All Questions

If you love someone, let them go?

We have all heard the expression "If you love someone set them free. If they come back they were always yours, if not they never were to begin with." I don't entirely understand this expression and I need someone out...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Getting weak in the knees over my ex?

After my ex dumped me I cut off all contact with her and started doing my own thing again. A month went by, I got a new (better) job, was feeling great, having fun with friends and my hobbies, the entire break up...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What to do when a girl says you're cute?

Lately when I'm at events I have been noticing more girls are calling me cute. Should I say thank you or what should I do?

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a girl lets her emotions out in front of you?

This girl has a very strong personality, at least with me. She is very nice and friendly to people but when it comes to the matter of me, she can be a cold and distant and extremely mature and rarely shows me a playful...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

He won't date me because I dated his friend?

I've seen this guy looking at me like he really likes me for a while now. And he flirts with me when we're alone and we've gotten very close to getting intimate but it's always like something is holding him back. Well I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why does my coworker tease me so much?

Recently I started working a little bit in a new department. there's this girl who I've talked to a few times but its just chit chat. Recently she has been giving me a LOT of "crap" when we are working together (calling...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is stripping at the strip club cheating if you have a boyfriend of 5 years?

I went to the strip club on Monday for my first time, I drank a bit, then decided I wanted to try myself! I talked to the manager and he was up for it! So I changed and went in for my three songs. I made $101! I had a...

Thegoodbadgirl

Xper 5 Age: 36

Fat girls who have belly button rings?

People often tell me that I should get a belly button piercing and that I have a good stomach for it. (I have a very flat toned stomach because I've been an athlete my whole life) but I cannot get it pierced due to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does my ex keep driving by my house? He broke up with me.

We dated for 5 months until a month ago. I broke up with him because he kept blowing me off. He begged for me to take him back saying that he would change his ways. He did for awhile until last weekend when he again blew...

chloe2190

Xper 5 Age: 35

Is "street smart" the same as common sense? or are they different?

People talk about being "book smart" or "street smart" but do they mean basically having common sense when it comes to "street smart" or is that something different? do you think there are various levels of "having...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Shopping & Gifts

Why are women in America so arrogant?

i grew up here in America all my life and all my life I have noticed this. when I visit my native country, I noticed that women their are a lot more humbled, compassionate and don't mind giving their men unconditional...

CasaNorba

Guru Age: 39

When a girl is on the fence / cool

So I am going to be catching up with a girl friend for lunch. Chances are this girl that seems to like me (on the fence) I am interested in is going to see this. so what would she think if this girl on the fence saw me...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

If a guy says we should hang out sometime.. does he really mean it?

t was my last day at work and he said we should hang out sometime, like go over to his place, or something then in a card my work gave me he wrote I'm sure I will be seeing you during the summer.. it been a few days.. so...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I am 107 lbs and 5'7". I still think I need to lose weight. Is this wrong?

my body is skinny and I know that. but - my stomach is not. it protrudes from my body, I can pinch much more than an inch, when I sit down I get fat rolls, etc. I have been doing an hour on the treadmill every day along...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Guys, is ''grabbing a beer'' a date?

If your friends/co workers/whatever and you've flirted - does asking her to ''grab a beer sometime'' make a date to you?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is being laid-back a masculine trait?

For some reason I attract a lot of girls (lesbian and bi women), and I can't attract guys to say my life yet I'm straight. I always wondered why this happen. I am a very beautiful girl, thin but with some serious...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shopping & Gifts

Guys, how would you react if your girlfriend lost the promise ring you got her?

So before my boyfriend left for basic training he got me this $200 promise ring. Keep in mind when he left we had only been together for 2 months. I live in Hawaii so when I went to the beach I took off the ring and put...

haynhpugrl

Xper 5 Age: 34

Other

Is using your period (cramps etc..) a valid excuse of getting out of gym class?

Just something I saw on a show the other day that got me thinking

the90swerethebest

Xper 3 Age: 37

Health & Fitness

How do you tell your boyfriend/girlfriend that they have nits/headlice?

So guys, girls. How do/did you tell them without hurting their feelings, making them upset or making them angry at you? any tips? any advice?

doobey1234

Xper 5 Age: 31

For those who use sunbeds, do you go naked?

I don't want a sunbed debate or their dangers as I am aware. I only us them a few times a year. Basically when using them do you go baked? Or do you wear underwear?

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do you respond to a girl who is nice but aloof?

Scenario: you meet a girl you find very attractive physically (in a stunning / unconventional way) she is polite, isn't stuck-up or vain, but she never really talks about herself, she seems a bit detached, maybe...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do guys like girls with DSL's?

Well big full lips? I'm black and some people say I have great lips and others say "DANG YOU GOT SOME DSLs" lol? is that bad?

Katypurry

Xper 5 Age: 33

Family & Friends

How can I stop my friend from sleeping around?

Me and my best friend on the vacation right now. My best friend is sleeping around. Back home she was a shy girl and now she just went wild. Some of these men were as old as 39..

Anonymous

(30-35)

My boyfriend cried in front of me? sort of

we had a argument about him not trusting me and he had hurt my feelings so I started crying and I told him to leave me alone and I wished I never met him and that I didn't wanna see him ever again but I was just talking...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How bad is it to purge once or twice a month

i used to have anorexia about 5 years ago and now I go though periods where I purge. its never more than 1000 calories once or twice a month. i sort of don't think its a big deal to throw up once a month, can't be doing...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, What type of girl makes you melt?

for example, A guy to be nice, sweet, charming, funny, gentlemen, and caring for a girl, etc... To be our hero/prince, saving us from having a bad day or what ever. Makes us, girls, melt. When a guy shows interest, and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Boyfriend spends too much time with baby mama. What should I do?

We've been going out for a week now. I just feel like he spends too much time with his baby mama. I understand they have a kid together but does he need to spend time with her too. I'm happy he taking responsibility for...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do I make the transition from cute to sexy?

Im told by every girl I'm cute. What can I do to transition to sexy. Is it what I wear? Body? What is it?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Love ya VS. I love you... do they mean different things coming from a guy?

There's a guy I've been talking to for a couple weeks, and he thinks he's falling in love with me, but I know it's way too soon since we haven't even been together in person yet. Tonight he said "love ya" before he signed...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do guys act so erratic after break ups?

Specifically, when THEY initiated the break up? I'd get it if they were broken up with, but to see such confusing, mixed behavior from them when THEY ended it gets a little baffling. Some friends and I were discussing...

candlewax

Yoda Age: 43

Guys, when you are busy, stressed, or feel low about your work/job/school, do you want time alone?

Guys, when you are busy, stressed, or feel low about your work/job/school, do you want time alone OR do you want to spend time with a girl you love? I've been dating a guy for 2 months and when something work related...

Anonymous

(36-45)

If a guy invites you to a movie, is it a date?

Is a movie a date? Question says it all.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does history repeat itself in relationships?

Suppose you break up because he is not ready for a serious relationship. A year later, he wants to get back together, and is ready for a serious relationship. You still love him, and would like to accept his offer... What...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What do you talk about while slow dancing?

There's a dance coming up and whenever I dance with someone it's just awkward silence... I need a question or anything just to start a short convo :)

Cocoapuffs102

Xper 5 Age: 32