All Questions

Can a person be both "humble" and "materialistic" at the same time?

i was always though that a humble person is a person who doesn't care about being the best at everything, never looks for any type of entitlement, and never sees money as a priority which is where it gets confusing for...

CasaNorba

Guru Age: 39

How to get bleach out of dark grey sweats?

Does anybody know how to get bleach out of grey sweats?! I have a pair of abercrombie & fitch dark grey sweats and they have a bleach stain on the leg! Ahhhh help!

misty16

Xper 5 Age: 54

Why do some people avoid relationships?

Assuming someone has the time and the confidence, what would prevent them from getting into a relationship? Why would they choose not to get into one?

BCRanger10

Master Age: 38

Girls shouldn't wear jeans. It makes them look manly. Where have all the real women gone (1940s/50s/60s)?

I wish I was born in the 40s/50s/60s. Where have all the real women gone? They become manlier each year. They focus on their career instead of behaving like a real woman (care for the kids, cook and do the housework)....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do Caucasian men like big hips?

Just saying because, when it comes to the hip and butt region only black men seem to be the appreciators. What about white men, or any men for that matter...?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Do guys in relationships text other girls for ego boosts?

Although I know it's wrong, I'll admit that I've texted with other guys when I'm feeling down or even questioning my relationship, but I didn't really have any intention of wanting to physically cheat or anything. It...

sarcrb

Xper 5 Age: 45

If a man tells you his deep dark secrets is that an indicator of feelings?

My crush surprised me the other night. I had heard through the grapevine about some heavy personal things he has been going through in his life but I left it alone and didn't ask him about it. He spilled his guts to...

kris091314

Xper 3 Age: 52

He says he needs time to himself for a while. What does it mean?

Hi, I just got in a relationship with my boyfriend. We've been dating for about a month, and we have been official for about 3 weeks. He's the one who asked me to be his girlfriend and even told all of our mutual friends...

miss411

Xper 5 Age: 37

Boyfriend obligations? What are they?

Beside being faithful, what are these 'rules' that guys have to follow when being a boyfriend? I don't see why guys are so afraid of being in relationships so I want to know what of it beside being faithful is so damn...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, did you ever get pantsed in front of others?

What did you wear underneath that everyone could see then? lol And how did you take revenge on the person who pansted you?

Fiona83

Xper 7 Age: 42

Guys: Do actions speak louder than words? What does this mean?

Been seeing a guy for about 4 months. He's younger. I'm older. We were friends first. We go out to eat, go to movies, hang out at my house and he sleeps over several nights a week. We have never labeled our relationship...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Guy's Behavior

I know he's busy yes, but he's NEVER ONLINE?

so I'm pretty much just going to write out a I don't know a diary section, because I need some help and advice on this for 6 months my ex and I have been talking ..he contacted me etc and he usually is the one...

Anonymous

(30-35)

He is moving abroad, is there any way to make it work?

Hi there, I am a 30 year old girl from Ireland. I have recently started dating a guy (since December). I know it is early days but we are getting on so well. I have previously been in an 8 year relationship that ended...

summerbreeze2012

Xper 5 Age: 45

Why do people hate blondes?

jokes, ugly names.. why? 60% of blondes are fake blondes, so they aren't stupid blondes but stupid brunettes. isn't it weird? what's your opinion?

belby

Xper 6 Age: 33

Guy's Behavior

This guys tends to walk away when he sees me?

There is this one guy, that I'm pretty sure is attracted to me. He's confident but quiet, and sometimes when him and one of his friends approach me, and if I talk to his friend more, he tends to just walk away... Same...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Hooking up then cuddling, kissing, etc. afterward, is this normal?

How do you act with the girl you're hooking up with? Is it weird that the guy I hook up with some weekends likes to cuddle hardcore after doing it(I have to say doing it or else it won't let me ask this question haha)...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How To Survive A Horror Movie Date Night?

What are some good tips for a horror movie date night? This is our 3rd date, so I'm wondering...what's appropriate (flirty tips)?

maldroid

Xper 7 Age: 37

When is the last time that you peed your bed/pants?

When is the last time that you peed your bed/pants? Was alcohol involved at all?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

Junk food should be outlawed! Agree or disagree?

agree or disagree? Here are my reasons why I think junk should be outlawed. It is not necessary. Junk food is just a waste of resources. Poorer people are somewhat forced to buy it because its cheap then they become...

jimmy217

Yoda Age: 34

Dating

Guys do you really enjoy cuddling ...

Or do you do it mainly for the girls benefit?

wallonia

Xper 6 Age: 35

Family & Friends

What do I do about my boyfriend's obsession with his mother?

My boyfriend is an only child to a single mother. He is constantly texting and calling her when he's with me, which is every other night. I can't even have him to myself for just 24 hours. It's been 7 months and only...

ittybittyhanban

Xper 5 Age: 36

For the girls, why do girls think justin Bieber is hot?

I don't get it... Every girls all over his nuts so fill me in please

Anonymous

(36-45)

Isn't it sexy when I shake my hips? Or stupid?

So, here's the thing. I (think) I can do that thing pretty well where you shake your ass really fast... I did it in a club once with one of my guy friends and he was like "Oh my GOD! you can really dance girl, do that...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How long would you stay interested in a girl before giving up on her?

If you had a lot of feelings for a girl and she was only showing vague interest, how long would you stay interested in her before just giving up? Thanks.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is the website "the chive" sexist/degrading of women?

I personally love the site for its funny photos, etc... but was wondering if it was sexist/degrading toward women. What are guys and girls thoughts on this site? And could you describe the type of guy you are? player?...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to tell if a guy is desperate?

Backstory: I'm not the best with relationships and always antsy that the guy is just desperate and using me until he can get with the girl he really likes (which is usually the case). In other news there is this guy...

pastelrebel

Xper 5 Age: 33

I think I may be done being nice to girls?

My whole life I have been nice and respectful to woman and girls. Now I don't see a point of doing that anymore. My girlfreind just recently broke up with me just because she wants to be single. I gave her everything, I...

Martinsniezek

Xper 5 Age: 33

Will he say yes when I ask him out?

Say this guy likes me. He's quiet with me and is kinda nervous, doesn't say much, makes little eye contact, seems happy when I talk to him... if I ask him out will he say yes? Will a guy say yes to a girl to go out if he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do you ever wink at yourself in the mirror? lol

Just wondering...Can't say I haven't! Have u? lol =)

curiouschica

Yoda Age: 39

Family & Friends

Can men and women be friends?

Me and my girlfriend believe that men and women can be friends but our boyfriend think the opposite.

Anna_Drouga

Xper 6 Age: 34