All Questions

Is a girl blushing a good sign?

Today I was buying some clothes and the girl serving me was really cute, she was talking with me briefly and at one point she looked up at me and smiled and I smiled back but I noticed she got kinda red and flustered in...

Dantemustdie

Xper 3 Age: 34

Do guys like a flat butt?

I know men like a flat butt over a fat butt but what about a flat butt over a toned butt. is a flat butt still preferable?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

Do elliptical machines build muscle on my legs?

So my friend & I have a question. She's a member of LA Fitness & she's gonna give me a guest pass for 2 weeks so we can go together :P She's pear shaped and bottom heavy. She's not fat, far from it, but any weight she...

peace-love-couture

Yoda Age: 32

Best way to get an ex back? Boys what makes you miss us?

My boyfriend and I were perfect for each other! We were going out for 5 months and we thought we'd last a while but the other day he broke up with me because he was getting super stressed with everything he's got on with...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

What's the expression "hamburger meat"?

One of my friends who just got cleaned up and ready to go out for the night was talking and he goes "oh yeah I've got my chain and the hamburger meat hanging out... " what does this mean? :S

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does he stare at me, but already has a girlfriend?

so there is this boy at my school we have been staring at each other and making eye contact and other stuff. but when he stares at me he does not smile and he does this everyday non stop and me and him have been doing...

tucker2222

Xper 3 Age: 54

Boyfriend wanted to buy me clothes and I refused...now he's mad at me. What do I do?

So my boyfriend of 15 months and I were going to a party, and he wanted to buy me a new dress. I told him that I didn't need anything new, and I didn't feel comfortable with him buying me clothes for no reason. He then...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

How to tell my ex that we need a clear cut break up?

My ex and I have decided to remain friends which is fine with me. The only thing is that it still feels like we are together. I have asked him when we will change our Facebook relationship status (I know its not a big...

sarahlouise1

Xper 4 Age: 33

Valentine's Day

Should i give my friend's with benefits a valentine's day gift?

Title says it all. We've been hooking up for a while now. We're friends and we hang out sometimes but it's really a hook-up type of relationship. Do you think it'd be weird if I just gave him some chocolates or something...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What do you think of gourmand fragrances?

"If you smell something that reminds you of food, chances are it is a gourmand scent: scents with “edible” or “dessert”-like qualities. These often contain notes like vanilla, tonka bean and coumarin." They're usually...

pr3ttybr0wn

Master Age: 38

Society & Politics

Men are supposed to be the leader in a relationship while women are supposed to nurture?

My friend recently brought up this discussion. Do you believe that good, moral men NEED to be the leader in a relationship while women should be nurturing? For example, if there is a problem in the family, the man...

xTeacup

Xper 7 Age: 32

Guys...what do you think when you see a tall woman?

I'm curious (as I'm about 6ft tall) What do you think when you see a tall (about 5'10 to 6ft) semi attractive or very attractive tall woman? Do you notice them? Are you attracted usually or is the height turn you off?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do good guys always get played by girls?

This question is not a sexest question, I know it goes both ways both my emphasis is on females because they seems to do it more often than guys.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Genuinely too busy to text-has it ever happen to you guys?

My degree in school is, at times, quite demanding. At the same time, I don't think I've ever been too busy to send a text. If a guy is not replying my text within 1-2 days, is he busy or just not THAT into me? Thanks!

Anonymous

(36-45)

What's your opinion on bold flirting?

Would you be more comfortable with a girl flirting boldly or do you prefer to have more left to the imagination?

lindseybeebutton

Xper 5 Age: 31

Cuddling in the car?

i want to know the best positions for cuddling in the car. i usually have my guy on my lap and I play with his hair, but I need some affection also, but I want to keep his hands away from my waist. whats a good...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Can a person be both "humble" and "materialistic" at the same time?

i was always though that a humble person is a person who doesn't care about being the best at everything, never looks for any type of entitlement, and never sees money as a priority which is where it gets confusing for...

CasaNorba

Guru Age: 39

How to get bleach out of dark grey sweats?

Does anybody know how to get bleach out of grey sweats?! I have a pair of abercrombie & fitch dark grey sweats and they have a bleach stain on the leg! Ahhhh help!

misty16

Xper 5 Age: 54

Why do some people avoid relationships?

Assuming someone has the time and the confidence, what would prevent them from getting into a relationship? Why would they choose not to get into one?

BCRanger10

Master Age: 38

Girls shouldn't wear jeans. It makes them look manly. Where have all the real women gone (1940s/50s/60s)?

I wish I was born in the 40s/50s/60s. Where have all the real women gone? They become manlier each year. They focus on their career instead of behaving like a real woman (care for the kids, cook and do the housework)....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do Caucasian men like big hips?

Just saying because, when it comes to the hip and butt region only black men seem to be the appreciators. What about white men, or any men for that matter...?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Do guys in relationships text other girls for ego boosts?

Although I know it's wrong, I'll admit that I've texted with other guys when I'm feeling down or even questioning my relationship, but I didn't really have any intention of wanting to physically cheat or anything. It...

sarcrb

Xper 5 Age: 45

If a man tells you his deep dark secrets is that an indicator of feelings?

My crush surprised me the other night. I had heard through the grapevine about some heavy personal things he has been going through in his life but I left it alone and didn't ask him about it. He spilled his guts to...

kris091314

Xper 3 Age: 52

He says he needs time to himself for a while. What does it mean?

Hi, I just got in a relationship with my boyfriend. We've been dating for about a month, and we have been official for about 3 weeks. He's the one who asked me to be his girlfriend and even told all of our mutual friends...

miss411

Xper 5 Age: 37

Boyfriend obligations? What are they?

Beside being faithful, what are these 'rules' that guys have to follow when being a boyfriend? I don't see why guys are so afraid of being in relationships so I want to know what of it beside being faithful is so damn...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, did you ever get pantsed in front of others?

What did you wear underneath that everyone could see then? lol And how did you take revenge on the person who pansted you?

Fiona83

Xper 7 Age: 42

Guys: Do actions speak louder than words? What does this mean?

Been seeing a guy for about 4 months. He's younger. I'm older. We were friends first. We go out to eat, go to movies, hang out at my house and he sleeps over several nights a week. We have never labeled our relationship...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Guy's Behavior

I know he's busy yes, but he's NEVER ONLINE?

so I'm pretty much just going to write out a I don't know a diary section, because I need some help and advice on this for 6 months my ex and I have been talking ..he contacted me etc and he usually is the one...

Anonymous

(30-35)

He is moving abroad, is there any way to make it work?

Hi there, I am a 30 year old girl from Ireland. I have recently started dating a guy (since December). I know it is early days but we are getting on so well. I have previously been in an 8 year relationship that ended...

summerbreeze2012

Xper 5 Age: 45

Why do people hate blondes?

jokes, ugly names.. why? 60% of blondes are fake blondes, so they aren't stupid blondes but stupid brunettes. isn't it weird? what's your opinion?

belby

Xper 6 Age: 33

Guy's Behavior

This guys tends to walk away when he sees me?

There is this one guy, that I'm pretty sure is attracted to me. He's confident but quiet, and sometimes when him and one of his friends approach me, and if I talk to his friend more, he tends to just walk away... Same...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Hooking up then cuddling, kissing, etc. afterward, is this normal?

How do you act with the girl you're hooking up with? Is it weird that the guy I hook up with some weekends likes to cuddle hardcore after doing it(I have to say doing it or else it won't let me ask this question haha)...

Anonymous

(30-35)