All Questions

Sports bras make you look flat chested?

When I wear a sports bra it flattens my breasts which I thought it was supposed to do. But lately I have seen some women who are obviously wearing a sports bra but there boobs are not flat and look more like they are...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Guy's Behavior

Girls...What signals say he's "cocky" or a "player"?

Please don't take this the wrong way, but people seem to think I get a lot of girls and I hear these things often. I don't like it at all, and couldn't be further from the truth. I'm a pretty good looking guy and I like...

ashtonm

Xper 3 Age: 36

Other

What percentage of white Women prefer Black Men?

I am a white Man and I find it odd to see how many white Women prefer black Men. I mean biologically it is weird also since nearly every species and sub species of animal on the planet is attracted to its own. Now I know...

zenicio

Xper 5 Age: 35

Guy's Behavior

Why would a guy avoid you?

Our common friend and I talk for hours in the same small bookshop, drink coffee, etc. but this guy wouldn't talk to me, in a way escapes from me, so do I. I kind of like him. I once messaged him on Facebook asking why he...

heartbeat19

Xper 4 Age: 33

Boyfriend's friends have been mean & disrespectful:Advice?

Sorry this is so long, but I promise I'm not just rambling for no reason :) My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year, and have been very happy and loving toward each other. We've both said numerous...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do girls like the plain tee / jeans looks on guys?

i have perfectly right size muscular arms. would it look douchy if I wear plain black/white tees that fit? thanks

helloyes

Xper 6 Age: 34

Girl's Behavior

Do guys even like girls with natural tan?

Bc I have it and always thought it made my legs hot. But now I'm hearing that guys like pale skin?

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it means if a guy said to you "i think you're neat"?

not sure if there is different meaning in different country he is from America. :/

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do girls have fantasies of being kidnapped?

Always wondered if girls have such fantasies. Do you?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

No contact/absence makes the heart grow fonder? SOULMATE

We are both 40. We broke up or took a "open ended relationship break" last Thursday. He texted twice. They were more "functional" texts but indicates that he is still thinking of me. He broke up with me citing my...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Women: what do you think of cargo pants?

I have often been curious; what do women think of cargo pants? Either on men, themselves or even other women, what's your opinion, are they stylish? Do you find them unappealing? If you like them do you actually use the...

Aurellius

Yoda Age: 37

Guys, how long can you stand the silent treatment before you crumble?

Look, I know we all hate the silent treatment. Usually it's the ladies who do it. In my case, I'm totally into talking things out rather than shutting myself up. But I happen to be the one on the receiving end of a silent...

PixieDust

Xper 6 Age: 48

Girl's Behavior

What to do when two people like each other but are both too shy to make the first move?

I really like him, I am like 99% sure he likes me too. I've always believed the guy should make the first move so the fact that he hasn't places doubts in my mind. But I do believe he DOES like me but is afraid to make a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

My boyfriend has a girl anime picture in his phone. Am I over-reacting?

Okay I just saw that my boyfriend had a picture of an anime girl in a provocative pose in his phone. She isn't naked or anything but its provocative enough to be a little dirty. I would like to point out that we've been...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Will he forgive me after telling his girlfriend he cheated on her?

Will he forgive me after telling his girlfriend he cheated on her? i told the guy's girlfriend I was in a casual relationship with that he was cheating on her with me in the heat of the moment when I thought he was...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Dating

How to overcome fear to kiss a girl?

I am going to reveal to all of you the most embarrassing part of my biography. I am 22 year old virgin who only kissed girls a few times when I was really drunk. Throughout years girls have liked me, but due to my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My friend ignores me around her boyfriend, is this right?

I attended with my best friend wedding reception. We both knew only bride. She went with her boyfriend, I was alone because my boyfriend was abroad and I didn't want to go with other boy. We 3 were sitting near but my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My boyfriend wants to move to another country. Should this be a deal breaker?

Hey, I am 20 years old and my boyfriend of about 5 years is wanting to move to Japan after he finishes college. If he did go to Japan it would be in about two years. He wants to get an editing job and says that all the...

gatennis09

Xper 5 Age: 34

Is being wise attractive?

I am 18 years old and I find myself getting along with older people a lot more than I do with people my age. I do get a long with them but when I talk to an adult who I just met, after I talk to them they end up telling...

cuddlebug06

Xper 3 Age: 32

My boss can't spell my name correctly?

It is annoying because I work with him for a month and I have there for 8 months. It was in the email and he spelled it incorrectly. I am not sure how take it...he doesn't care ?

Anonymous

(36-45)

If a girl singles me out and teases me constantly?

What can I assume? She always has this mean/playfully mean/sarcastic/smartass attitude towards me and she tells me that she is like that because I'm very annoying and "drive her crazy". I don't mean to do it, its just the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Puked at a party...How do I get people to forget?

I drunk at this party blah blah got super sick and puked in the toilet people called seniors and like everyone in my school found out even my mother. I've not invited to parites where all my friends have been invited to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does a man tell his woman that she is the most beautiful woman in the world?

My sweetheart frequently calls me "gorgeous" and "sexy" -- every day, in fact, and typically several times a day. He tells me that I'm the most beautiful woman in the world. However, I KNOW for a fact that I'm not the...

FoundmyTwinsoul

Xper 4 Age: 54

My best friend's boyfriend is jealous of me. How should I deal with this situation?

So my best friend recently told me that her boyfriend is jealous of me and doesn't like when me and her hang out without him around, whether we are alone or in a group. And I don't really understand why? Me and her have...

aat10

Xper 3 Age: 34

Any other guys don't like high heels on girls?

its like everywhere you go girls are in high heels. Girls who are naturally 5'1-5'4 are now 5'9 with high heels. basically girls that were in your league are now not in your league anymore probably not on this website...

cyrus7

Xper 4 Age: 34

What scents turn guys on the most?

Guys what scents attract you most to girls. I heard that no guy can resist a girl that wears a vanilla scent, which might not be true and now its got me curious. So what scents turn you guys on the most? ;)

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it true that people who get angry easily have visible veins on the back of their palms?

is it true that people who get angry easily have visible veins on the back of their palms?

Anonymous

(30-35)

How long do you wait to accept a friend request on Facebook?

semifastrunner

Xper 5 Age: 39