All Questions

What does it mean when a girl says you're "too serious"?

I've noticed over the past year that when I speak with girls sometimes they say I'm too "serious" when I speak with them. I've asked a few friends about it and I've gotten replies like my body gestures are too powerful or...

diver012

Xper 5 Age: 39

Break Up & Divorce

Why do guys keep "back pocket girls"?

I have a feeling this guy is using me as a back pocket girl. One would think that the main reason a guy does this is to get some..but we have never slept together, he hasn't even mentioned it. The reason why I think he's...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

She called me her big brother?! :/

here is the quote from Facebook from the girl I'm trying to ask out: "truth is I've only known you a month and you are already like an older brother to me! you crack me tf up I swear you make me laugh when I'm having the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why did he do this? Suddenly has a girlfriend.

I had been really close to this guy for a fair few months, hanging out and texting every day. He always showed really strong signs of liking me, said he liked me, we kissed and he always went on about how perfect I was. I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Do girls like movie dates?

I'm asking the girl I like to the movie sinister... How many girls actually wanna go see movies on a first date ? Its a scary movie

Lousy

Xper 5 Age: 30

Marriage & Weddings

How do you tell a guy you're saving yourself for marriage?

I never had to worry about it in high school because I'm really shy and guys never tried anything other than kissing, but now that I'm in college, I realized eventually I'll have to tell a guy he's not getting far. The...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Have you let your pride get the best of you?

In the case of either platonic or romantic relationships, have you allowed your pride to get in the way? Did you choose to blatantly ignore and avoid someone merely because your pride wouldn't let you admit you were wrong...

jlanee90

Xper 5 Age: 36

Society & Politics

Have you grown out of partying/clubbing? How old is too old for partying?

i am 23 now and I use to party a lot when I was 18-19 years old. Every other day I was at a party it seemed like. but as I got a little older my partying slowed down. from every weekend, to every other weekend to once a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do guys call a girl by her last name??

1) why do guys call a girl by her last name (but still show one sign of interest -ex: touching her) 2) why do guys laugh/talk really loudly around a girl? 3) why do guys try and get a reaction out of girl? 4) signs a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Independent girls vs. the damsel in distress?

just thought of this a second ago, I have a close friend who is not at all an independent woman. seriously she really acts derpy a lot and needs help with things, love her she's super sweet but I just thought maybe there...

cuteLiLbunny

Xper 7 Age: 31

My boyfriend's mom invited me for dinner out of the blue?

I'm very happy about it but kinda wondering what the occasion is about. My boyfriend still lives with his parents and sibblings so it's a rather big deal when I'm invited over. Any ideas? We're close to our one year...

Ingrid422

Guru Age: 34

What does it mean when a girls calls you by your first name?

Does it mean anything? If so what? Like if a girl is talking or texting you and she says your full name in a sarcastic way or just kinda normal maybe a little flirty.

Anonymous

(30-35)

My boss and I kissed? What do I do?

Ok, so I feel really horrible right now. I work at a place where my boss works in a similar role, I didn't know him then, but he offered me a job at another place where he's a manager. I said yes at the the time because I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, guessing a woman's size and figure under her clothes?

How easily can a man guess/tell what a woman really looks like under her clothes in regards to her size and figure? What about under these conditions? 1.) You have never touched her in a way that would tell you, 2.)...

anonymousmember

Xper 5 Age: 33

QUICK! what's a good excuse to cancel a date?

Its just this once! I promise! I can't go because of personal reasons.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Truth or dare punishment ideas/experiences?

What are some of the best (or worst) punishments you guys have had to do for not doing a dare in Truth or Dare. And/or, anybody have ideas for some really awesome ones? xD

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Is this his way of gauging my interest?

So me and this guy, C, have hung out a couple times since we started school. he lives on the floor right above mine and his best friend, G, lives on my floor. Anyways about a month ago we met up after this party and I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

My 'crush' contacted me after 2 years of silence

2010: After a year and half of mind games, giving me very open signals that he liked me, I made the first step and decided to finally break the ice and talk to him. We got to know each other, yadda yadda. I eventually...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

I look so average...

do you ever have one of those days where you wake up and realize how average looking you are? well I've experienced that a ton of times and wonder how I'll get any guy to be interested in me...and whatever they may say,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it bad to talk/flirt/text/call multiple girls at one time, if you are not dating anyone?

So, I talk/flirt/text/call multiple girls all the time. I am single and not even dating any of them yet. My question is if its bad that I do this? So girls and guys tell me if you think its bad to do or if you do it? If...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

If a guy wants to kiss you at a club?

after you have talked for hours and hanged all night..is it a bad thing ? or does he just want to get some.. i did say no but than he said I won't pressure you and than left..but than came and asked for my phone number...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do guys only want to get into my pants?

Seriously. Because I'm really getting the idea that they don't really value ANYTHING about my personality and they only think about themselves. I'm really skinny so I don't get why they'd want to get into my pants in the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Short guys finish last?

I know a lot of girls wouldn't date a short guy based on his height alone. There have even been other questions on here and like 90% of the girls said they couldn't date a short guy. I've never seen a girl with a guy...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Does having sex with someone else help you get over/forget your ex?

Does having sex with someone else WHO IS REALLY HOT help you get over/forget your ex?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do some guys talk so close to my face?

I sometimes start talking to males, and our chat starts at the normal 3-4 feet of distance. As we talk we are both smiling, laughing, and chatting. (but not flirting from my perception) Then some guys gradually get their...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

How Can I Stop Being "Mom-Zoned"?

Most guys that I interact with be it that I am flirting with them or simply being friendly I get mom-zoned. I do not know what am I doing or how I can get it to stop. They say things like I would make a good mom, could...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

True or False: Unfriending EX on Facebook shows that may be feeling bitter.

I'm not talking about when your significant other asks you to do it or not but when you willingly do it yourself. Although it may be gesture of separation, performing the "unfriending" kind of shows the other person...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is this a sugarcoated rejection? What does she mean in the last part?

I have been friends with this girl for more than a year now.. Like really close and evolved into intimacy. And we fell in love with each other, at least that's what I think. We didn't know how it happened. Although I knew...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, what do you think of a girl that suggests a second date?

Let's say you had an incredible first date with a girl, text her two hours after it has ended. You talk over the course of a week and she suggests a second date, not ask you directly, but says she wants to go somewhere...

IsabellaPiano

Xper 5 Age: 33

Do girls like an assertive guy or a laid back guy?

In my experience I've seen both work but the more laid back guy seems to do better. The assertive guy seems to just ask out a lot of girls and gets rejected till one approves. The laid back guy waits on girls and doesn't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What kind of perfumes do guys find sexy on women?

You can give a name or certain kind of smell. Fruity, floral, warm, or type of perfume.

angelsofheaven

Xper 5 Age: 51

Is it illegal for a girl to walk into a mens room.

It was at college today. One of my classes is a huge class and it is long. About an hour and 45 minutes. Well after the class alt of us had to use the restroom. The men's and the women's were both full. Well the most...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Parents banned me from seeing my boyfriend... please help :(

My boyfriend has been to jail before, the same jail that my dad works in. My parents don't know him and I are dating, but they know we talk. My dad told me that I'm no longer allowed to see him or speak to him.. but I...

StephhiexD

Xper 5 Age: 34

"I've never been so attracted to someone in my life."

Guys, would you say this to a girl if you didn't really mean it?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

I can't stand to be friends with weak people, is this normal?

I don't mean in the physical sense, I can't stand weak willed people, like it really bothers me and I'm wondering if this is normal, because literally that sh*t drives me crazy when I see situation like it. One of my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I feel neglected by my boyfriend. What should I do ?

I feel neglected by my boyfriend. I feel like he doesn't even care about me anymore. He makes me mad and he knows I'm mad and does nothing about it. Sometimes I text him and he just simply doest text back. I only se him...

Nathalie

Xper 3 Age: 33