All Questions

Think I put too much pressure on a girl, what to do now?

Things were going well but then it she started backing away. I tried talking to her about things but did she didn't really seem like she wanted to talk...short, incomplete answers. I told her I'd give her space and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, do you think that when you like a girl, you say their name a lot in conversation?

Or just in general? Like even when you say hello, you use their name..? Okay, this may be overanaylzing a lot.. ha ha

Anonymous

(30-35)

Boyfriend rarely compliments me?

He tells me the I loves and I miss yous but he rarely does the little sweet things like tell me I look good or something or when I do my hair and the makeup to look good for him. Its just nice to hear those things from...

rawrbabe

Xper 5 Age: 39

Bio oil? Cold Sore Scar?!

I have a cold sore scar at the top of my lip. It is bright red and noticeable. I want it back to the color of my lip...or at least less noticeable. Makeup doesn't stay on, and I hate wearing foundation. I have tried many...

purplellama23

Xper 3 Age: 34

What does it mean when a guy calls you their soul mate?

We have known each other for a few years and crossed paths at odd times in our lives, we would randomly text or call each other. Just now we decided to date and see how it goes. what led up to us dating was one day out of...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

How many of us have stretch marks somewhere on our body?

I have some around my hips from growing fast when I was younger. I think everybody has some, even models but it seems like lots of people are insecure about something I think is normal. So how many of us have stretch...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

Do guys like girls who have messy bedrooms?

messy bedrooms, messy apartments, messy closet that sort of thing? or is it a turn off?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girlfriends getting lazy about shaving legs, why and what does it really mean?

So I've noticed with my past girlfriends they stop shaving their legs as often if at all the longer the relationship goes and most of my other guy friends say their girlfriends have done the same. I don't expect ultra...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Guy says how much he likes me, but keeps goes back&forth wanting to meet me then disappears. Stringing along.

Guy saw me at a store, liked me, found me on Facebook. He wrote I was the most beautiful woman he has ever seen. We both in mid 30s. Turned out he had a girlfriend that he says he doesn't want to be with and only stays...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Dating

Am I leading him on over text?

I've been texting a guy for two weeks (met at my work and hung out at a party). He always texts first and seems very interested. We have only been texting because I went back to school which is 3 hours from his. He has...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Girls do you ever send hearts to a guy you don't like?

Like while texting. If a guy is your friend will you ever send him hearts even if you don't have feelings for him? The girl I like sends hearts to my friend but I don't think she actually likes him. Just curious. Thanks!

thecubeman100

Xper 5 Age: 32

How come no one approaches me at the gym?

Only two have approached me, not including my trainer. Why is that? Not trying to sound out of the line but I am 100% positive that they all stare, and not just a glance, but multiple stares.

Anonymous

(30-35)

(FOR GUYS) Do you feel sorry for black girls when it comes to interracial dating and are we the least desired?

My question comes from a guy who felt this way. I'm going to assume he's white though I can't see his face but that's what he said in a nutshell. I didn't answer the Q because I couldn't gather myself to do so and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Friend flirts with me in front of others but not alone?

I have a guy friend who I was close to for a few months until I realized I might be on the back burner. I pulled back and he has noticed, texting or calling every once in a while to tell me how he misses me and how we...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Ex-girlfriend says she appreciates me?

I told my ex-gf that I appreciate her, and she told me that she appreciates me...what does it mean when a girl says that to you, when it comes to her being my ex-gf? Me and her has been getting much closer lately...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

My boyfriend is obsessed with his brother?

I know most of you are going to say that family first and I can't make him choose. Well I don't want to make him choose, I think his family is awesome. But He ditches plans we make to go hang out with his brother. He...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you ever ignore your crush?

Whether it's because you're too nervous or it's because of something else...do you ever go out of your way to ignore (or avoid / not be around) your crush? Just curious.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shy girls, how do you show affection?

I've been trying to figure out this girl for a while. She is shy and quiet but playful with people she knows. With me she kind of gets nervous and quiet. I have noticed that most of the time we talk we are either making...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

My crush's stares make me uncomfortable - should I forget about him?

This guy, who I have a crush on, was standing there staring at me while his friend was smiling then when I look over to them they both seem to smile and laugh. I was really confused because when I got out of class walking...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Why do guys on FB keep their relationship status empty?

even if they are single or in a relationship they chose to leave their relationship status blank. why is that? i knew a guy who used to have his relationship status as single then he had a girlfriend so he decided to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why have we stopped talking to each other?

I used to have this flirty relationship with a girl for a while, a year or so, but then it kind of stopped. It's been months since we've talked, and we don't even greet each other anymore. Recently, the last time I saw...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should I tell her that I like her?

I like this girl, and I think she could be interested in me too. I'm tired of thinking what if, and wondering what I should do about it. I'd just like to get it out there, and wonder what could come of it if I do?

barlowboy

Xper 6 Age: 40

Why does it seem like every girl I talk to has a boyfriend?

How am I even supposed to attempt to get a girlfriend if there's none available? I'm just about to give up..:-/

HopefulDreamer

Xper 5 Age: 35

How long does it take to get weed out your system?

Last night for some reason I was having an irrational fear about failing the drug test today at the MEPS. I normally hear that it takes about 30 days to clear out the system, maybe even less depending on how often you...

Xx_DRE_xX

Xper 4 Age: 33

Girl's Behavior

She says "I don't want to waste your time"

She- A very busy divorced 35yr old mom of a young child. Me- a much less busy 46yr old divorced dad of a child in college... So at the four month point in a dating relationship, she says "i don't want to waste your...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Shopping & Gifts

Boyfriend is going to a girl's birthday party, and isn't taking me..?

My boyfriend says he isn't sure if he is actually going... but supposedly he is going to another girl's birthday party with some of his friends.. I am not exactly okay with this, especially when he didn't even ask me if...

jenlovee

Xper 6 Age: 34

Fashion & Beauty

Do you like to play with your girlfriend's hair?

My boyfriend can't seem to keep his hands off my hair when we're together. He always absentmindedly plays with it, and says he finds it calming/relaxing. I like it and thinks it's very sweet. But are there any other guys...

ThenThereWas1

Explorer Age: 32

Society & Politics

Why do girls make a "duck-face" when taking photos of themselves?

Duck face girl? Why do girls make a "duck-face" (that exaggerated air-smootch you see in girls online photos) when taking photos of themselves? It's not a very attractive photo to take.

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Society & Politics

Have you ever had a fake relationship status on Facebook?

Have you ever had a fake relationship status on Facebook? Like it said you were in a relationship but weren't? I saw a guy have a relationship status on Facebook set to "in a relationship" didn't say with who...but I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

Would you date a good looking but out of shape guy?

Don't know if I posted this in the correct category so I'm reposting... I'm 24 I've never dated nor have sex with a girl mainly because I'm very self conscience about my body... I grew up where there wasn't any control...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriend always calls me boo. I'm So Concerned.

Hey! So my boyfriend I been dating for about 3 weeks so far and he always calls me boo but I call him babe all the time. It's like only for four times he called me babe and I have problem with that, I always was told if a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it bad if a guy is a hopeless romantic?

do you like or not like hopeless romantics? [question too short]

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

Am I allowed to still kiss my boyfriend with mono?

ok so my docter told me that I may have mono so I got tested and I'm waiting on results note if I do have it he says it came from me being sick with a very icky virus...ok onto my problem so I've been reading and it says...

nattiemcgeek

Xper 5 Age: 30

Shopping & Gifts

Why would my girlfriend not want to see me on her birthday?

is it really a big deal if she wants other plans for her birthday? she wants to go out of town and visit friends and I don't think id be invited. ill be able to see her the day before she goes, so maybe its ok? should...

Anonymous

(30-35)