All Questions

How do I stop getting "unread deleted" on pof?

Most of my messages sent keep getting "unread deleted!" on Plenty of Fish. Don't feel like I am a hideously, ugly guy, and certainly not rude or crude when I message a woman. Hopefully some lady here can give me pointers...

deang55

Xper 5 Age: 70

Girl says she had fun on date. Ignores me texts afterwards.

So went on a date with someone I met online. We both had fun. There was a lot of playful flirting throughout the date. On numerous occasions she said to me 'I'm having so much fun' and 'you're really cool'. During the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why does he want me to smoke weed with him?

I'm a freshman in college and I've been friends with this guy for several months. We were very flirty for a while and almost started dating, but then he decided to get back together with an old girlfriend. She goes to a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

So... a lot of girls really do like skinny jeans on men? Women jeans on men?

Seriously... at least one guy on this site, from his experience, says that a fair few girls like guys with skinny/womens jeans... how F-ing frustrating that maybe one reason I don't get so much attention from girls is...

Electric_Dreams

Explorer Age: 34

Have you ever been yelled at while driving?

I was driving behind this car who refused to make a right turn at a red light so the car behind me kept honking at him. Apparently this a**hole thought it was me so he got out of his car and bitched at me about it. Who...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Tattoo on bum yay or nay?

So basically, I want a tattoo on my butt cheek ha ha I know it's something I can pull off and I have the body for it, I think it's bold and cute. I'm not asking whether I should get it or not because I already have my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

I can't stop smelling my gf's shoes...

every time my girlfriend comes over and if she goes to bathroom or out of the room I always smell her shoes, flats, boots, or whatever she happens to be wearing that day. Is this weird what if you caught your boyfriend...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

Do looks really fade away through age?

People often say about other people in high school, college or their 20's, that looks aren't important because in 20 years, they're just going to fade away. First of all, 20 or 30 years is a long time. I know people...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Two vividly odd dreams in one night, what do they mean?

Sorry, kind of long... I had two dreams the night of Oct. 7th, 2012. The first dream involved me being at a get together with friends, or maybe a reunion of some sort, but I can see a lot of my friends, mostly from...

LovelySerene

Yoda Age: 35

Sexy rock or alternative songs?

What are your favorite sexy rock or alternative songs?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Do you find it annoying when Judge Judy is always telling people "um" is not an answer? Which is just a habit!

The average person is gonna say "um", because they're use to saying it every since they been in this world. Judge Judy is the only judge that makes a mountain out of a mole. I hate it when she's so naive like think. She...

womensuck

Xper 5 Age: 43

Society & Politics

Mom hates my boyfriend and wants me to break up with him. what to do?

Me and my boyfriend have been together for one year and 4 months. At the beginning my mom liked him but now she will doing anything to separate us. my boyfriend lives about an hour from where I live and he always comes to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Going to a concert for a first date?

I was trying to look for something cool to do for a first date and saw that Weezer will be playing this weekend at the state fair. This would be our first official date, but is kind of like a second date almost. I met...

TimePhantom

Yoda Age: 37

I'm 32 and he's 24...problematic?

Ok, so I have been hanging out with a 24-year old and I am 32 years old. He seems more mature for his age than other guys I have met but who knows. We like each other so what do I do? I fear that I might really start to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Why and when do you guys call ex girlfriend after midnight?

The moment when you want or miss "SOMETHING" ? or when you miss her and her voice

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to get a guy's number without asking?

Just curious...what magic does it take to let a guy voluntarily give his number to you without asking...

Kpopmanic

Xper 5 Age: 30

Am I annoying him?

I give this guy a lot of space because apparently guys need space...am I giving too much space? I don't want to seem like I'm pushing him away. I usually wait for him to initiate conversations (texting) because he's...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What do you think of slicked back ponytails? (link)

link Do you think this look is hot? Girls, would/do you ever wear your hair like this?

trichpo

Xper 5 Age: 36

Why are there no morals or respect anymore?

Simple question, I want to know what your opinions are?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, what do "high fives" mean?

This guy pretty much every time he sees me gives a high five...is it a sign of friendship or something else?

curiouschica

Yoda Age: 39

Jennifer Aniston has a very masculine face. Why are some heterosexual men attracted to her?

Jennifer Aniston is one of the most overrated celebrities. Her masculine face turns me off big time. Why are some heterosexual men attracted to her?

PrincessHarry

Xper 3 Age: 39

Do guys like it when girls touch them?

Do guys like to be touched by girls while they're still in the flirting stage? I know that some girls love touching. They'll touch a guy's hand, bicep, shoulder, face, hair, and the guy doesn't seem to mind much. Do a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why does she push me away every time we get close?

We dated for a few months without issue. The first week of dating she ended it. Said she was afraid to hurt me. Initially I was upset but I told her the next day that I understood and won't burn the bridge for it. She was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My boyfriend gets mad when I tell him I miss him? Why's that?

I'm entirely confused. I never mean to offend him, but for some odd reason he gets really offended or mad or something when I tell him that I miss him. It makes me feel really rejected. It's not that I need to be around...

Anonymous

(36-45)

She randomly stopped texting. Girls what would cause this girl to do this?

So I texted this girl on Friday night and she didn't reply for like three hours or so and by that time I had gone to sleep. She then texted me "heyyy" the next day and I didn't reply at all. I then texted her again on...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a guy says he likes you?

I've known this guys for a month and a half now, we always said I love you to each other and such,i do like him but 2 weeks ago he started saying I like you to me randomly, like today he told me he liked me and I said I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Favorite and least favorite texting cliches?

What are your FAVORITE and LEAST FAVORITE texting cliches?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Guy's Behavior

Why Do YOU Stare? I've given a list of why I stare and the scenarios.

I've noticed that a lot of people ask questions like why is she or he staring, etc., etc., etc. But, my thing is there are various of reasons. Some people act like they never stare and are always the victims on...

DiEms

Xper 6 Age: 34

Break Up & Divorce

My ex boyfriend says he doesn't deserve me, but........

I was in this relationship with a guy for 6 months. I was his first girlfriend, his first kiss, his first everything. It's not that he's young, he's seventeen, it's just that he never really liked anyone else. But I've...

Missageless

Xper 5 Age: 31

Woman says "you're so funny" What does that mean?

So I just got back from the dentist. I was nervous because I had to get my wisdom tooth removed and I didn't know what to expect. There was this woman who worked there as a temp. Honestly she was the most gorgeous...

JZ_817

Xper 5 Age: 33

What is a kenning for volleyball?

it can be for like the actual game or a player or like a bump set or spike

alyssapiccolo

Xper 5 Age: 33

Relationships

Would you come over if your girlfriend was sick?

right now I have the flue. I expected my boyfriend to come over or just say that he would come this week. I told him I needed Advil last night and that I wanted to go to the mall to get it. he did not even asked if he...

missmary

Xper 3 Age: 37

Family & Friends

Why is my guy friend acting so moody?

I have been friends with a guy I work closely with for a year. At some point in the year I realized that I liked him as more than a friend but tried not to show it as I didn't want to ruin our friendship. I started to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I freaked him out. How can I fix this?

BACKGROUND: He's 24, I'm 21. We met online. We clicked right away. He works crazy hours (like 14 hour days, and several weeks out in the field doing data collection, and long work hours in the city doing analysis). He...

whytheface

Xper 3 Age: 35

Break Up & Divorce

We act like a couple but we're not, HELP?

So about 3 months ago I began hanging out with this guy that I went to high school with, it was one of those things where I didn't know what I was getting myself into at first but now I'm so confused with the situation...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean if a girl touches your butt?

It's happened to me a few times. I'll be walking and one girls poked me in butt and one girl slapped my butt(different people and different times). What does that mean. And neither of them like me.

Ineedyourhelp

Xper 5 Age: 31

Relationships

Guys and girls, would you rather date someone younger than you, the same age as you, or older than you? Why?

Most of the time you hear about guys preferring younger girls and girls preferring older men. I'm wondering how accurate this generalization is. I myself have never really been into younger girls. I'm still a teenager...

goldgunsgirls

Xper 3 Age: 31

Have you ever met a maneater?

I just wonder how do these kind of girls look like.

Anonymous

(30-35)