All Questions

Do you guys ever lie about not liking a girl?

Like if you like her & someone asks you, do you ever deny it?

May31

Xper 7 Age: 31

Does it mean anything if a guy rubs your back while hugging?

I was wondering Because my ex hugged me recently and it was a long tight hug and he was just rubbing my back and it made me curious. Does it mean anything?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

Question for tall guys - is 5'3'' too short for you?

I'm curious about what the tall guys here think about this. 1. is this too short for you to be attracted to a woman? are you just naturally more attracted to taller women? 2. have you dated a girl this short or...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My girlfriend chooses her friends over me? What should I make of this?

I always select my girlfriend and spending time with her over my friends, ALWAYS, without question. However, I have noticed a trend that my girlfriend will at times put friends or other people before me, and then claim to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a girl asks you what kind of girl (appearance-wise) do you look for?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating 11 months and he hasn't said "I love you"... Am I wasting my time?

Dating a guy a bit over 11months and hasn't said "I love you"... Am I wasting my time? I know people grow to love people at different paces but it's almost a year. In my mind I feel like if he was going to fall in loved...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Family & Friends

Does he think I've friend-zoned him?

I got to know this guy whom I have always known but was never good friends with. We recently coincidentally got to hang out and it was the most fun I've had in a long time with a guy who wasn't a close friend. Even though...

sgjtm

Xper 4 Age: 35

Health & Fitness

How to gain muscle and loose fat?

This is for all the fitness gurus out there: I need to gain weight and get stronger for football next year. I've started working out three times a week, and I've been eating a ton. In the two weeks since I've started,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do guys only look at the outer beauty instead of the inner beauty?

There is this guy that I really liked and he doesn't really look at me. He told me that the reason why he didn't look at me or talk to me was because I wasn't pretty.

Kathleen12

Xper 5 Age: 32

Health & Fitness

Does anyone else hiccup when they drink fizzy drinks?

All my life, I've always hiccuped once after the first gulp of carbonated drink. When I drink seltzer water I'll sometimes get a full blown case of the hiccups. So I usually only sip sodas. Does this happen to anyone...

ivarei

Guru Age: 36

Why do I only attract older men?

I'm 33 and I get hit on and asked out by men in their mid-40's and older. Even in my late teens and early 20's, not a single guy close to my age ever asked me out or showed interest in me. In a way, I'm flattered 'cause...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

Should I get Keds or Toms?

Keds: link Toms: link

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does loneliness drive you crazy?

I've noticed that when people are lonely. they become desperate and bored.. causing them to become paranoid or 'weird. I know that when I've been alone I start thinking about myself and my life, and usually become angry...

Bradm01

Xper 6 Age: 34

Why do girls complain about being hit on by guys, and yet these same girls

Complain when they aren't getting attention from men and also say that they never can find a man.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Would you date Snooki?

The girl from Jersey Shore. Would you date her if she wore makeup or no makeup? If people have never seen her without makeup look up Snooki without makeup. Oh yeah I would totally date her if she wore no makeup :)

bigmike16

Xper 5 Age: 31

Guys what do you usually mean when you call a girl "hottie" ?

there is this guy that I started talking to, we are good friends.. and today I wore this really pretty oufit that I have. and on fb he was like hey there hottie :D why were you out of uniform 2day? Does this mean...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do nerds and dorky guys like me?

Long story short: I'm a fairly pretty girl. I get very cute guys staring at me/or doing that "woah intense eye contact/stare as we pass" thing but none ever approach me or ask me out. However, dorky and nerdy and shy guys...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

What is your favorite female scent from Hollister? (And what perfume do they spray on the clothes?)

jenlovee

Xper 6 Age: 34

What makes a girl clingy and annoying and needy?

will ! wha makes a girl clingy and annoying and needy and how to stop being clingy , annoying and needy ! and what if your girlfriend is all the above how would you deal with it

nicole-jackson

Xper 5 Age: 32

Is mirroring someone's body language as form of flirting or attraction reliable?

I'm asking this because for whatever reason this particular girl was sitting opposite me in group study and from time to time I would notice that either she was sitting the exact way that I was or I was sub consciously...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys do you stalk your crush on Facebook?

Girls are welcome to answer to but I would love to get a guys opinion. And if you do why.

123everlyn

Xper 5 Age: 35

Is my crush ignoring me?

I'm quite new here, so don't mind if I do something wrong. Uh, well, I'm not good at relationships and all so it's quite unlucky for me to get a crush on someone. But it happened apparently. There is a guy in my class and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, how do you feel about other men flirting with your crush?

For example: 1. Another man leaving a flirty/sweet message on your crush's 'wall.' 2. Openly flirting with your crush. Would that impact how you feel about her? Would that change anything?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is asking a girl to a concert a way of asking her out?

A good friend of mine told me I should go to a concert with him. I asked if our other friends could come too since we hadn't seen them in a long time. He said no because it would be weird for him to bring a lot of...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to ask a guy if he wants to make it official and be boyfriend and girlfriend?

This guy and I have been going on dates and hanging out and I'm really starting to feel affection for him and attachment to him...how do I ask him if he feels the same way and if he wants to be a couple?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Why does my boyfriend get mad when I can't hang out?

My boyfriend always gets mad at me when I say I can't hang out, even when it's for legitimate reasons. I've tAlked to him about it and he says it's because he gets his hopes up to see me, but we see each other every day...

Jackie1106

Xper 6 Age: 31

Guys & piggy back rides...is it a win win for you all?

So this is kind of a general question but do you guys like giving girls piggy back rides? Does it make you feel masculine and strong or whatnot? Like for example the other night, one of the guys I work with said " so...

dee_bee

Xper 6 Age: 35

Shopping & Gifts

I need La Corda d'Oro chapter 76+!!!

I just finished the last of what was posted online, and then I saw a spoiler for later on! I thought the series was over, but apparently NOT, and I WANT IN! Anybody know a site where it's already posted? And is it out...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do smiley faces during text indicate he may like you?

He uses then a lot and :P faces too. He's 28 so I'm guessing he doesn't use them unless he's actually smiling, it's really cute when he does it, does it mean anything web a guy sends faces after texts. Like good night...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

Can I say anything to help my boyfriend accept my decision to get plastic surgery?

I have a big nose, big chin, and small breasts. I was bullied mercilessly from age 10 to present (age 21) because of it. There are many days where I'm ashamed to show my face in public and feel like people are staring at...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls, do you enjoy arguing with guys?

I'm all for playful banter. I engage in it with my female friends quite often, we take a jab or two and leave it alone. There's this girl who is not really my friend but I argue with her ALL the time. About stupid things...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does she still like me after I didn't make a move?

Ok so I am a freshman in college and a virgin, I've never gone farther than 2nd base with a girl. To make a long story short I saw this girl I really liked at a party the other night and we ended up back at her room....

Anonymous

(36-45)