All Questions

I fell in love with an illusion. What should I do?

I fell in love with someone who I believe was perfect for me. The relationship ended because of long-distance issues but we're still friends and we still talk occasionally. I still love him and I still love talking to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Why do we argue so much when we're just friends with benefits?

he was my friend with benefits since 2009 till 2011 we've always been off and on with our friendship because he always does something to piss me off or that he knows is wrong throughout the years I have tried to pursue a...

angelface10

Xper 5 Age: 33

Guys if a woman has a sexy flat stomach but small boobs?

is it less attractive than someone without a perfectly sexy stomach but has big boobs? examples: link link

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does my ex husband avoid eye contact and brings up past?

whenever I see my ex he won't look at me and whenever we talk he brings up the fact that I chose another man over him, no matter what were talking about he works that in. ?( he abused me for years, I finally found a way out.)

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

What is the diffrence between fat & fluffy?

My nephew says he's Fluffy and I say he's fat. same diff?

Tickling_Pickles

Xper 5 Age: 34

Do guys just like attention from girls for no reason?

I often wonder if there are just two types of men out there. Ones who once they are in a relationship they are completely contempt with their one girl and stop talking to any other girls either completely or not as much...

StacieBoBacey

Xper 5 Age: 40

He keeps going back to his ex... What do I do?

Ive been talking to this guy for awhile. He would tell me the problems by the way him & his girl. Well they broke up and we hung out, He asked me on a date, went to dinner and a movie. We had a great time every time we...

SMD92

Xper 5 Age: 34

Family & Friends

My boyfriend's friends seem to really like me but they keep teasing him in my presence... why?

I've hung out with them a couple times, including once when my boyfriend wasn't even there. A friend of his in particular keeps teasing my boyfriend by mentioning embarrassing stuff about him when I'm there (ex: failure...

Ingrid422

Guru Age: 33

Shopping & Gifts

My boyfriend is going to a strip club for his 21st birthday!

Idk how I feel about this...I don't really trust my boyfriend he's cheated before and I gave him a second chance. There's nothing I can do to stop him he already told me that. He always does what he wants you know? He...

twiggysauris-rex

Xper 5 Age: 34

I need a subtle way of asking out my ex boss!

I worked with him for 2 years, and most of the time it was just the 2 of us on shift. Sometimes I was terrified on him, and other times I enjoyed being at work with him because he made me laugh. I wasn't attracted to...

kisi85

Xper 6 Age: 40

Relationships

My boyfriend is making excuses NOT to see me? GUYS HELP

so my boyfriend and I just started our long distance relationship because I'm moving an hour away for college. we agreed nothing was wrong about having one as long as neither of us give up, and he said he wasn't. I said...

supervixxen

Xper 6 Age: 33

Other

When someone asks what's your background?

What do they want to know? Is it where your parents were born / come from or your ethnicity (where your oldest ancestor comes from) E.g. Over several generations my family had "begun" in Italy, migrated to south America...

naturally

Xper 7 Age: 33

Other

Why white women hate Asian and Latina girls?

for example like this...lol "I am a white woman . White women have problem losing a lot of good white men to other cultures. I lived in California and in a lot of areas Asian and latin women and many are very pretty...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Going with crush to cinema- how do I act about it?

Well basically I asked the girl I really like to the cinema and I let her choose the film and she said she would meet me near the cinema we were going to so I just agreed. So on Sunday I'm meant to be going to watch this...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys? What is it about sassy girls that guys like so much?

my daughter, who is 15, asked me this the other day. she was commenting that her friend, who's she feels is pretty and really shy and just a really nice all around person, can't get a decent boyfriend to treat her...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Why do guys stare at girls legs?

When I go to school I either wear shorts or skinny jeans and this one guys, all he does he stare at my legs. Why does he do this?

rebecca123

Xper 5 Age: 33

Do girls like guys to be straight forward?

A few days ago, I was at the mall with a lady friend hanging out. We went to get some pretzels, and the cashier was a cute mexican-American girl; she had a very bubbly personality, which I think is very attractive. Well...

subatomicparticle

Xper 3 Age: 39

What do you think about a guy that cries himself to sleep?

Would you think that it is pathetic? Of course I don't talk about these kind of things with anyone, I won't admit it at least. What are your opinions about a guy that does this sometimes, when he feels pretty bad. :(

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Why are my boyfriends friends so rude?

I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 21/2 years. We love each other a lot and hope to marry within the next couple of years. Since the beginning of our relationship meetings with his friends and us as a couple haven't...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

My boyfriend's family smokes pot regularly?

I love my boyfriend very much. He's the first guy I've ever dated that I care enough about to see a real future with. I knew he smoked pot a ton when he was younger (he's 21) now, and that he smokes like once a month with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Sitting with knees up?

I was talking to this girl and she was sitting with her knees pointing up, her feet were on what she is sitting on, and her legs are together. Almost like she was curled up...if she moved her face a forward it would be...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My ex boyfriend is giving me mixed signals. help!!

My ex broke things off with us three weeks ago. I have done evrything. Not called him. Not beg him back, he said he has been seeing someone already. We were doing amazing then one day he sais he needed to back away and...

Rhodna

Xper 4 Age: 55

How pretty is a rating 7.5-8 girl?

Often when someone rates me on Facebook I often get a 7-7.5 and 8's about how pretty is that. Is that pretty,really pretty,or gorgous?

oreo23a

Xper 3 Age: 30

What's so attractive about long legs...? Why do you find them attractive?

Basically self explanatory. Not complaining, or saying they AREN'T attractive. Coming from a woman who is SIX FEET tall, its a decent question to ask, no? :) Be friendly now!

gbutts120

Xper 3 Age: 31

Me and my girlfriend took a break, she slept with someone, now I can't seem to love her.

Title is basically it. She was taking me for granted for a while, really treating me like crap. we broke up, came back to me asking to get back together, said she'd change, etc, I was overjoyed. I later found out she...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Wearing a low cut top on a first date during the day?

Is this OK or will it give the (wrong) impression that I'm slutty? I would probably wear it with skinny jeans, uggs and a cardigan or something. It's just cos I'm a 32D so I don't know if it's a bit much. I feel like it's...

Anonymous

(30-35)

So a girl gives you her number, what does it mean?

So I just got this girls number after talking to her for about an hour. We were laughing and she was talking a ton. Like I started the convo but she talked for 80% of the time. If there was ever a silence, she would say...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Marriage & Weddings

My best friend wants to marry me

I have a best guy friend that I grew up with but you can tell we have feelings for each other. We love each others' family and have so much fun together. We ended up going to the same college and he plays baseball there....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Would you give a girl your hoodie?

i was just curious. would you or have you ever given your hoodie to you girlfriend. say you two were alone at her or your house and she's a bit cold. a) would you like it if she wears it. b) and why?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, does the "no contact" rule work on men, making you want us more?

I have been told that if things are uncertain in a relationship (however you define it) It's best for the girl to avoid communication and definitely not see the guy for at least a month in order for them to realize that...

StacieBoBacey

Xper 5 Age: 40

Society & Politics

Tarot readings and psychics - do they really product the future?

I have been to many of them and they all are coming out with similar results when it comes to love and career!? please tell me your personal experiences and advice :)

Anonymous

(36-45)