All Questions

Is sharing straws intimate or just friendly for you?

Would you share a straw with someone whom you have a romantic interest in or kindred like or is this just something you would do on the regular with people in general?

LOVEART

Xper 6 Age: 35

Why are most guys such players and jerks in high school?

They just wanna get with you, and dump you without even being bf/gf. They just want a hookup. And yes theyre immature, but this is just stupid. I've never had a boyfriend because I know the intentions of the stupid guys...

veronica12

Xper 5 Age: 30

Other

Is it a turnoff if a guy doesn't drive?

I'm in my 20's and don't drive not gonna get into why I don't. But is it a turnoff if a guy doesn't drive? I know there are some pro's and cons. Like not having to put gas, paying insurance, and car maintenance. Cons...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does anyone else like the smell of nail polish?

I really like the smell of nail polish, I mean I REALLY like it lol. I know its pretty bad for your health but I still do it. Am I weird for liking the smell of it or does anyone else like it? :)

Anonymous

(30-35)

He hasn't texted in 10 days...?

Obviously this screams not interested but let me explain... Well basically, I went on a date with this guy and got on extremely well with him. I really got the impression he was interested too so I wasn't surpized when...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why am I so approachable and why are people so nice to me?

does anybody get paranoid when strangers are nice to you or when random older people strike up conversations with you? When I'm out in the city, hobos are really friendly to me and they open doors for me and stuff. I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Can I buy my best friend a bra?

She already told me her size she trust me and I trust her I don't like her! But I want to buy her one because the bra looked cool and do you girls care if us guys ask you about your bras?! Thanks

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a guy stays up all night talking to you.?

Okay so they're this guy that I've liked for a while and lately we've been talking a lot (basically all day and all night) and we've been getting really close and I feel something they're but I'm just sure. But the real...

zeeaust22

Xper 5 Age: 31

Is it Acceptable for my Girlfriend to Stay the Night at a Guy Friend's House?

My girlfriend (20 years old, dating for 3 years) is staying the night at her friend James's house. It makes me feel very uneasy that she is staying the night at a 16 year old kid's house. They usually stay awake until 2...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Red sole shoes, sexy or trashy?

If you need a reference, look for Christian Louboutin on Google. Do you think a woman wearing black 6" heels with visibly red soles is trashy or sexy?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys do you usually go for the prettiest girl?

guys, when your at the mall or the movies or something like that and you want to meet a girl do you usually go for the prettiest model looking girls or the more average looking girl? and how do you decide which girls you...

rachelx101

Xper 5 Age: 31

Shopping & Gifts

Argued with girlfriend because she refuses to celebrate her own birthday.

My girlfriend stopped celebrating her birthday when she was 21, she's now about to turn 26, and she honestly doesn't want to do anything, not even something tiny. I find it kinda unusual, so I confronted her about it. She...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Frizzy hair only in one spot?

ok so a couple months ago my hair dresser gave me some of the thickest bangs on the planet. Anyways they are growing out slowly, but for some reason they are very frizzy. Just the bangs, the rest of my hair is fine. I...

LrtwihArt

Xper 5 Age: 32

Relationships

The Science of Love : 34 min. experiment "to fall in love"?

There are 3 stages of love. I think I am in the attraction stage. I am literally head over heels for this kid and he literally is all that is on my mind day in and day out. I found this article particularly interesting...

fall4you

Xper 6 Age: 36

Flirting

I really like this girl but hardly know her. I need all different types of help. Can you help?

OK, so I'm in college and I am really attracted to this girl, I'm always thinking about her. I moved to this college a year ago and she is in 2 of my classes. I'm a very funny, normal personality with friends is what I've...

ayesh

Xper 5 Age: 30

He noticed my butt-sweat at the gym and acts weird. So embarrassed :/

OMG, Throughout the whole treadmill workout I had NO IDEA WHATSOEVER that I had a large wet patch on my butt area as a result from sweating. I was not wearing sweat proof gym pants, just normal black cotton tights. :/...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

My ex boyfriend flipped the middle finger at me & my boyfriend?

we were out shopping and suddenly my ex in his car flipped his middle finger towards us? my ex boyfriend flipped the middle finger at me & my bf? why? what the hell? bot me and my boyfriend never bugged him. my ex...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do girls change their mind so often about who they are interested in, attracted to? why do girls do that?

why couldn't they say just ignore me, reject me instantly in the first place? To me that is getting teased, lead on. Getting rejected is one-thing, getting teased and lead on is another, I hate how girls make guys feel...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Date blew me off on first date?

Should I give him the cold shoulder? Or let it go?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys with long hair, do you take it as an insult or compliment when a girl says 'I love your hair!'

I was wondering because I saw a guy with long hair today and wanted to say that but didn't want to offend him. I told a guy I liked his hair and asked if it was his real highlights,but he seemed kind of weirded out I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why is dating unfair for men? But average or sexy or any type of girl can get a date?

I was thinking since I heard from dudes saying that girl do the choosing and men sometimes get lucky if a girl likes them. I'm single and feel hopeless that many girls that I like don't want nothing to do with me. I feel...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boss texts me late at night, is this normal?

I sent him a text at 4:00pm, and he won't reply back until 11:30pm... He has done this quite often on more than one occasion. Isn't that strange? I sleep with my phone, so when he texted me he literally woke me up. I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

My boyfriend says I love and miss you to a female friend. Is this normal?

I recently discovered that my boyfriend sends Facebook messages to a close female friend that says I love you and I miss you. He told her that "I miss you more than you will ever know". I confronted him about this saying...

smurphett97

Xper 5 Age: 42

This guy texts me every few days but after I text back he doesn't reply and we don't talk for another few days

Lately I have had this guys text me every once in awhile to talk to me, after we talk for a while , or if I fall asleep and text him back a little after I wake up, he doesn't reply back. We do talk constantly for a few...

Cutiepie994

Xper 5 Age: 32

He flirts but talks about other girls??

This boy flirts with me, but then talks to me about other girls like he will say I've got a date on Wednesday. But then will say something like I bet she won't like me,i look rubbish on pictures. And I mean I get the...

gingerbread4666

Xper 3 Age: 34

Which nail polish color should I wear? (sorry- I'm hopeless with this stuff)

I never wear nail polish so I don't know what color would suit me. I just want a simple color that isn't very noticeable but not ugly looking. I'm a pretty happy person and I don't wear dark clothes- usually blues. I just...

Niki-Cole

Xper 5 Age: 30

Relationships

Boyfriend says he will never marry me?

Things were going good than we became on and off for the last year. He says that he would "never marry me because we could never have a stable relationship" although we both try all the time. What should I do?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Guy friend ignoring me since he got a girlfriend?

Okay, so I have a guy friend. I have fooled around with him before and I really enjoy spending time with him. Now, he has a girlfriend and has been ignoring me. He said he wanted to hang out sometime, but yet I don't hear...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

Will losing weight make my dimples more noticeable?

So I'm at an average weight and I have a dimple on one cheek, but its not super noticeable. I was wonder if I was to lose weight would that make my dimple stand out more?

whatatinything

Xper 5 Age: 32

Dating

Why'd you have to go and make things so complicated?

Avril Lavigne, said it best when she said: Uh huh Life's like this Uh huh, uh huh That's the way it is 'Cause life's like this Uh huh, uh huh That's the way it is Chill out, what you yellin' for? Lay back, it's...

loveisbeautiful

Editor Age: 39

Why do I look like my aunt?

I do look like my mother more than my dad... I only have gotten my dads hair and eyebrows. However, every time I visit my moms side of the family and other people come to meet up with us, the majority of them say I look...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, ever honk a guy or get honked at?

I was walking today and these girls in some car honked at me, they were giggling too. I know its more common for guys to honk at girls but is it ever the other way around? I was kinda shocked when it happened

Dantemustdie

Xper 3 Age: 34

If a woman tries to seek your approval (when it shouldn't matter) can that be an indication of attraction?

I know a woman a little who is a fair bit younger than me and I have thought for a while that she has been showing some signs of interest in me but am not certain. I was talking with her today and noticed on several...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Break Up & Divorce

Dumper wanting dumpee back?

I ended my relationship with my boyfriend two weeks ago and I want him back. I've realized that I'm miserable without him. However, I am scared that when I call him, he won't want me back. Does anyone have any...

brown_eyed_blonde

Xper 5 Age: 38

Why would you secretly take pictures of a random person?

Today, I was just studying in the library and this guy sitting like 2 chairs away from me was acting like if he was stretching his arms with his cell phone in his hand and then he took pictures of me. Why the heck would...

MissNobody

Explorer Age: 32

What age do you think we truly look like men and women?

supposedly when we reach 18 we are classified as adults. but mentally and physically we are still pretty much immature and look too young in my opinion. I am 21 and I don't feel I look like a true adult at all, neither...

G-Daz

Guru Age: 35

How should I answer "what are you thinking about?"

"What are you thinking about?" I never know how to answer this question. I always freeze up. I was hanging out with a girl last night that asked me and I thought quick and responded with "I'm just thinking about you"....

Anonymous

(36-45)