All Questions

Why do girls think it's OK to wear leggings as pants in public these days?

If I wanted to see your camel toe and ass I would give you 20 dollars for a private dance like a stripper. Why do girls think it's not trashy to wear leggings with nothing covering their butt and front in public?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

How do I get a shy guy to take the lead?

I met this guy through a friend and we clicked instantly, hit it off really well. My friend works with him, so she occasionally talks to him about me, asking him how he feels and things because he's hard to read. He told...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why is my crush too shy to talk to me?

My crush and his friends know that I like him and his friends has come up to me a few times already to talk to me but out of my shyness I walk away. They know that I'm shy and so is my crush because he hasn't spoken to me...

Ch3lsxax7

Xper 5 Age: 34

How do I redeem myself after acting completely drunk and bat sh*t crazy?

I have been texting with this guy for the last 5 months, and we finally just met this past weekend. After bumping into him at a bar, I basically invited myself to hang out with him and his friends and ended up getting...

NiLa86

Xper 5 Age: 39

If my guy friend has started touching my hand, touching my arm lightly, leaning in to me...

sitting close to me, laughing at all my jokes, telling me how awesome I am, once he grabbed my hand.. is he giving me signs that he'd like something more? These behaviors are pretty new over the last several months.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

My boyfriend gave his ex a ride?

My boyfriend and I had dated for a year, then we broke up in September and not long after he started dating another girl. They dated for a few months and he dumped her because he was "tired of her" (his words). Now we're...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when he calls you his girl?

Guy I'm kind of seeing called me his girl. He hasn't asked me out officially but is this a way for him to ask me to be his girlfriend? ALSO: I didn't want to get all serious so was my "flirty" reply good or weird? Him:...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What size is considered a small waist for a normal, fit woman?

I've heard everything from 22-24 to 28-30 What do you think?

Girlie8780

Xper 6 Age: 35

"You're a total package", what does it mean?

An ex told me once that I am "a total package" and I am just wondering what it means exactly to you guys... Is it a good thing? Is it usually honestly said or to want something?

angel1142

Xper 7 Age: 40

Guys why do you walk so close to girls?

When a guy walks by you really really close...(so close they could touch your hand-he didn't though)...but his jacket brushed up against you? Why do guys do this? It was my classroom. I teach 3 and 4 year olds Sunday...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do boobs hurt when you are almost on period or on it?

Girls is that the same for you? My boobs are so sensitive and swollen. I thought that was only when you're pregnant?! Any scientific explanation? Or other girls with this super annoying issue? Also why do we get bloated?...

Deathcabforcutie

Xper 3 Age: 31

Dating

He doesn't care if I date other guys?

We've been seeing each other for only about a month, so I know it's bit early for both of us to talk about 'commitment'. But we both been seeing only each other, regularly few times a week, and we are sexually active. we...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Shopping & Gifts

What do people mean when they say they don't want 'drama'?

What would you describe 'drama' as and why do people not like it?

Anonymous

(36-45)

I think my crush likes me? why is he avoiding me?

My friend asked him straight up when I wasn't there. She asked, "do you like Ria?" And she said that he blushed so hard and he coldn't look at hee straight in the eye, though he denied and said that he didn't have a crush...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a guy doesn't say hi when we meet but only stares with a serious face?

We meet very often.he took me out for a movie with my younger sibling.Acts in gentlemanly way(opens the door).He never says 'hi'but only looks at me alot.indirectly asks me if I have a boyfriend through my close ones. He...

alina18

Xper 5 Age: 32

My boyfriend always jokes and I can't talk seriously with him, help?

my boyfriend is very funny ( which I like) but sometimes I would like to talk with him seriously.. I mean topics like for example hunger in the world.. etc.. but he makes jokes of everything. When I ask him serious...

Bellissima

Xper 5 Age: 35

Is he just very interested and direct or too needy/clingy?

So met a guy online, hit it off, emaling all day then texting all day for about a week and then met up...all good, we get on great and have the same interests and humour etc... but he is very direct in being very...

rockchick123

Xper 5 Age: 44

Why does a guy talk about another girl?

Let's just say the scenario is this: a guy is attracted to a girl talk to each other daily and see each other at least 3 times a week. Then, suddenly the guy talks about another girl say how cute she is and how she looks...

elle20

Xper 5 Age: 33

Shopping & Gifts

Girlfriend cries and says she's lucky to have me

we had a rough first year of dating, with a few cheating episodes. but in the last 2 months things have been much better. since then the crying has been about once a week. What the hecks the crying about is it a good sign?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do you girls notice a guys hair?

i just notice that if I don't style my hair I don't get much looks as when I do something with my hair. mainly I just slick it back, or if its short ill spike it or something, takes a 1-2 minutes, and the girls seem to be...

beastman88

Yoda Age: 37

If a girl says "I owe you everything" does this mean anything?

I helped a girl I like a lot in her career and in return she told me yesterday over chat, "It's all because of you. I owe you everything :) " . I asked her again that "you owe me everything? " and she still said yes she...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Interlocking fingers while dancing

Went out with a guy last night and he picked me up, got out of the car, came to the door, and opened doors for me all night. While we were dancing, he locked his fingers through mine. Each time we would go to the dance...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

How to text this shy girl?

I got this shy girl's number Thursday. I've been told by friends not to text her right away so I waited. I want to text her tonight but not sure on how to do it since when we saw each other she seemed shy and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Which ethnicity has the most attractive females?

White: link link link link link Hispanic/Latina link link link link link Asian link link link link link link

peace-love-couture

Yoda Age: 32

Health & Fitness

What do you consider too skinny?

I've never thought of myself as too skinny. I see myself as average. In fact, I used to be overweight but now I am at a healthy weight for my height. I even feel I could lose another 5 pounds, and yet a guy turned me down...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when a girl takes a guys shirt from their dresser?

we cuddled one night and she needed a shirt as she wore something formal and took one my teenage mutant ninja turtles shirts I had in my dresser. She claims its hers now. does she have some emotional attachment to it just...

Anonymous

(36-45)

If you tell a guy you missed him?

If you tell guy that you missed him cause you haven't talked in a long time is that too much does that seem too clingy. (Were not dating)

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, do you prefer thin or thick hair on girls?

In general, do guys prefer thick or thin hair? my hairs blond, really really thick, voluminous and straight-ish and come to about my tummy button... is that good or bad?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Vacation with boyfriend and his Family...what to do??

Hi. I have an interesting situation I need advice on.I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half, his father is a nudist, although he always is clothed whenever I am around, so I never really see it. Well...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a guy taps you on the shoulder?

There's this guy at school and he's so popular and he's in a few of my classes. Whilst I was sewing, he tapped me on my left shoulder. I looked to my left to see he wasn't there so I looked to my right and he was at my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a guy calls you Kiddo ?

awkward nickname right ? but I always wanted to know why a guy would use such a nickname for a grl... your thoughts ?

fragrance

Xper 5 Age: 33

Dating

Why do poor men hate gold diggers?

I never got this. Like if you don't have any gold for her to dig she won't date you not pay attention to you so she has no affect on you life at all so why do you hate these women?m Is it because she won'z date you...

ImAdirtySlot

Xper 5 Age: 32

Do you think olive skin girls are more beautiful?

Do you think olive skin girls are more beautiful ? Or not?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why is my crush ignoring me now?

Ive been into this store four times and there's this guy I liked in there. This guy use to playfully annoy me, smile and say stupid crap, wouldn't leave me alone borderline immature. He would stare at me and follow me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a guys asks you to walk around with him?

Like if you're in party or gathering or something and he asks you to go walk with him.

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does "we're not dating but you're still mine" really mean?

what does "whatever, I'm done" mean during a discussion/argument?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Have feelings yet in limbo with ex-girlfriend who isn't committal/giving mixed signals

Ladies! I'm (27 M) in relationship limbo with my ex (26 F)--we dated for a while last year but parted ways since she wasn't ready for a relationship and wasn't sure she could commit. We didn't talk for a few months but I...

runningtexas

Xper 5 Age: 40

Fashion & Beauty

Should a 19 year old 6" 4' young lady wear high heels

im 19 years old turning 20 next month, now I'm 6" 4' or 1.94 cm and I've always wanted high heels but in my country (South Africa) they only sell size 11 high heel shoes (US and UK) now my shoe size is size 17/18 but I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why is he avoiding and ignoring me?

I have a question about this guy Alex. I always went to the schools library to study there, then all of a sudden one day this guy Alex stared at me from across the hallway, and after 10 min. he came to the room where I...

cynthia92

Xper 5 Age: 34

Girl's Behavior

How does an ugly guy get a girlfriend?

not fat , not shy , not the guy who doesn't talk to girls , but the guy with the ugly facial structure that girls call him ugly .(yes that's me ) I get called ugly or ignored by girls I try to talk to . I've never had a...

Anonymous

(30-35)