All Questions

Why do I only attract creeps!?

Seriously, the only people who even try to approach me are creepers! Just the other day, a guy I kinda knew from school chatted me on FB. At first it was normal and it seemed like he was going to ask me out and then he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

A girl keeps asking me out for a drink. The problem is, I don't know what she wants and if I should accept.

A girl I went to college with keeps asking me out for a drink. We both finished college last spring. During these college years, we talked in real life and chatted online a little, and that's all. I suppose I could claim...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do you consider yourself mysterious?

A mysterious person is someone who is difficult or impossible to understand, explain, or identify. Do you consider yourself mysterious? Do your friends and/or family describe you with that word? If yes, what is...

knowmeyourself

Master Age: 39

Why am I afraid of fighting?

I'm 21 considered to be a big guy, 6'2 and over 250 lbs. I NEVER pick fights unlike some of my friends I've only been in a few minor scuffles in my life when I was much younger. I have never truly punched anyone or have...

Kellen21

Xper 5 Age: 35

Fashion & Beauty

Cute guys vs. hot guys?

This question is for girls: when you refer to guys as "cute" or "hot," what physical features and/or aspects of their personalities determine which of those two categories they fit into, and which of the two do you...

mlrock

Xper 6 Age: 35

Other

Is There A Race/Ethnicity You Find Most Attractive?

Is there any specific race or ethnicity you find most attractive? For me, it's Asian(middle east/eastern Asia) women & multiracial women(Latinas, biracial) I love how exotic Asian women are; dark hair, almond eyes and...

peace-love-couture

Yoda Age: 32

Who do you think is prettier Selena Gomez or Miley Cyrus?

Who do you think is prettier Selena Gomez or Miley Cyrus? I ask this because a lot of people on yu seem to think selana is copying miley whhic I don't agree with because Selena is waaay prettier! do you guys agree?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

How much weight can I lose in 25 weeks?

It's all in the question. How much weight can I lose in 25 weeks healthily. Thanks.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Does age really matter..she's 27 and I'm 22?

I suppose it's better than 18 and 13 or whatever but..I'm also wondering if 5 years really matters when it comes to early to late 20's. Should I even try?

Anonymous

(36-45)

My husband takes me for granted?

we are married for 18mnths now...from sometime whatever I tell of suggest or opine he doesn't listen..or if he listens he gets pissed off and tells "i am losing my credibility"..the same thing his friend suggested and he...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

A Girl Playfully Bit Me?

So I was hanging out with my female cousin and her hot female friend. We were talking and I was telling her that my girlfriend I kinda split up. After that we started joking around where I lightly hit her across the head...

ElPapi

Xper 5 Age: 36

Dating

Sloppy drunk kissing?

I made out with my guy friend a few times when we were really really drunk. I don't remember half of what happened. But I do remember I was a sloppy kisser that night. Would he judge my kissing based on the night? Or know...

Beth99

Xper 5 Age: 33

Break Up & Divorce

Closure letter to ex boyfriend after breakup - is it ok?

My ex and I broke up after almost 2 years together. The breakup was my fault entirely (no I didn't cheat). It's been almost 4 months since then and he was kind enough to have a talk with me recently because he understood...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do you think people tend to dislike people who can be considered "goody-goodies" or "goody-two-shoes"?

We all know those people that don't break ANY rules / laws, don't do anything "risky" / "crazy", don't do any drugs (including tobacco / alcohol), always aim to excel in their schoolwork or job... ... ... ...and...

Prof_Don

Master Age: 40

Should I spend the night with my boyfriend?

so, I've been dating my boyfriend a couple of months, and recently he invited me to his best friend's surprise party. some people are spending the night since it's his friend's 21st birthday and there's going to be a lot...

supervixxen

Xper 6 Age: 33

Break Up & Divorce

If my boyfriend broke up with me because I decided to wait until marriage do I have the right to be mad?

If my boyfriend broke up with me because I decided to wait until marriage do I have the right to be mad ?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Do girls check out guys??

This is a serious question do girls bother checking out guys why or why not? I thought girls didn't care about looks so why would they check guys out?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

Victoria's Secret vs. Aerie: which is your favorite?

Don't get me wrong, I love both of these stores and I think they both have great stuff, but which one do you think has better quality bras? Better quality underwear? The best sweats and casual clothes? Let me know what...

Shabambam

Xper 5 Age: 31

Which do you find sexier girls? A bodybuilder or and MMA fighter?

A bodybuilder or an MMA fighter? Just a silly random question to settle a debate between me and my friend. One of us is an MMA fighter, the other is a bodybuilder, but I'm not gonna say which is which until I get answers...

Anonymous

(30-35)

When you use the word 'dumbass'?

I'm asking because English is not my first language.. does that mean dumb + a**hole ? what's the actual usage ? i looked up dictionary but when I see TV show native speakers seems to use differently. thanks

Anonymous

(36-45)

That 'one' girl/guy that gives you butterflies?

Ever just spotted that one person that you can't help but glance over at several times and actually have a genuine "thing" going for them? What makes them so attractive and special in your eyes? Guys, what qualities...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

Earrings on my boyfriend, no?

my boyfriend wears earrings on both ears and it makes me feel sick as I think they should be on girls but even though I don't say anything it bothers me so much but wouldn't if it was only on one ear so should I tell him...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Why is she contacting me after she said she couldn't date me?

So I had a great fling with a girl this past summer. We knew each other a little and went out and hit it off. Reason that it remained a fling was that she was moving 1000 miles away. So she moved and we stayed in touch....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Is Taylor Swift's "you belong with me" a rip off of Saving Jane's "girl next door"?

girl next door by saving jane, came out in 2005: https://www.YouTube.com/watch?v=P7DJ9yqydsA chorus goes: She is the prom queen I'm in the Marching band She is a cheerleader I'm sitting in the stands She gets the top...

starryeyedbabe

Xper 5 Age: 32

"Maybe I'll see you there" ...what does maybe mean!?

I was telling this guy I like about an group I am intending on joining. He said he likes that too and would like to join. Since then he he brings it up every once and awhile and says "maybe I'll see you there." When you...

harveykinkle

Yoda Age: 41

Break Up & Divorce

How can I stop hoping he will come back to me?

My ex and I only just broke up on Friday. We broke up because he was going through stuff and couldn't give me what I needed for the relationship to work. Neither of us wanted it and it was so hard. I told him I need...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when a guy says "you look really nice today"?

There's this guy in my class and every time he sees me he tells me I look nice! And I just keep saying "thank you" For some reason, I thought it meant he has a crush on me too since he compliments me all the time! Lol! Oh...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Shopping & Gifts

How many pages on average can you read in 1 hour?

I think I'm a really slow reader because I want to take my time to understand the material. I love reading non-fiction genres particularly on world culture and psychology. In 1 hour, I can only read about 20~25 pages in...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Ask a girl out and she says yes, but later she changes her mind?

Hi, This girl has been flirting with me for a while now, so I start talking to her and after talking to her a couple of times I ask her out and get her phone number (she says yes). Then 2 days later when I arrange for us...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do you ignore pretty girls?

Why do average looking, normal guys ignore pretty girls? (I mean I know personality is key, but you don't even approach her or smile at her) Why?

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to know when a girl wants you to approach them?

Ladies, what are the subtle hints that us guys might be missing? Often times, we pick up the wrong cues, and choose the skank over the cute shy girl in the corner that doesn't have it in her to approach us first.

6Paul11

Yoda Age: 37

Family & Friends

I feel embarrassed being the only single child?

Both of my sisters have boyfriends and it embarrasses me that I am the only sibling without a boyfriend. My parents make comments on it all of the time and my sisters always invite their boyfriends over to family dinners....

mccollins

Xper 7 Age: 33

Trading pictures?

IF your a coupple and you trade pictures is that OK ? IF a guy likes you and asks for a picture but doesn't send ..what does it mean ? IF you are ex boyfriend and gf and he wants a picture of you and you send and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Nobody really approves of my boyfriend?

i was with my boyfriend for a year and a half before he split up with me. I won't deny that he broke my heart and I was so upset over it for ages. he quickly got together with another girl. naturally my parents/friends...

Anonymous

(36-45)

He said I'm girlfriend material?

"i see you as girlfriend material, derfor it wouldn't be bad with us exchanging some pictures" - came from my ex (he broke up with me ) good or bad ?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Asking for a girls number?

whenever I ask for a girl's number that I have a crush on or I'm flirting with, I always get some hesitation, then an okay. then when I call them, they don't pick up, LOL. so, whenever I ask to exchange numbers or to get...

sportdistant

Xper 3 Age: 39