He has girlfriend but wants to cuddle and hang a lot?

Having been in a long distance relationship before, I think I know what he's doing. Sometimes I found myself wanting to fill the gap of the person I missed, my head didn't care who it was. He wants a cuddle buddy. I always stopped myself from thinking this stuff, but you are practically handing it him on a plate. Tbh I think, if you realized you were just like a close friend to him and he wanted to cuddle with you and watch films and stuff together, and you wanted to be like that with him, it's pretty safe. But if his girlfriend ever moved closer, you won't see him again. If you notice, he mentions his girlfriend so as to stop himself from looking guilty. He doesn't want to appear as a cheat.
He is missing the physical intimacy of a relationship...imo this is why long distance relationships are doomed to failure, at least for me. I couldn't handle being with someone without the physicality, because I'm an intimate person.
I would ask him if he wants to continue his long distance relationship since he cannot take the lack of physical intimacy...then take it from there.
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