being tall, having a full set of hair, being rich and successful, being confident, being muscular, being brave and willing to take so much efforts. While you just need beauty and attitude. It really takes a lot to impress a girl.

-Vice versa. Guys often hide their feelings because of what you might think like you might think he don't trust you for worrying and stuff. Really confusing so we chose to shut up.

-Guys getting dumped for richer guy happens. And in every break up, It's always our fault. No recourse. No one believes us. We lose more effort than you. Plenty of broke men out there.

-Law. No restrictions but we have harder things we must do. There are jobs not capable for women even for some guys but still expected to work in that filthy job for the family.

-We have less freedom of choice by the way. For an artistic guy, I always think being a guy is boring because we have less options of styles. For a soft hearted person, avoiding cute stuffs and emotions is hard because it's shaming. Also It's hard for us to be with kids now a days. We'd be called creepy. Our reputations are so fragile because of men dominates the extreme of scales of being strong, weak, good and bad. Men's stereotype of being strong and bad is just what society believes.

-Depends on the interest of a person. I'm a kind of guy who don't really relate to lots of guy stuff like video games and sports. And I know there are women not interested in lots of women stuff too.

-We're humans too and were just as emotional or even more emotional than you but taught to suppress it. We're not allowed to be depressed. Take a look at the suicide rate of men. No one just really care about us that's why we hide. We don't have that friend system that you can just go to your friends and vent.

-Can't be forced but we have great consequences like not being able to get citizen ship or driver's licence for not doing the task the government tells us to do.

-I'm pretty sure there are fat girls around who don't care either. You can be mad but guys aren't supposed to be mad if their insulted.

-No one tells you to wear uncomfy outfits. Lucky you live in a first world country where you can just buy clothes you want. Bra is compulsory tho but still having a dick and specially balls that aches everyday is uncomfy enough. We have them forever. That's why man spreading is a thing.

[Bisexual_owl]

Bras shouldn’t be compulsory tho , do you know how uncomfortable they are? and Both guys and girls face pressure on how to look and behave.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

But don't complain if your boobs get soggy. That is the reason why bras are invented. For the same reason why men's support brief is invented. Nobody is also forcing anyone to wear them unless they want their balls hanging so low

[godfatherfan]

Reall?
woman get to
- decide when they want sex, and can have it any time they want. While they may have to drop their standards completely, 100% of the time they can find a guy to have sex with them.
- they get to do on dates for free. never paying for anything
- they just lie and deceive guys and dump them for better looking guys. never feeling guilt.
- can get out of most anything just by crying or saying "it is that time of the month"
- never have to keep their word. they just say "it is a woman's prerogative to change her mind"
** how do guys have more fun at anything? we have to do all the work. Since women get everything paid for and everything handed to them? they have the fun while the guys have to figure out what to do plus pay for everything. ***
**** women can have sex as much as they want and can be ready and able to do it at any time. A man has to get an maintain an erection all while trying to figure out how to give her an orgasm. and until you know a woman that is worse then doing a rubic cube. while guys are very easy to get off but we are very limited on how much we can have sex. when we are young we might be able to do it more. but when you get to my age.. once a day is about it. maybe twice every now and then but not consistently.

woman have it easy... plan and simple. men have to work for everything. and when it comes to relationships, woman have their pick while guys get thrown aside all the time.

[Bisexual_owl]

Most of this is assumption lol , loads of this is false. Women don’t want to drop standards to fuck , that’s what masterbation is for. And we don’t get to do half of the things you mentioned there lol.

[techitisJ]

I get the same feeling all the time. Yes I can imagine guys do feel some pressure on looking good, but not as much as girls do. Also as a lady wi th a bigger bust, and heavier than most girls, I feel like I'm constantly being stared at. It would be nice not having to deal with the big bust.
Also as a theatre person I have a lot of dream roles, and the majority of them are male roles.

[aamy811]

I do think guys have a lot of things in life that are easier, but at the same time irks are awesome and I enjoy being a girl. But yeah I guess I'd rather be a boy I mean it's so much less expensive

[soccerchick4eva]

i wished that once cause guys have it much easier in sport than girls -.- aha but im perfectly happy with being a girl tho! aha

[jointhepatriarchy]

Women have multiple paths to success: career, mother, homemaker, wife, etc. Men have one... the same as it has always been: protectors and providers. Now we have laws, quotas, competition that has lower standards than us, etc competing for our one job as providers. Women have taken many of the easy jobs (government, academia, service) and left men with just the hard, dangerous, and/or crappy jobs in order to be providers. Now some women claim they earned those jobs, but with quotas, lower standards, discrimination lawsuits, and so on, they really can't claim they earned anything... how would you know, since so many didn't get their jobs on a fair competitive basis.

Women still live off men's money: housewives, alimony, child support (they don't have to show receipts that they spent the money on the kids), government programs etc. While men that aren't productive have no options but to be homeless bums on the street.

To top it off, men are the ones that have to register for military service, still do all the fighting and dieing (except for accidents), still have to do the dangerous jobs, the dirty jobs, the heavy physical jobs, etc that are all necessary for a society to exist.

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Being a guy isn't easy , i deal with rejection , bullying, peer pressure
yes i deal with looking good, i worry about being disgusting looking
i dealt with being made fun of, i never been really loved in life
You know how many girls rejected me cause of their image and
it hurts me inside when a girl does this to me cause it makes me
feel so low inside, when girls did this to me i would tell them well
i should just go kill myself and it would be all over with

[stevie123]

The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence they say.
You are a pretty girl, and I'm sure there is nothing wrong with your ass...
There are requirements for guys too, it is not as easy as it appears.
We try to make it look easy to impress girls with our accomplishments.
Be happy that you are a girl, and that you can make a guy go crazy just by you being you.

[Klaatu51]

don't be stupid... i'm a guy and i take care of myself as much as a woman and i'm very careful about what i eat. and TRUST me being a guy isn't as easy as being a girl.

[Asker]

it just seem like women have more preasure thses days

[Klaatu51]

i have a lot of pressure as well. i need to wax my body in a regular basis and remain skinny. it's not easy to remain at 120-125 pounds you know.

[Asker]

isn't that too skinny for a guy? i mean aren't guy normally like 140 or somthing?

[Klaatu51]

yes i like to remain skinny. i'm 5'7" and 120-125 is ideal for my height

[Asker]

ohh okie,...

[TripleAce]

Girls have it easier these days but that's only because men want it that way, executives hiring girls just cause they look good

[mrwunderful]

That's so understandable. .. I think everyone has felt this at some time... you just need to talk it out. I am here if you need a friend.

[ironeddie]

Every thing you said can be reversed; to me it seems like girls have it easier in the world,

[Roarke]

Don't forget, we could piss in an upright casket if we had to.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Guys experience most everything on your list in different forms

[Iron_Man]

Well try dealing with the presure of having to support everyone and thing and if something happens the woman walks away to find another suger daddy

[moviedude714]

be glad you don't have to do the approaching and asking out, initiating, leading

[Me2too]

Omg could we trade, please?

[Asker]

lol.

[diegoD]

thats stupid quesstion, with respect. you take for granted all the easy things. you can get laid extremly easy, you dont have to worry about that ever, or initiating or having enough money or hte right job, or having to fight and get hurt, and all of that just to get a girl. all that you list are silly tings like hte pressure to look good, you dont owe any one anything. you can not look good and still attract plenty of guys.

[diegoD]

the emotions thing is total bullshit!! why do you think most suicides are committed by men?

[toutatis]

We have our problems too, to each their own. :(