All Questions

How many pairs of black boots are too many pairs?

How many pairs of black boots are too many pairs? I own 5 pairs of black boots, and most of them are quite different...is that too many?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Ex messaged me and called me 'sweetheart'. How much should I read into this?

I haven't spoken to my ex for a long time, and then last night he messaged me and called me 'sweetheart'. It was just a simple message asking how I was. I know I'm probably jumping to conclusions about this, but what do...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why don't I ever get asked out?

I am not asking this question to sound conceded at all, but I really don't understand why I never get asked out on dates or anything. Lots of people tell me how gorgeous I am and that I'm funny and all that stuff, but I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do you like your crush?

I like my crush because he's really funny/goofy & so adorable :) not to mention really cute with his blue eyes.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting at a football game! any hints I need some help!!!!

so I go to all the football games and my crush is always there and I'm not sure like what things I could do to flirt with him and show him that I'm in to him any hints I need some help!

Anonymous

(30-35)

What are some dates for someone with a broken foot?

The girl I'm asking out recently fractured her foot and is in crutches. When I take girls on dates I almost always do the same first date: ice skating then a romantic walk around the lake. This is not ideal. Also, I...

Kevin1a

Xper 5 Age: 38

Guys: why does my best guy friend keeps touching my legs?

So lately my best guy friend started to touch my legs and highs during class. When he began to do it he was sort of shy and quick, now his hand is on my leg for the rest of the class. The thing is that when he does it he:...

Girl8D

Xper 3 Age: 32

Dating

My ex called me late at night..

my ex and I broke up almost 2 months ago after an on and off relationship that lasted a year and a half. for the first month we broke up I tried contacting her but she was really angry with me whenever I tried to(mistake...

suavaye

Xper 6 Age: 35

Am I a freak magnet?

It seems that the guys I like never like me back. I don't think I look too bad, and the guys I like are perfect gentlemen... I am a traditional sort of girl (never been kissed, and I'm saving it for my wedding day <3)...

DaniJ

Yoda Age: 32

Society & Politics

Do guys like it when girls smile at them?

Sometimes I like to smile at people, especially guys, since usually I don't have the guts to go up and talk to them. But I don't know why sometimes they just look at me, and don't smile back very often. My friend and I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does my teacher like me more than a student?

Hey (: Here's a little background between my teacher & I. I'm 17, & he's 27. I had him my sophomore year, & then again my junior year. I'm a senior now but I don't have him as my teacher. If you're wondering yes I do...

WaitingForYesterday

Xper 5 Age: 32

What fascinates you most about human behavior?

There are 3 major things that fascinate me about humans; one: the fact that war never ends, we simply cannot seem to be able to escape it. someone is always at war with someone else, and I don't see this changing any...

sikoo31

Xper 3 Age: 35

Break Up & Divorce

Do you guys ever feel guilty or regret being a jerk (especially at the end) to an ex?

I was nothing but fun and cute and adored him. He is dating someone else now, yet still led me on. In the end he was a jerk. Do guys ever feel any sense of remorse in doing that? Any guilt? Or are you desensitized and are...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

How do shy girls flirt?

Hey, I was wondering how shy girls flirt with guys they might be interested in? Are they more distant, sending mixed signals?

DDog101

Xper 5 Age: 35

Marriage material vs slut ?

Often I hear guys put girls into two categories: girls to have fun with and girls to marry. Why these stupid assumptions? You can have fun with a classy girl. The only difference is that you have to put a bit of effort...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Coworker holding my hand?

The other day my co worker and I were just shooting the breeze when he got up from his chair and came to my side of the table and took my hand in his, then held it while still talking to me. maybe I should know what it...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

How can you tell a guy genuinely cares about a girl?

When and how can you tell/ know he cares about you if he won't say it?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys: what do you think about girls wearing baseball caps?

do you think it looks cute? or is it unattractive? I'm more of a sporty person as to how I dress and stuff, I'm 16, so I just wanna know what you would think if a girl was wearing a yankee cap or themed cap for a college...

tpacelli

Xper 5 Age: 32

Should I wear my hair curly or straight? I want to look cute for my crush (:

I'll see him in class tomorrow. Should I wear my hair curly or straight? My hair is naturally curly (reaches a little past my shoulders) and when I straighten in, it ends up being 3 inches longer. What's cuter/prettier,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl having dreams about me and telling me about them?

First dream- She said she was at a birthday party and that no one was talking to her. Then I came and started talking to her and that we started laughing with each other and having fun. Second dream- She was at a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I like Arab guys, but it seems like they only want white girls. What's up with that!?

I even have a Muslim friend from Pakistan who feels that most Arab guys just chase after white girls. What's up with that!? >:( Why is it that people seem to always be chasing after white girls when in reality, they tend...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

My girlfriend hit me in the face. Should I make it into a big deal or should I just let it go?

Ok so my girlfriend was having a really really bad day. The electric company threatened to shut off the electricity because they said her check didn't go through. Then she had a really bad day at work and when she go off...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What are some good walking/running shoes to get?

I love converse all-stars, but they're causing some foot/leg/back problems because I wear them a lot and I also walk/run a lot, and they don't offer any support. What are some good, stylish shoes that would give me good...

shirkdeio

Xper 6 Age: 34

Society & Politics

Girls, what would you do if a random guy said "hey" on Facebook?

You two have never met and and only have a few mutual friends? Also please list your age and any stories you know of that something like this has happened.

Anonymous

(36-45)

My girlfriend is so stubborn and won't give in. Does that mean she doesn't care?

Whenever we have an argument she will not give in or call or anything, coming from a girl that says I'm her life and she loves me so much.. does this mean she doesn't care , I knw she's stubborn but I've never had this...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do boys like bows on girls?

I'm curious if boys like bows on girls. I think they do, bows are cute and feminine, a little bow on a hairband or stuck on a clip in a girls hair, what do boys think of these things, matched with a pretty dress, in a 21...

lucyskala

Xper 4 Age: 36

Relationships

Men in your late thirties: would you ever consider dating an 18-year-old woman?

Men in your 30s: would you ever consider dating an 18-year-old woman? And even if you aren't a man in your 30s, what would you think if an 18-year-old were to date a man who was say, 38? I know all circumstances are...

ThenThereWas1

Explorer Age: 32

A question about sleeping pills!!!

are there any sleeping pills out there that you don't become dependent on? I have had issues with sleeping for a couple years now and it takes me hours and hours to fall asleep... I toss I turn , I start shaking (and I'm...

Catie101

Yoda Age: 34

Girls - Do you like it when guys wear pink?

A straight guy that is. Yes or no, and why? (question too short)

Anonymous

(36-45)

Opinion on tank tops?

So I will change my profile pic for a couple days. What is your opinion on the tank top I'm wearing? I think it looks cool, but I've recently heard that girls assume any guy wearing a tank top is gay. Is that true?

GodzillaMan

Xper 5 Age: 33

A guy asked me out but I said no. Now I'm thinking of asking him out. Yes/No?

A guy asked me out on a date about a month ago, but I said no because I had other plans. Now I'm thinking of asking him out since he never tried to ask me out a second time. Is that a good idea? Or is it bad because he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

Do you think physical fitness is attractive?

It doesn't even have to be big muscles, just someone who is fit and healthy does it make them more attractive to you? Why or why not? by the way muscles are not the amin thing but are not excluded

Poptartz

Xper 3 Age: 34

Do girls like guys to wear boxers or boxer briefs?

i hope you don't get boxer briefs confused with briefs. they are NOT nut-huggers

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girlfriend says she is confused, doesn't know what she wants or wants to do. What does this mean?

I've been dating this girl for a little more than 4 months, she is one 30 and we had been taking things very slow from the beginning. However in the last month things started picking up and we were spending more time...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do you ask out the pastor's daughter?

How do you ask out the pastors daughter? We both like each other, just a matter of asking her dad, how do I do it? She's worth it.:)

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, why don't white guys try to flirt with me?

When I go out, only black and Hispanics flirt with me. White guys don't even look at me. Don't get me wrong, I don't have a type, I like all types. The thing I don't understand is why don't white guys try to flirt with...

MissYessi

Xper 5 Age: 32

Having naturally dark eyelids? Good or not?

Hi, I am pale but I have naturally dark eyelids. My eyes are very big and a bit deep set which means they have a lot of natural definition. When I scrub off all my makeup, my eyelids have a naturally brownish copperish...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I have a crush on an apartment janitor, what should I do?

for a while, there is this much older woman who cleans the halls of the apartment complex I live in. she also lives above me. every time she see me, she always smiles and waves at me. I can be almost a block away and she...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Guys - why do you cut off all contact following a relationship?

Why do most guys cut off all contact with their exes? My boyfriend just broke up with me and he said we were in love but we had 'grown apart' in the time span of 1-2 weeks. He was really sad about it too but stressed out...

Anonymous

(30-35)