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Guys - The "Nice Girl"

So I'm kind of "the nice girl" - I treat others nice, I'm sweet, I don't dress provacative or swear or drink or do drugs. I'm smart, innocent, Haven't had sex, etc. whats weird to me is, a lot of the "bad boys" like me....

Anonymous

(30-35)

I don't want him to be the rebound guy. Should I go for it?

I just broke up with my boyfriend a few days ago. Things weren't working out, hasn't been for a long time. There's this other guy, he has waited for me about 4 years now. I just found out about it. I like him a lot, but I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Do all girls have scented candles around?

Seems like such a woman thing to do lol. I don''t think I've ever gone to a girls place without a scented candle somewhere! So what's the deal yo?

Kain6th

Xper 4 Age: 42

No third date after two good dates. Should I call her?

So I went on a date with a girl on Wednesday. The date went well and she did mentioned that she is free coming weekend. She also texted me that she had a good time and would love to hangout again. I also texted her that...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why did my crush guy avoid looking at me?

The other day I was sitting in Starbucks when I casually look up to see my crush who I haven't seen in two years sitting there on the table opposite me with a work colleague. I kept my head down reading. He got up several...

Lala29

Xper 5 Age: 45

How do you feel about dating a girl that is much richer than you?

Just wondering... there is this Russian girl in my university, and we hanged out once and it went pretty well. I flirt with her on fb occasionally. The only thing is that I recently noticed she is really rich. Like she is...

NothingGoldCanStay

Xper 3 Age: 36

My boyfriend of 2.5 months now speaks in a somewhat crass verbage and I was just wondering if this is normal?

guy speak... Instead of saying he wants to make love to me he said I want to put my d*ck in you or f*ck u... But otherwise he is very loving and very attentive. Also he wants to know all of my business where...

theville

Xper 6 Age: 61

Men with thin lips, would you rather kiss a woman with full lips or lips your size?

I have full lips but the guy I like has thin lips. I'm afraid that if I kiss him it would be awkward like as though I were devouring him. So, all the guys with thin lips, would you prefer lips a little fuller than yours,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

If I touch guys in clubs while talking/dancing, will they think I want to get laid?

I've started to run my hands over a guy's (upper) body while dancing or just touching guys casually and get really close to them while talking, because I really like their bodies lol I always do what I feel like doing...

cenicienta

Xper 3 Age: 35

Health & Fitness

How long should I wait after drinking to take cold medicine?

I have a cold, but I went out with friends after work. I only drank half of a Crown and water and then half of a beer, which isn't much at all. Then, I got home and realized I might want to take cold medicine before I go...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Did I ruin my chances by coming on too strong?

Hey, so I had a drunken "one night stand" with an acquaintance a while ago. I never got his number but he got mine and made sure I had it the next day. I told him it was fun and we should do it again, he agreed. I then...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when a guy calls you 'babe' or 'baby'?

personally I think he either forget my name or doesn't know how to pronounce it. and if it is that he forgot it how do I bring it up? when we met we were both drunk and since that day whether he calls or text he calls me...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Are calves attractive on men?

I've been training in Vibram Five-Fingered toe shoes for the past 5 months and I've noticed the biggest difference besides my running form and foot flexibility is that my calves have improved tremendously. Definition is...

MrEM4N

Explorer Age: 37

Cleavage/tight shirts: how much is too much?

I love "the girls" and I like to dress to show them off a little. I don't want to come off as trashy though. Is there a sexy but classy way to do it?

Alouette

Xper 4 Age: 35

Do I miss him or the attention?

I met this guy and we hit it off great. We kind of rushed into things so before you knew it, we were together. We thought we had a lot in common but turns out it was just little things that really didn't matter. He...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you look down on people who have less of an education than you?

Like you got a phd or a college degree, do you look down on someone who only got a high school diploma and worked retail? Why or why not?

Kain6th

Xper 4 Age: 42

Could you date a racist or homophobe?

Racist meaning he/she hates races other than their own, believes races other than theirs is inferior, discriminates towards those of different race and even talks about their hate openly, enough to where they'd pass it on...

peace-love-couture

Yoda Age: 32

What's college dating going to be like for a black chick?

So I'll be going to either a UC or CSU in 2013..I might try to save $ by going to a community college then transfer but I really wana live on campus so I can leave home. I may live in California but guys still seem...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are stretched ears attractive/unattractive?

I started stretching my ears before summer started. I know some people like them, but a lot of people also find them unattractive. I have always found piercings/gauges attractive and I don't plan on taking mine out any...

yixingxu13

Xper 3 Age: 31

Through text, why does she keep saying "lol" does she not like me forreal

We are cool, in my dorm this girl gets mad that I don't visit her as often as she would like, one time she said that I need to visit her more than anybody else. I know this chick isn't a natural flirter and she's not...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Should I ask an ex girlfriend to hang out again?

So for full details on my situation, you can look at my very first question. To save you guys time though, I'll summarize and just say that my ex and I were going out for over a year from freshman to sophomore year in...

huck13

Xper 5 Age: 31

My boyfriend has PTSD. How can I help him?

Last night he got a little drunk and he told me his life story (which he apparently tells no one!). I already knew he has PTSD, but now I know why (child abuse, army experiences, etc). I feel like I helped at least a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

He says he likes me but isn't ready for relationship...does that make sense?

Been hanging out for a month, and he acts like he's really into me because he texts and calls almost everyday and he's always around...but I've been confused because he hasn't asked me out on a real date. He told me the...

chloed

Xper 6 Age: 43

I feel so depressed and I don't value life, she was all I had for more than 7 years, please help me.

well here is the story. We broke up 2 months ago, it got really bad with her and her family and she went with a rebound right away. She's with another guy now. Well I had tickets for a concert schedule for last week. She...

brokenheart0703

Xper 5 Age: 41

What size do I wear if a 34D is too small, but a 34DD is too big?

So my boobs decided to grow enough to spill out of a 34D bra, but not enough to completely fill out a 34DD bra, which is a pain in the ass. The band size is fine, but the cups are the problem. Do they make like half...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Did she use me as rebound?

Hi, my story as I understand it. I met a girl, over a dating side. Pretty soon she told me about her past relationship, that got broken about 6 month we first met. She told me a lot about it, how long this rs was going on...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Texting crush over break?

I've only texted this guy once and I talk to him some at school. Is it weird to randomly text him without a reason? Would it be OK to text him something like "How's your break going?" or do you have any other ideas for a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Moving on from my ex, and now she's trying to make my life miserable?

I recently went through a very difficult break-up. It's been a few months and I'm slowly getting to the point where I'm moving on from the relationship. I'm not entirely over her, but I'm enjoying being single again....

Anonymous

(36-45)

How long before my boyfriend resents that he's in better shape than I am?

I wasn't in my top shape before we've started dating, and now I've gained about 7 lbs on top of that. We eat out way more than I did. He works out all the time and has an awesome body, whereas I'm about 5'6, 137. I've...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How Small is too Small for a Guy

I'm a 22 year old guy 5'5" and 145 lbs. I'm very athletic and my girl friends call me handsome all the time, but when I go to bars or clubs it seems like girls look right through me. Am I just too small to them to offer...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

My ex girlfriend wants to be with me again even after getting pregnant with another guy's baby?

About a couple of months ago I broke up with my girlfriend, she got another boyfriend (who is known for sleeping with a lot of women), slept with him, got pregnant, and broke up with with him. Now she wants to be my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Debating my "FWB" situation ... Do I speak up or just walk away?

Met him almost 5mos ago through my bro-n-law, started talking, hung out a couple weeks later & its been physical ever since. I've been open, telling him I like him, wanna get to know him better & he gave me his busy...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

If a girl asks who you like?

if a girl ask you who you like is that a sign either they or one of their friends likes you

Anonymous

(30-35)