All Questions

My girlfriend thinks she's not beautiful?

She thinks she's healthy but overweight.. I think she looks great.. But she wouldn't believe me when I told her she was beautiful.. She told she wasn't.. Today I even went out of my comfort zone and told her she's...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Makeup advise for a thin, gaunt face ?

you probably can't tell from my pictures because I'm smiling, but my face is really gaunt, even at this age. It sometime happens to older people, but with me its an issue already. Any makeup advise, and how to cover a...

dandelions100

Xper 5 Age: 37

Other

Did anyone ever consider the double meaning behind Smooth Criminal?

Like instead of Anne Frank what about Princess Anastasia? She was shot along with her family by the secret police. " you been hit by you been shot by a smooth criminal" wouldn't the secret police or just the police in...

Anonymous

(30-35)

He texted the wrong girl?!

Got a text message and I swear it was for a different girl! This guy has been talking to me for awhile and I kind of had an idea that he was chatting to other girls and he was a bit of a player but now I kind of have...

Anonymous

(36-45)

If a girl sits really close to you?

I've been having a study session with a girl and I think she's starting to like me? First study session we kept our distance but I teased her and played with her a lot and she really had fun. The next time she sat next to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Shopping & Gifts

Is a manicure and pedicure a good birthday gift?

Hey my girlfriends birthday is coming up and I was wondering if a manicure/pedicure at one of those nice nail places would be a good gift. I am a high school student so I don't have huge amounts of money but I was...

MaceG

Xper 4 Age: 31

Would you date a slightly feminine straight male?

So this guy I am dating is great. fifth date down and we are suppose to be going out this Friday. He is a little feminine. Not overly feminine. but just more than what I am used to. For example, he crosses his legs...

ltmcneill

Xper 6 Age: 41

Flirting

What qualifies as leading someone on?

a person liked you and you like them back but down the line you stop liking them because you realize they're more like a friend would you say that is leading someone on or if someone liked you and you pretended to like...

karenirving307

Xper 6 Age: 33

When do you decide to stop seeing other people and go for one?

Let me clarify. You're single, you're flirting with several people, maybe going on dates with a few, but nothing serious. Maybe you're hooking up with someone, but you both know it's not going to go anywhere. Then you...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why are women so needy and clingy?

Its a simple question, so feel free to debate it and don't be afraid to ask me any questions in relation to this.

frustrated76

Xper 5 Age: 49

Do you think that laziness is a turn off?

Girls and guys! Is laziness a turn off?

answermethis20

Xper 3 Age: 31

Society & Politics

Why do girls take pictures of their feet/legs?

So my girlfriend went on a trip to Mexico (lucky her) and on the Facebook she posted a bunch of pictures of her feet in the sand. Past summer at another beach she did the same thing with her friends do they think its...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

Are vegans 'high maintenance'?

I've been told I'm high maintenance because I'm a vegan. I don't get why because I'm really independent when I shop and Make my own food, I don't rely on other people to do it for me. I also don't push other people to go...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Sending a flower via text message - sweet or corny

My guy friends and I were hitting up the bars the other night, and one of them met a girl and was chatting her up at one place we went to. They seemed to get along OK but I didn't pay too much attention. The next day us...

Shpongolia

Yoda Age: 41

Break Up & Divorce

Should I confront my ex about lying?

I talk with my ex all the time. I am still in love with her and trying to get her back, but she constantly lies to me. She has an online blog that she writes anonymously but she knows I know what it is. The blog outlines...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do guys like to wear pants without underwear?

i have seen many boys in shorts and observed that they didn't wear underwear inside.similarly do boys not wear underwear when they wear pants?

Renus582

Xper 5 Age: 33

What makes me unapproachable to ask out?

So I consider myself a strong woman with less drama then most. I just want to know that a guy loves me I don't care if he hang out with his boys or even go to strip club. Yet I'm single! Most guys get the...

bigbaby21

Xper 5 Age: 33

Is 140 pounds and 5'0 bad?

i weigh 140 pounds im 5'0 how much should I lose ? Do I HAVE to be 100 pounds , someone told me that's the weight I should be.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do shy nerdy guys, date outgoing girls?

If you're the " shy " kinda nerdy type - how much would it bother you to have a girlfriend who is pretty attractive, and outgoing? You guys have a lot in common, like she can settle down and enjoy your company, but she...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What kind of eye contact am I looking for at bars?

I don't go clubbing or bar hopping much, that's not how I usually meet women. But I'm starting to do it more so that I get more comfortable in those environments. Tonight I had a few looks from some girls at the bar I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

If girls teases me a lot, what does it mean?

I have noticed a trend lately. A lot of girls I know seem to like to tease me playfully. Not even my male friends do that, they seem to "respect" me a lot, but girls are a different thing. I know its normal to have some...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why would a guy get a "tramp stamp" tattoo?

I was at a party last night, and while I was looking for my friend, I walked in on 2 people going at it... The guy had a tramp stamp tat across the small of his back.. I can't for the life of me figure out why a guy...

Betwyn

Guru Age: 35

He said he regrets kissing me

I kissed this guy and he then told our mutual friend he regretted it. He said it was nothing personal, just that he didn't enjoy what we did. He said he also regrets it because of how awkward it has made things. As far...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Guys, how do you go about "wowing" a girl?

I'm curious as to what the difference is between a guy treating a girl with respect, always picking up the tab or "providing" whenever the situation calls for it, making sure she is comfortable or getting only the best...

sailorgurl1109

Xper 5 Age: 37

What are some sexy things I can do on skype with my boyfriend?

So I'm in a long distance relationship and my boyfriend and I video chat on skype every night. Recently he has been very tired because he's been working a lot, so he keeps falling asleep on me. Well I've been really...

trueheart-

Xper 5 Age: 34

Girls: If a guy you liked, sent you a blank text.. How would you react?

It could have been an accident or unintentional, but would you text back regardless?.

Anonymous

(36-45)

What do girls mean when they say "all men are pigs"?

What is that supposed to mean? What does it mean that guys are pigs?

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when a girl says she doesn't give out her number?

Okay so after a little time talking to this girl a little bit (whom I see at this place I frequent on Saturday nights), mainly just asking her how her week was things like that. I finally decided to ask for her number...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

Will running on the treadmill at 5.4 MPH for 30 min a day be effective for weight loss?

because I'm so done and tired after this usually. but I feel like I accomplished nothing when I leave the gym :/ trying to lose 5-10 lbs

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to escalate with a shy girl?

We've known each other for a couple years, but we haven't really talked until recently. We were in the same class a couple years ago and she laughed at most things I said, but since then we haven't interacted because,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

Why do many women like to watch men fight/wrestle?

When I was at school and there was a fight it was often the girls who were the first on the scene to watch and to shout and scream. And at wrestling matches it is often the women who are ringside and who get the most...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Ex boyfriend asked if I had a bf. Why?

What should I do? I want to get back together... but he was the one who dumped me so I thought I'd ask him why he was asking before saying anything,. I'm single. but he was like you got a new boyfriend huh? and I asked...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, do you care about a girl's voice? could that be a turn off ?

My voice is basically my only insecurity. I somehow sound like a little girl, I'm 20 but I don't speak loud or anything and people hardly imagine I can shout lol but believe me I can Plus that's not a nice insecurity to...

Anonymous

(30-35)